Diff. B/w ganga and nandini coming back - Page 3

Tanya is wrong is she wanted to take care of Bhumi so she can do this without marrying Karan understand.& Nandini left all that becoz that Tanya.There is no fault in Karan Nandini.Its Tanya fault

Originally posted by: desiflavour101

look, no 1 is saying karan is not at fault, he is at fault, just as much as tanya is when it came to betraying nandani. he got his punishment: N leaving him and not coming back to him for 20 years, thats the worst punishment karan can ever get which is why he isnt happy because he is miserable without her.

now 1 thing i want to mention to you since you seem to be forgetting is that: Karan has always told tanya that she will NOT come before Nandani nor will she be able to take that spot in his life and heart that belongs EXCLUSIVELY TO NANDANI. he said this before leap when she came back to him after he got out of jail and nandani went to jail.

NOW, since post-leap they have only shown us karan being angry and upset, because he partially blames tanya for being responsible for nandani not coming back to him. which is true, because in order to repay tanya back for all the favors she did for nandani, nandani didn't want to spoil tanya's marriage, which is WHY she left.

post-leap, they have shown arguments b/n karan-tanya. in which tanya has TOLD KARAN THAT SHE WILL LEAVE HIM AFTER nandani comes back to him. in this argument, IT WAS SHOWN THAT THEY HAVE HAD THIS ARGUMENT MANY TIMES, BUT SHOWN JUST ONCE TO INDICATE TO VIEWRS THAT THIS ARGUMENT HAS TAKEN PLACE REPEATEDLY.

again post leap they have shown that the MAIN reason why karan is so attached to bhoomis BECAUSE she is nandani's daughter.

post-leap, THEY HAVE shown karan telling tulsi that he is all alone in this world, ever since she and nandani left him. which goes to show that in the past 20 years, TANYA COULD NEVER MAKE A PLACE IN KARAN'S HEART.

they have EVEN SHOWN MANTHAN telling tanya that karan will ALWAYS CHOOSE NANDANI BEFORE HER. what does that say? that even their kids know THAT NANDANI COMES FIRST FOR KARAN.

WORSE: they have shown tanya crying to N's picture asking her to come back and then TANYA BLAMING NANDANI FOR HER LIFE BEING A MESS, BECAUSE NANDANI LEFT THEM.

and then when the time has come for tanya to follow her word, SHE IS BECOMING SELFISH. she already has told karan that she will leave him SO WHY is she acting up now.

NO 1 FORCED TANYA TO MARRY KARAN AND ACCEPT 2ND POSITION IN HIS LIFE. SHE ACCEPTED THIS POSITION BY HER OWN CHOICE. thats where her MAIN fault is and WHY I CANNOT EVER SYMPATHIZE WITH A WOMAN WHO CHOOSES TO BE 2ND IN A MAN'S LIFE AND THEN DARES TO CRY ABOUT IT, ACTING AS IF SHE HAD NO CHOICE.

i would rather live alone for the rest of my than accept the 2nd position as a wife in a man's life. and i would say that any female member who has self-respect and dignity will agree with me. why should a woman choose to live life as a 2nd wife? why?

more, i 👏 👏 for nandani not going back to karan. why because why should she compromise because karan made a mistake. she stepped away permanently and left them 2 alone. its not her fault that karan hasn't forgotten about her. she gave karan away when she went to jail and put their hands togethr and told them to be together. right then, she had made the decision that she will NOT come back to them.

but what upsets most of us is the fact that NOT once has the virani family shown any concern for her or for KN's child. they NEVER visited her when she went to jail, not even tulsi. WORSE, they treated her like a burden when she came back from the coma.

tulsi along with adding gray to her hair, seems to have forgotten that N was pregnant when she went to jail.

THATS THE main issue with us and the viranis. at least ask about her or mention some concern about her, instead of treating her like a disease.

as for relationships breaking when karan wanting to bring her home, what relationship are they talking about?

Damini herself has said that because of N's memories, k and t have never come close and the distance b/n them 2 is widened.

karan has made his feelings clear to tanya repeatedly and both of them are so miserable, it has DISILLUSIONED BHOOMI AND MANTHAN ABOUT LOVE. THEIR SOUR RELATIONSHIP HAS EFFECTED THEIR children.

more, karan was never tanya's. she has a spot in his heart as a best friend and support system. tanya should learn that if 20 yrs cannot change karan's feelings for her, then nothing ever can.

MORE: you cannot force some1 to love you. which is what tanya should know by now. tanya should realize that she cannot force karan to stay with her. and karan has served his punishment for betraying nandani.

so what relationship are they talking about breaking?

i only feel pity for a woman like tanya because she is ruining her self-respect and dignity by clinging to a man who will never be hers. who was hers once but as a compromise. and the result of that compromise is manthan and her sour relationship with karan. but it doesn't mean i like her.

no matter what, she is the 2nd woman by choice not by circumstances.

nandani faced her circumstance: either share karan with tanya as a compromise and be unhappy forever or go away and live alone, leaving karan-tanya alone. and she has left forever. she won't come back to Sn ever again, esp not as karan's wife. it will take something drastic for her to go back to SN.

humaira

very well said👏.i agree with u completely

I agree but nandini should come back

Well i think they had forgotten before the leap that nandini n karan did not have a dovorce but she was in coma so automatically tania n karans marriage was illegal.So nandini is still the legal wife of karan as she even came out of coma n tanya is the illegal wife therefore nandimi has the right to stay with karan. So incase she comes back n wants to stay with karan tanaya cannot do anything n neither can manthan since.

I think Ekta Kapoor really needs to learn the legalities before getting people married to 2/3 people.

i agree..
its karan's fault to marry tanya
& there is big difference in btw tanya & tripti

karan is only the one to be blamed

Originally posted by: desiflavour101

look, no 1 is saying karan is not at fault, he is at fault, just as much as tanya is when it came to betraying nandani. he got his punishment: N leaving him and not coming back to him for 20 years, thats the worst punishment karan can ever get which is why he isnt happy because he is miserable without her. now 1 thing i want to mention to you since you seem to be forgetting is that: Karan has always told tanya that she will NOT come before Nandani nor will she be able to take that spot in his life and heart that belongs EXCLUSIVELY TO NANDANI. he said this before leap when she came back to him after he got out of jail and nandani went to jail. NOW, since post-leap they have only shown us karan being angry and upset, because he partially blames tanya for being responsible for nandani not coming back to him. which is true, because in order to repay tanya back for all the favors she did for nandani, nandani didn't want to spoil tanya's marriage, which is WHY she left. post-leap, they have shown arguments b/n karan-tanya. in which tanya has TOLD KARAN THAT SHE WILL LEAVE HIM AFTER nandani comes back to him. in this argument, IT WAS SHOWN THAT THEY HAVE HAD THIS ARGUMENT MANY TIMES, BUT SHOWN JUST ONCE TO INDICATE TO VIEWRS THAT THIS ARGUMENT HAS TAKEN PLACE REPEATEDLY. again post leap they have shown that the MAIN reason why karan is so attached to bhoomis BECAUSE she is nandani's daughter. post-leap, THEY HAVE shown karan telling tulsi that he is all alone in this world, ever since she and nandani left him. which goes to show that in the past 20 years, TANYA COULD NEVER MAKE A PLACE IN KARAN'S HEART. they have EVEN SHOWN MANTHAN telling tanya that karan will ALWAYS CHOOSE NANDANI BEFORE HER. what does that say? that even their kids know THAT NANDANI COMES FIRST FOR KARAN. WORSE: they have shown tanya crying to N's picture asking her to come back and then TANYA BLAMING NANDANI FOR HER LIFE BEING A MESS, BECAUSE NANDANI LEFT THEM. and then when the time has come for tanya to follow her word, SHE IS BECOMING SELFISH. she already has told karan that she will leave him SO WHY is she acting up now. NO 1 FORCED TANYA TO MARRY KARAN AND ACCEPT 2ND POSITION IN HIS LIFE. SHE ACCEPTED THIS POSITION BY HER OWN CHOICE. thats where her MAIN fault is and WHY I CANNOT EVER SYMPATHIZE WITH A WOMAN WHO CHOOSES TO BE 2ND IN A MAN'S LIFE AND THEN DARES TO CRY ABOUT IT, ACTING AS IF SHE HAD NO CHOICE. i would rather live alone for the rest of my than accept the 2nd position as a wife in a man's life. and i would say that any female member who has self-respect and dignity will agree with me. why should a woman choose to live life as a 2nd wife? why?

more, i 👏👏for nandani not going back to karan. why because why should she compromise because karan made a mistake. she stepped away permanently and left them 2 alone. its not her fault that karan hasn't forgotten about her. she gave karan away when she went to jail and put their hands togethr and told them to be together. right then, she had made the decision that she will NOT come back to them.

but what upsets most of us is the fact that NOT once has the virani family shown any concern for her or for KN's child. they NEVER visited her when she went to jail, not even tulsi. WORSE, they treated her like a burden when she came back from the coma.

tulsi along with adding gray to her hair, seems to have forgotten that N was pregnant when she went to jail.

THATS THE main issue with us and the viranis. at least ask about her or mention some concern about her, instead of treating her like a disease.

as for relationships breaking when karan wanting to bring her home, what relationship are they talking about?

Damini herself has said that because of N's memories, k and t have never come close and the distance b/n them 2 is widened.

karan has made his feelings clear to tanya repeatedly and both of them are so miserable, it has DISILLUSIONED BHOOMI AND MANTHAN ABOUT LOVE. THEIR SOUR RELATIONSHIP HAS EFFECTED THEIR children.

more, karan was never tanya's. she has a spot in his heart as a best friend and support system. tanya should learn that if 20 yrs cannot change karan's feelings for her, then nothing ever can.

MORE: you cannot force some1 to love you. which is what tanya should know by now. tanya should realize that she cannot force karan to stay with her. and karan has served his punishment for betraying nandani.

so what relationship are they talking about breaking?

i only feel pity for a woman like tanya because she is ruining her self-respect and dignity by clinging to a man who will never be hers. who was hers once but as a compromise. and the result of that compromise is manthan and her sour relationship with karan. but it doesn't mean i like her.

no matter what, she is the 2nd woman by choice not by circumstances.

nandani faced her circumstance: either share karan with tanya as a compromise and be unhappy forever or go away and live alone, leaving karan-tanya alone. and she has left forever. she won't come back to Sn ever again, esp not as karan's wife. it will take something drastic for her to go back to SN.humaira

very well said.
👏

tulsi had forced karan 2 marry tanya!

nope tulsi hadnt forced karan to marry tanya...she didnt do it.
karan is a emotional fool as he himself has proved a lot many times..hence i wud rather question tanya tht why she chose to b the 2nd wife in karan's life?being a best frnd she was in a position to understand wht karan nandini meant 4 each other..then whts all this fuss abt the relationship which actually never xisted.if karan married tanya n has 2 live with her 4 duties's sake wht abt nandini?she was his first wife after all.so she has more rights than tanya had neday...if he starts being dutiful towards nandini as he is towards tanya then nobody's to blame and tanya of all people shud understand this...she's simply losin all her dignity 4 the wrong reasons...n only she's to blame.
no1 can force you to marry unless u want it..tanya had her own selfish reasons.
ganga may hav been thrown out of sn by force but nandini was also thrown out not by force but by emotions.
reasons may b different but both ganga n nandini suffered 4 no fault of theirs...c if ganga is so desparate 2 meet her children just imagine nandini's plight...she must b goin thru hell...tanya's pain is all self-made but nandini's is all circumstancial...i hope i c her happy sumday. 😊

i agree with gauri misha. tanya's life is miserable because she made the decision. she didn't have to marry karan, and she was right there when karan refused to marry her. but yet she still went along. if she was a true friend to nandani like she claims to be, she would have refused to marry karan and stay by karan's side as his friend. so her circumstances she has created on her own.

and karan has changed!

humaira