Diff. B/w ganga and nandini coming back - Page 4

Originally posted by: prana9

totally agree

i agree too

Interesting discussion and my two cents.....

For how long would Tanya take care of Bhumi as a friend of Nandini?
She had her own life to live. And suppose she did get married to someone other than Karan, who would look after Bhumi then?
The mahaan Virani parivaar? Or Karan who seemed to hate Bhumi's very existence?
What did did Tanya have over Nandini and Karan's child if she was just Nandini's friend?

I think Tanya's made the biggest sacrifice of them all...
Nandini and Karan did have each other's love for atleast some time.....But Tanya's love went unrequited
She sacrificed her whole existence as a woman to bring up another's child....Whether she did a good job or not is a different issue altogether.

nice post...and to sum extent i do agree with u..

but wen nandini came back...and tanya left the house...why did tanya keep calling karan?? i noe she loves him...and i noe he too developed sum feelings for her..

but if she really wanted the well being of them...and did leave the house...she shudn't have kept calling him...and letting him noe where she lives...she even came back wen the whole gujral mystery was going on...

im sure tanya must've knew that if she comes back..questions wud arise...bhoomi's attraction towards her wud make nandini feel bad...but styl she came back...

i agree she held the family 2gether...and i agree karan married her for bhoomi's sake....but wen he married her...bhoomi was like 5 years old...wat did tanya do that the other women in the house cudnt do??? if tanya married him wen bhoomi was just born..and fed bhoomi her own milk..den i wud understand...but at the age of 5?? cudnt damini, ganga, tulsi or a grandmothers take care of bhoomi?? ok maybe bhoomi needed more attention...and those women wud be involved in their families....but does that mean that karan had to MARRY her?? the way she was part of the family earlier..she cudve took care of bhoomi without marriage....if she really cared about bhoomi...

but she wanted to be with karan the most...she cudve thut that karan is onli nandini's...if i marry him i will be breaking nandini's trust...but no....she took bhoomi as an excuse and married him...and that doofus karan...cant believe he actuall agreed...i thut he was abit more smart for all this!! (i love karan...he's my fav character in this serial...and my fav actor as well...so no hard feelings)

about tripti...she is just evil...she ruined ganga and sahil's marriage on purpose...we all knew of her plans..and so this wasnt a surprise...wat more can u expect from her? ganga being forced out of the house becuz of tripti is understandable...

but tanya??? she was a good fwen of nandini...her best fwen...they were like sisters....and den nandini's life being ruined by her best fwen?? wat rong had nandini done?? nandini's been thru so much in her life...

first her love sacrificed her for his mom and brother...
den her hubby tortures her like nething...snatches all her happiness away from her..
den she is raped in an unknown country by her own hubby...
later she becomes pregnant as a result of the rape...
den finally wen she see's sum happiness blooming in her life with karan's presense...she delivers and goes into coma..
she comes out of coma and her daughter calls her massi..
she is den kicked out of the house by her mother-in-law..
she goes to jail for killing aditya gujral...who was a threat to her family...while she was pregnant..
den she finds out that her beloved hubby has been married to her best fwen..

we're not saying ganga shudnt come back in the house...ofcourse she shud...but wat happened with ganga was becuz of a stranger (tripti) and her grandmother (who never really like ganga in the first place)...ganga was hurt...i agree

but nandini was cheated by her best fwen!! which hurts more..

but u noe...their pains shud not be compared...cuz no matter for wat reason u are cheated...u are cheated...no 1 cheating is more hurting than the other...both ganga and nandini have been cheated..

tripti shud be thrown out of the house....and as for tanya...she shud just understand herself that karan belongs onli to nandini...she is just wasting her time

The difference between Ganga's comeback and Nandini's is that todate Tripti has not been accepted by the family whereas Tanya is pretty much a part of the household. Tripti has always schemed against the members of the household and Tanya may not have been a great housewife but has integrated herself well in the household matters. If we have to leave the decision only to the family, Ganga is a shadow of Tulsi only, hence she will find easier acceptance rather all the members want her back, but it is hard for them to accept Nandini over Tanya coz Nandini never enjoyed the same position as Ganga.

Originally posted by: goldenword

The difference between Ganga's comeback and Nandini's is that todate Tripti has not been accepted by the family whereas Tanya is pretty much a part of the household. Tripti has always schemed against the members of the household and Tanya may not have been a great housewife but has integrated herself well in the household matters. If we have to leave the decision only to the family, Ganga is a shadow of Tulsi only, hence she will find easier acceptance rather all the members want her back, but it is hard for them to accept Nandini over Tanya coz Nandini never enjoyed the same position as Ganga.

yup....which is unfair to nandini.....no???

Originally posted by: pateln_21

I totally AGREE!!!!!!

same😃

sigh, tanya loved karan despite knowing he loves Nandani only. If she was really all that sacrificing as everyone claims to be, then she would have said no to the marriage. but she said yes because this is her only chance to have karan and in her own selfish way she used bhoomi. she may claim that she did it to raise bhoomi but she always wanted karan.

before KN's marriage, she told K she loves him but he politely ignored it, as he loves N only. and then when K found out that Tanya helped Ansh to part him and N, he was very angry with her and refused to forgive her. but Nandani convicned Karan to forgive Tanya. and when KN were getting married, she was jealous and silently saying: I hope my eye doesn't cast a shadown on your happiness to N. she was NEVER HAPPY WITH KN GETTING MARRIED. IT WAS OBVIOUS FROM THE EXPRESSIONS ON HER FACE WHEN THEY WERE GETTING MARRIED.

as for Tanya, if she really is that mahaan, then she wouldn't call Karan to ask him to come to her when he would be at home with Nandani. she wouldn't let him come to her. instead she would force him to make the decision. she herself told him: she will share him but Nandani will not share him.

so if you really, REALLY think about it: what sacrifices has she made?

in the end, she paid for her deeds by Karan not being able to return her love when his mind and heart is solely dedicated to N's only.

K had also told her repeatedly that SHE cannot take N's place in his heart and life, yet she still accepted it. so really how many sacrifices has she made?

She got to marry the guy she loves. She got to stay with him for 20 years having the status as his wife despite their marraige being illegal and her son being legal as well. All thanks to Nandani. And now instead of thanking N for staying away she says she doesn't want N to come back, as her home will be ruined.

But what home is she talking about? How many times does K have to tell her that HE LOVES NANDANI ONLY.

humaira

Originally posted by: anut

Interesting discussion and my two cents.....

For how long would Tanya take care of Bhumi as a friend of Nandini?
She had her own life to live. And suppose she did get married to someone other than Karan, who would look after Bhumi then?
The mahaan Virani parivaar? Or Karan who seemed to hate Bhumi's very existence?
What did did Tanya have over Nandini and Karan's child if she was just Nandini's friend?

I think Tanya's made the biggest sacrifice of them all...
Nandini and Karan did have each other's love for atleast some time.....But Tanya's love went unrequited
She sacrificed her whole existence as a woman to bring up another's child....Whether she did a good job or not is a different issue altogether.

i completely agree, people shouldn't talk so badly about tanya. even im not happy with tanya for the way she's been acting, but what woman wouldn't behave the way she has been behaving if she was treated the way tanya has been treated by her husband for TWENTY YEARS???? but i also agree that she didnt raise her kids right. what happened to everything she learned from Tulsi? she completely ruined her kids, made them wayyyy tooooo arrogant, selfish, and materialistic. but then, no one is perfect, just like everyone else, tanya also has her faults. people shouldn't treat her like a villian though.

AGAIN: tanya knew what she was getting herself into. the only thing is at that time, she was convinced that she could make Karan forget about Nandani when she accepted the 2nd status. but in the post-leap of 20 yrs, they showed that she could never make a place in his heart as something of other than a good friend.

as for raising her kids, she has done an incredibly HORRIBLE JOB. she never scolds them when they are wrong and will instead comfort them when they are scolded by baa and karan. worse, when manthan says the right thing, she will only then scold him.

but to me, the worst part about raising her kids she's done is that putting aside her own differences with tripti, she raised her kids to be against sahil's kids just because they are poor, WHICH ISN'T FAIR.

again, SHE KNEW WHAT SHE WAS GETTING HERSELF INTO. before leap after nandani went to jail, KARAN TOLD HER THAT HE CANNOT GIVE HER NANDANI'S SPOT IN HIS LIFE AND IN HIS HEART. SHE TOLD HIM SHE UNDERSTANDS AND ITS ENOUGH FOR HER THAT SHE LOVES HIM. HE BECAME QUIET, VISITED NANDANI, AND TRIED TO COMPROMISE WITH HIS LIFE.

BUT THEN TULSI LEFT HIM, AND THE FINAL BLOW NANDANI NEVER RETURNED TO HIM. AND THEN HE CHANGED COMPLETELY.

Post leap: they have emphasized karan telling tanya that she isn't nandani nor can she take nandani's spot in his heart and soul which is clearly only Nandani's. Its her fault if she won't accept it.

humaira

Originally posted by: ChinuCheeti

i completely agree, people shouldn't talk so badly about tanya. even im not happy with tanya for the way she's been acting, but what woman wouldn't behave the way she has been behaving if she was treated the way tanya has been treated by her husband for TWENTY YEARS???? but i also agree that she didnt raise her kids right. what happened to everything she learned from Tulsi? she completely ruined her kids, made them wayyyy tooooo arrogant, selfish, and materialistic. but then, no one is perfect, just like everyone else, tanya also has her faults. people shouldn't treat her like a villian though.