Naku and AS confrontation! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

@Adi, I don't have any doubts on whether she has the "right to information" or not...She does!! I dont have any doubts that she shld seek for answers as the future/current(this status would always confuse us!! 😆😆) DIL...With Dutta and Naku thinking about a future together, have taken steps to move towards that direction, she automatically gets rights to all the secrets and information in his life and vice versa!!...So, I have no questions about it....I dont mind her being curious and asking AS about the secrets....My issue was the "demanding tone"....My issue was the words used by her, something like, "You would have to give me answers" or smethng!!!....I dnt think she deserved to use tht tone with her secret lurkign behind!! I totally agree, that AS was tryign to hide the secret forever and NAKU anyways intends to tell him, "One day" (probably when he wuld become blind due to old age and it woudlnt matter anymore whether she is fair or dark!! 😆) but nevertheless, she defn has all intentions to tell him!!!...And that is not my problem....as I said, I dnt have issue with her seeking information...AS reaction that Naku has witnessed since last week, definitely calls for snooping and investigating....but my problem is the tone!!!....She never appreciated the same tone used on her by others like Baaji for instance, he asked her to reveal the truth in the shed!!....or..Dutta had begged her just before CP's entry to tell him the truth, and what did she have to say - "Mein Kya bolegi saab"...I mean what???😲😲😲...that has to be the most insulting, hilarious and out-of-place line ever...can make anyone reach the edge bcoz of tht....You, who has always verbally confessed your love for me from the roof top, just ran away from my proposal and u have no explanation??? and u r wondering "what possibly can be said for this mess????"...this has to be the most preposterous response!!!😲😡.....Imagine if AS tells her the same thing - "Naku, Mein kya bolegi?".....wouldn't it be enough to go and bang ur head in frustration????.......This is what I meant by the tone....She needs to see herself in the mirror before she uses "demanding" tone!!!

I am not trying to make her commit two wrongs, I am trying to make her understand that she is dng one wrong and is moving deeper into it and I am trying to make her mind her tone based on her own conscience!! I am not stopping her from investigating the AS's secret!!!

Also, I strongly believe that you can never hide truth from the subject...he would eventually come to know and the more u delay, the worse the consequences.....Babi having issues in revealing, well, I will better not touch upon tht topic because then I would totally kill Babi😡😡....Not sure whether that woman nowadays even knows what she wants in life......I expected her to be happy for Naku, that finally Naku has found her happiness and finally the time has come when Babi can "happily" remove the soot from Naku's face and "free her daughter" from this prison!!!....She would be more than happy to do it....Wasnt she the one who told Naku long time back tht when she finds a suitable guy for her, she herself wuld take the onus to remove the soot!!!....Well,My blood boils to even think about Babi in tears and eating her paloo!! She can curse Dutta for "freeing" Naku from this marriage but when he wants to go ahead with this wedding, she doesnt want her daughter to remove the soot as tht wuld destroy her happines...How is she planning to keep tht secret from dutta forever, after the marriage???

But I do object to Naku, waiting infinitely for her mom to come to terms with the whole change and then a green signal from her mom to reveal the one secret on which Dutta has had a right for a long time....But I guess, as someone put it before, I have become "immune" to this whole FR thing....I am now OK, whenever FR happens...I just feel tht the need of the hour is Tasha scene....They have to yet reach the zenith of their relationship...they have jsut started......

Originally posted by: prettywoman

chinta nakko kar DD. aur bhi 3 din hain before SP darshan for our heroiune to do maram patti of her saab's dil😆 seriously i am hoping she will calm him down now and stay with him and they explore a new phase in their relationship.. waise DD, shayad tumhe pata nahin.. ahem ahem.. meine bhi ek raaz khol diya hain forum mein.. something even nakku could not do so far😆 mein Vaish nahin, actually Vandana hoon. call me Vandu.. Vaish was one of the names in contention when i was being named and so used that.. but ab yeh forum is like 2nd home, so came clean, unlike nakku who needs help from all quraters including heaven and earth😡😆

Originally posted by: Anu-Reddy

DD, thanks for opening this post yaar. I have lot to ramble on this. Havent read ur post fully either. Will come back to it in couple of hours and put forth my anger 🤣.

Originally posted by: gp00

I agree with you DD. I've said it before as well, that Naku's behavior gives me a headache. I gravitate between feeling a bit sad for her and then wanting to grab her by her hair and tell her to get lost. That's not healthy.🤣

Look, at the end of the day, we can try to explain it away, saying poor thing is scared, poor thing hasn't had a good life or strong guidance from elders, her heart is pure, she feels helpless, etc. But let's call a spade a spade. She is a liar or "withholder of truth", whichever you prefer. Every week that goes by makes her look like she does not respect the value, the absolute necessity of truth. It's the right thing to do. We ourselves owe the truth to others about ourselves. It's as if she doesn't want to make a decision, so now it's in the hands of her mom and Bappa.

Oh, my head, my head...told you.🤣 Perhaps, I'm being as dramatic as Naku here...not!

Before Dutta agreed for marriage, Naku had once said that, "Hum achche pati patni banke dikhaayenge"...Babi had cursed Dutta for nullifying the marriage.....So, when Poor Dutta does anything wrong, a finger is pointed at him instantly....but when he finally wants to make things right, finally when he wants to give this marriage a chance, these ppl enter the guilty zone...Daughter runs away from venue and mother wants the daughter to always dawn the magical soot tht has the power to never come out even in the face of marriage consummation....I am not criticizing Naku for her reaction on running away from the venue, probably it was justified to a certain extent because she had not revealed the truth yet....but from pure Dutta's POV, Imagine, how confused wuld he get..........Meine ab kya kiya?? Maa ne mujhe curse kiyaa tha, beti wanted to be idle pati-patni, toh ab kya huaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa??????????????

Chal, I will take u back to PARIS!! ...I guess we forgot Eva in Paris because she is missing since then!!

Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

Hi Guys,

I saw the precap and few things popped in my mind about Naku!! I would love to hear, how many people relate to Nake here and how many think her weaknesses are popping up!!

Anu :: Precap is definetly worth discussion. So lets see what u have written 😆 and uspe hum karenge round table charcha 😆

In todays episode, she made it more clear that she can never think of questioning AS....The way Dutta trusts AS, she also does...and that makes sense....she doesnt see what we do, so, If I was in her place, I too would have trusted AS's decision and her when it comes to Dutta!!!....And the forewarning about Naku's marriage, has definitely made her weakness surge up!!....Her insecurities are also deepening, after all she has somethign to loose now....

Anu ::That to me seems to be the ONLY reason why she backed off. But doesnt that seem so not like Nakku?. I mean isnt she the same person who never claimed Dutta's love?. But when that same "love" is at stake then she is backing off. Seems a bit selfish from Nakku's side. Where did that Nakku disappear who claimed Dutta is her chaand, and all she needs to is shower in that chandini?. Oh how I adored her that day and now she seems so different.

But I am a little off with the PRECAP...Especially the way Naku demands answers from AS....Kind of reminded me how she is keeping a secret and yet making someone else reveal the truth "because holding the truth can be catastrophic for PN"!!...

Anu :: ha ha ha ...........that was my face when I saw that precap. Haila look who is talking 😆. Now srsly for a person the secret they hold is imp to them. They have some majboori which only they can understand. So how can she ask AS to spill it out , claiming that the truth will shake the PN?. As if her truth wont do the honors 😆. Hypocrite kahin ki 😡. That was so uncalled for from Nakku. She better shut her mouth in this case.

She knows her truth would have the same repercussions....Probabaly AS also has an equally valid reason for keeping mum....With Naku's secret lurking in the back of her mind, her demand sounded unjust to me!! She can be curious, concerned for Dutta, I would agree on being a little snoopy too, but the way she demanded, put me off...Immediately made me retort - "Dude, you yourself are hiding a truth...You urself havent answered Dutta's question, he too demanded answers from u, but u have been mum till now, then if u think, u have a valid reason, then give the benefit of doubt to AS too!!!"...

Anu :: Wahi tho 😡. I mean what was Dutta doing all this while? . Banging his head over Nakku's secret and yet she didnt tell him. Wow and today she is asking AS to let it out? Sply when the person is claiming that it can shake the basic neev of PN? Kya bakwaas hai. Why are the CVs making us hate Nakku day by day?.Unhe bhi patha chel gaya kya that we can hold at the most three ppl in our heart and now that Roops is making her entry into our hearts, Nakku might want to exit is it? 😆. Jks apart, this so doesnt sound like Nakku. I mean why would she want to get so nosy? . If her mom has her reasons to keep her secret off Dutta, wont AS have her reasons?. How come her reason is more justified then AS's? . Srsly this girl has gone nuts . Someone just send some brain her way pls.

Probably it's just me!! But I am a sucker for transparency in a relationship and I believe thats the most important foundation for building trust!...Also, I don't think you can ever hide the truth!...You can stall the truth and the rising turmoil because of it, but you can never avoid it altogether, for whole life...No matter what/how and to what extent, Naku or AS hide the secrets, Dutta will definitely come face to face with these bitter truths of his life one day and he has to face these daemons strongly and patiently....Postponing it, only makes it worst!!!

Sach ki naav, hilegi doolegi, par doobegi nahi!! Kabhie nahi!!!!

Anu :: Exactly and so well put. Sply the truth that Nakku is hiding is ought to come out , unless scientists come out with a way to romance ppl standing 1 feet apart and yet get on with human race 😆 😉. Sry I cant put it more explicitly than that 😆. Anyways coming back to the pt, srsly how can she claim for truth when she herself is gonna be responsible for a big havoc in her saab's life. She had so many chances to spill the truth out. She had valid reasons for hiding the face. May be Dutta can understand her POV and even forgive her mistake. May be AS has no such chance, We dont know. So why and how can she ask for an explanation. She better shut her mouth tomorrow, warna its my update again tomorrow and uski tho khair nahin hogi 😆

What Dutta needs is a strong wall of faith and trust in his relationships that are in its tender stages! This is the time when Naku and Dutta should explore their relationship further! They might have accepted their love, might have taken the decision to be together forever, but there are loads of unanswered questions and that can still lurk around in their life...Without a proper closure they can surge back in the minds, in the form of doubts!!....Hence, the better they know each other, the more strength they would have in trusting each other in the face of impending doom and stand togetehr as one and fight it back...Unke relationship par toh jaise lock hi pad gaya hai....How would Dutta get strength to really analyze the reason why naku hid it from him the soot secret....Only when he has total trust!! I know, he eventualy would...and probabaly CVs want us to assume that they have already developed their relationship of love, trust and faith but a more visual representation will make the audience connect to it.....Assumption has never helped the viewers and the Soap!! We viewers need to feel it!

Anu :: The trust has always been from one side in TaSha's relationship. Dutta doesnt trust the way Nakku does. Ofcoruse why not, cant blame him. He hardly knows abt Nakku's thoughts, her past life, her feelings. He just drools over her, feels connected to her, understands her love for him and feels love .Thats it right now and for the "trust" factor to happen Nakku needs to let the truth out. I dont think we will be able to enjoy Dutta's trust on Nakku (even if CVs work on it) before Nakku lets him know of her truth. We always in the back of our minds will feel disconnected to that scenerio. I dont want CVs to even think abt that before the face revelation. Let Dutta mistrust Nakku after FR and then from there on he will learn to trust. I want FR to happen now. Its high time.

A little discontended with the way Tasha track is shaping....But totally satisfied with the way SP track is developing!!

Anu :: I agree and I think thats expected right now. TaSha wont happen unless FR happens. So let the FR happen and then we can enjoy "love filled with trust" .....

Throw in your heartfelt assurances...

Love u all,

DD

(Back from the mumbling and gagging! 😆😛😉)

Originally posted by: chochu15

Hi DD,

Me too quite irritated by the was Naku was demanding AS for revealing the secret.......Madam how did you feel when Baaji was demanding the same from you?????

She has kept her secret nicely locked up and now is demanding AS???Will she be so relenting when her own turns comes up????

Plus she is digging a deeper grave for herself.....now if AS reveals the Raaz to her, she surely will ask Naku to keep mum.....this is going to only add to her problems not lessen it by any standard!!!!!!! When Dutta comes to know that she knew about this ...... but did not bother to share it with him... he is going to hurt.....plus her own revealtion........does not look like a great scenario for thier future track!!!!!

I so much miss Tasha Scenes.... not just b'coz romance has evaporated from the show....but we really need them to spend some time togather....try to bulit a more solid base for their relationship.....their sharing time..talking..understanding each other is going to be very important factor in shaping up the future after the FR is done (when and if...)......So plese koi hamari sunlo.......please give some Tasha Moments...please.....

Originally posted by: Anu-Reddy

Anu ::That to me seems to be the ONLY reason why she backed off. But doesnt that seem so not like Nakku?. I mean isnt she the same person who never claimed Dutta's love?. But when that same "love" is at stake then she is backing off. Seems a bit selfish from Nakku's side. Where did that Nakku disappear who claimed Dutta is her chaand, and all she needs to is shower in that chandini?. Oh how I adored her that day and now she seems so different.

Anu, I think that's where one of the few weakness was introduced. Initially didnt have the reason to be selfish or be insecured but from the time she has attained an unattainable love, made an impossible love - possible, she wants to keep it closed and well guarded....This is making her insecured....

Anu :: ha ha ha ...........that was my face when I saw that precap. Haila look who is talking 😆. Now srsly for a person the secret they hold is imp to them. They have some majboori which only they can understand. So how can she ask AS to spill it out , claiming that the truth will shake the PN?. As if her truth wont do the honors 😆. Hypocrite kahin ki 😡. That was so uncalled for from Nakku. She better shut her mouth in this case.

😆😆😆😆.....Yeah, I did read many saying the same thing - "Look who is talking"...😆....Well, My issue is with her demanding tone and not with her seeking info...He is her hubby and she has all the right to know what can shake his foundation but she cannot "demand" ...she can ask, urge or plead but not demand!!!...Not till she has something in her kitty!!

Anu :: Wahi tho 😡. I mean what was Dutta doing all this while? . Banging his head over Nakku's secret and yet she didnt tell him. Wow and today she is asking AS to let it out? Sply when the person is claiming that it can shake the basic neev of PN? Kya bakwaas hai. Why are the CVs making us hate Nakku day by day?.Unhe bhi patha chel gaya kya that we can hold at the most three ppl in our heart and now that Roops is making her entry into our hearts, Nakku might want to exit is it? 😆. Jks apart, this so doesnt sound like Nakku. I mean why would she want to get so nosy? . If her mom has her reasons to keep her secret off Dutta, wont AS have her reasons?. How come her reason is more justified then AS's? . Srsly this girl has gone nuts . Someone just send some brain her way pls.

That is my issue Anu....I can accept Naku with weaknesses and still like her but don't introduce a weakness that shakes our belief in her basic characterization....of what she actually stands for....This is not fair...the Subtle hypocrisy is not her trait and can never be!!!

Anu :: Exactly and so well put. Sply the truth that Nakku is hiding is ought to come out , unless scientists come out with a way to romance ppl standing 1 feet apart and yet get on with human race 😆 😉. Sry I cant put it more explicitly than that 😆. Anyways coming back to the pt, srsly how can she claim for truth when she herself is gonna be responsible for a big havoc in her saab's life. She had so many chances to spill the truth out. She had valid reasons for hiding the face. May be Dutta can understand her POV and even forgive her mistake. May be AS has no such chance, We dont know. So why and how can she ask for an explanation. She better shut her mouth tomorrow, warna its my update again tomorrow and uski tho khair nahin hogi 😆

😆😆😆...I would love to read ur update today!! 😆😆

Naku, might intend to tell her truth, but her truth will also rock his belief and foundations initially...Thats no less!!....and Naku is not aware of the intensity of AS's truth....She is scared tht she might loose Dutta, in addition to AS loosing her kid, but Naku also thinks tht she would loose Dutta even when she reveals her truth!! So, as of today, there isnt much difference.....

My point is Anu, that you might be trying to make one thing right, but ur other wrong cannot be compensated for one right....u have to think ur wrong also in the same light as u r thinking about this right!!!

Anu :: The trust has always been from one side in TaSha's relationship. Dutta doesnt trust the way Nakku does. Ofcoruse why not, cant blame him. He hardly knows abt Nakku's thoughts, her past life, her feelings. He just drools over her, feels connected to her, understands her love for him and feels love .Thats it right now and for the "trust" factor to happen Nakku needs to let the truth out. I dont think we will be able to enjoy Dutta's trust on Nakku (even if CVs work on it) before Nakku lets him know of her truth. We always in the back of our minds will feel disconnected to that scenerio. I dont want CVs to even think abt that before the face revelation. Let Dutta mistrust Nakku after FR and then from there on he will learn to trust. I want FR to happen now. Its high time.

Anu :: I agree and I think thats expected right now. TaSha wont happen unless FR happens. So let the FR happen and then we can enjoy "love filled with trust" .....

You know Anu, u brought a very good point...I had recently watched an awesome Pak serial...The couple falls in love and get married...But the Vidaai doesnt happen as the gal wants to finish her studies, so the guy goes back to US. In US he tells his friend that he has found a gem, a very paak gal who can never do anythign wrong...The friend asks him that if she cheats him, would he forgive her? The gal bluntly replies that the gal can never cheat...she is so paak that the cheating and she can never be in same place....he is so confident and he has full trust her that no matter what happens, even if an impossible thing suddenly becomes possible, this gal can never ever cheat...thats the level of trust he had.....but read on Anu....only to come back next year and take her with him permanently....But the guy's mom doesnt like her so she lays a trap...when the guy comes back after a year and is admant to take the gal with him, she makes the gal go into a room and sends a thrid guy in the same room and locks the door...she then calls the whole family to see that the gal is "bachalan" and is cheating on her son...Everyone believes her, although the gal keeps shouting fromt he roof top that she is innocent...The hubby was not in town...The gal is beaten black and blue publicly and isolated by her inlaws and her own mom and sister....Noone believes her...She waits for the whole night for the guy to return because she knows her love will make him understand and believe in her...She has full confidence, that he would get back her repo....He comes back next day, is informed by his mom about this and that was when the the guy was put to real test....He tells his mom tht he cannot pass a verdict without listening to her side of story...The mom gets scared....he goes and talks to her and she tells him the whole truth...That involved his mom...He doesnt believe her when she takes his mom's name and asks her to prove herself.....well, I wuldnt tell u the whole story (this is the serial, i recommended u), but my point was, that u might think u trust ur love...U defn have feelings....but when ur trust is put to test, how well do u fare??? That can happen only when u have interacted with each other, have understood what the other basically is capable of and what he isnt....That helps fare the test....and that is what I want Dutta and Naku have to build...He doesnt know anything about her....He just drools...he knows this gal has fared all her tests....but a little deviation in his understanding, can deter him...drooling et al, doesnt work....spend time together.....and Anu, tests are given after u r prepared, u dnt read ur lessons, afetr the test, but before it....Tasha scenes are required before the tests for them to get prepared for the test...and not after tht! FR is a test but Tasha hasnt been shown preparing for it suffficiently to pass it...I know Dutta would fare well in the test, I just want to be convinced of his reaction that he was justified in faring well!!!

Originally posted by: Anu-Reddy

But the more TaSha we will have the deeper Dutta will sink into depression .He will consider all that fake from Nakku's side. So Iam ok with no TaSha until FR. Dutta ka insanity hum log dekh nahin sakenge. Then I will srsly have to get some cotton and stuff my ears and then use my headphoens on top of it 😆

Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

Vandu...Achchaa.....see, we forgive u....for ther love that we have for u + the faith that we have in you, we immediately forgive u....see how wasy it was....🤣🤣 Well Vandu...Naku would be with him, stick to his thick and thin....be his support and I am curious to see how she would be his shield!!!....But she would be..She can do anything for Dutta and she would make the right choice soon, once she realizes the truth!!

I definitely trust her reactions to "other ppl's secret" that have potential to harm Dutta!! 😉😛....so, dont worry...she wuld get him out of the storm and show him the right way!! BTW, I am writing an OS on this now....sh;ld be up by weekend!! 😉