Diff. B/w ganga and nandini coming back - Page 2

Originally posted by: komal_life

OH PLZ TANAYA IS SICK ABB SHE KNWS WELLKARAN LOVES NANDINI YET SHE ISNOT WILLING TOLEAVE HIM SO KARAN KA H ACCIDENT GOGAYA JAN CHUTI BECAHREY KI

How did his life get saved. he also agreed to marrying Tanya. and tanya did leave once nandini came back, and then she was brought back into the house by nandini. You can't just blame tanya, because Karan could have siad no to the marriage. Tanya did not force him to get married to her. When Nandini went into the coma, he didn't even want to look at bhoomis face because he blamed bhoomi for putting nandini into the coma. Then Tanya took care of a child that was neglected.

Kiran

Originally posted by: dsandher

I agree, but Nandani left because she probably did not want to hurt
Tanya.
The whole family cheated on Nandani even Tanya. Tanya only looked
after Bhoomi so she get close to Karen and also she loved him before he
married Nandani. Tanya cheated on nandani when she got Ansh and
Nandani together and separated Karen and Nandani, she played big part
in getting them together knowing that karen and nandani loved each
other. It was Tanya choice to take care of Bhoomi no one forced her. If
she was not around, I am sure someone from the family would have
looked after Bhoomi.

Tanya had said in the previous episodes that as soon as nandani comes
back she will leave Karen. Please don't get me wrong, I have nothing
against Tanya. I am only trying to be fair. I think Tanya should leave as
she promised but now she is creating a big fuss. I think she is very
selfish. I feel sorry for Nandani. she was forced to merry Ansh and when
she went into coma, the family did not wait for her and married karen off
with tanya just because of bhoomi, but why someone else did not take of
bhoomi. Tulsi is dead wrong in this by saying that she does not want
nandani back.

I partly agree with you. but i dont understand wat fuss your talking about. And she did leave when nandini came back from the coma, and nandini brought her back. and technically shes not back yet. She didn't break her promise because she did leave. If she really wanted to break Karan and Nandini's realtionship she would have told them that she was pregnant with manthan. Also Karan went looking for her when she left the house. (this is all before the leap)

Kiran

look, no 1 is saying karan is not at fault, he is at fault, just as much as tanya is when it came to betraying nandani. he got his punishment: N leaving him and not coming back to him for 20 years, thats the worst punishment karan can ever get which is why he isnt happy because he is miserable without her.

now 1 thing i want to mention to you since you seem to be forgetting is that: Karan has always told tanya that she will NOT come before Nandani nor will she be able to take that spot in his life and heart that belongs EXCLUSIVELY TO NANDANI. he said this before leap when she came back to him after he got out of jail and nandani went to jail.

NOW, since post-leap they have only shown us karan being angry and upset, because he partially blames tanya for being responsible for nandani not coming back to him. which is true, because in order to repay tanya back for all the favors she did for nandani, nandani didn't want to spoil tanya's marriage, which is WHY she left.

post-leap, they have shown arguments b/n karan-tanya. in which tanya has TOLD KARAN THAT SHE WILL LEAVE HIM AFTER nandani comes back to him. in this argument, IT WAS SHOWN THAT THEY HAVE HAD THIS ARGUMENT MANY TIMES, BUT SHOWN JUST ONCE TO INDICATE TO VIEWRS THAT THIS ARGUMENT HAS TAKEN PLACE REPEATEDLY.

again post leap they have shown that the MAIN reason why karan is so attached to bhoomis BECAUSE she is nandani's daughter.

post-leap, THEY HAVE shown karan telling tulsi that he is all alone in this world, ever since she and nandani left him. which goes to show that in the past 20 years, TANYA COULD NEVER MAKE A PLACE IN KARAN'S HEART.

they have EVEN SHOWN MANTHAN telling tanya that karan will ALWAYS CHOOSE NANDANI BEFORE HER. what does that say? that even their kids know THAT NANDANI COMES FIRST FOR KARAN.

WORSE: they have shown tanya crying to N's picture asking her to come back and then TANYA BLAMING NANDANI FOR HER LIFE BEING A MESS, BECAUSE NANDANI LEFT THEM.

and then when the time has come for tanya to follow her word, SHE IS BECOMING SELFISH. she already has told karan that she will leave him SO WHY is she acting up now.

NO 1 FORCED TANYA TO MARRY KARAN AND ACCEPT 2ND POSITION IN HIS LIFE. SHE ACCEPTED THIS POSITION BY HER OWN CHOICE. thats where her MAIN fault is and WHY I CANNOT EVER SYMPATHIZE WITH A WOMAN WHO CHOOSES TO BE 2ND IN A MAN'S LIFE AND THEN DARES TO CRY ABOUT IT, ACTING AS IF SHE HAD NO CHOICE.

i would rather live alone for the rest of my than accept the 2nd position as a wife in a man's life. and i would say that any female member who has self-respect and dignity will agree with me. why should a woman choose to live life as a 2nd wife? why?

more, i 👏 👏 for nandani not going back to karan. why because why should she compromise because karan made a mistake. she stepped away permanently and left them 2 alone. its not her fault that karan hasn't forgotten about her. she gave karan away when she went to jail and put their hands togethr and told them to be together. right then, she had made the decision that she will NOT come back to them.

but what upsets most of us is the fact that NOT once has the virani family shown any concern for her or for KN's child. they NEVER visited her when she went to jail, not even tulsi. WORSE, they treated her like a burden when she came back from the coma.

tulsi along with adding gray to her hair, seems to have forgotten that N was pregnant when she went to jail.

THATS THE main issue with us and the viranis. at least ask about her or mention some concern about her, instead of treating her like a disease.

as for relationships breaking when karan wanting to bring her home, what relationship are they talking about?

Damini herself has said that because of N's memories, k and t have never come close and the distance b/n them 2 is widened.

karan has made his feelings clear to tanya repeatedly and both of them are so miserable, it has DISILLUSIONED BHOOMI AND MANTHAN ABOUT LOVE. THEIR SOUR RELATIONSHIP HAS EFFECTED THEIR children.

more, karan was never tanya's. she has a spot in his heart as a best friend and support system. tanya should learn that if 20 yrs cannot change karan's feelings for her, then nothing ever can.

MORE: you cannot force some1 to love you. which is what tanya should know by now. tanya should realize that she cannot force karan to stay with her. and karan has served his punishment for betraying nandani.

so what relationship are they talking about breaking?

i only feel pity for a woman like tanya because she is ruining her self-respect and dignity by clinging to a man who will never be hers. who was hers once but as a compromise. and the result of that compromise is manthan and her sour relationship with karan. but it doesn't mean i like her.

no matter what, she is the 2nd woman by choice not by circumstances.

nandani faced her circumstance: either share karan with tanya as a compromise and be unhappy forever or go away and live alone, leaving karan-tanya alone. and she has left forever. she won't come back to Sn ever again, esp not as karan's wife. it will take something drastic for her to go back to SN.

humaira

Originally posted by: desiflavour101

look, no 1 is saying karan is not at fault, he is at fault, just as much as tanya is when it came to betraying nandani. he got his punishment: N leaving him and not coming back to him for 20 years, thats the worst punishment karan can ever get which is why he isnt happy because he is miserable without her.

now 1 thing i want to mention to you since you seem to be forgetting is that: Karan has always told tanya that she will NOT come before Nandani nor will she be able to take that spot in his life and heart that belongs EXCLUSIVELY TO NANDANI. he said this before leap when she came back to him after he got out of jail and nandani went to jail.

NOW, since post-leap they have only shown us karan being angry and upset, because he partially blames tanya for being responsible for nandani not coming back to him. which is true, because in order to repay tanya back for all the favors she did for nandani, nandani didn't want to spoil tanya's marriage, which is WHY she left.

post-leap, they have shown arguments b/n karan-tanya. in which tanya has TOLD KARAN THAT SHE WILL LEAVE HIM AFTER nandani comes back to him. in this argument, IT WAS SHOWN THAT THEY HAVE HAD THIS ARGUMENT MANY TIMES, BUT SHOWN JUST ONCE TO INDICATE TO VIEWRS THAT THIS ARGUMENT HAS TAKEN PLACE REPEATEDLY.

again post leap they have shown that the MAIN reason why karan is so attached to bhoomis BECAUSE she is nandani's daughter.

post-leap, THEY HAVE shown karan telling tulsi that he is all alone in this world, ever since she and nandani left him. which goes to show that in the past 20 years, TANYA COULD NEVER MAKE A PLACE IN KARAN'S HEART.

they have EVEN SHOWN MANTHAN telling tanya that karan will ALWAYS CHOOSE NANDANI BEFORE HER. what does that say? that even their kids know THAT NANDANI COMES FIRST FOR KARAN.

WORSE: they have shown tanya crying to N's picture asking her to come back and then TANYA BLAMING NANDANI FOR HER LIFE BEING A MESS, BECAUSE NANDANI LEFT THEM.

and then when the time has come for tanya to follow her word, SHE IS BECOMING SELFISH. she already has told karan that she will leave him SO WHY is she acting up now.

NO 1 FORCED TANYA TO MARRY KARAN AND ACCEPT 2ND POSITION IN HIS LIFE. SHE ACCEPTED THIS POSITION BY HER OWN CHOICE. thats where her MAIN fault is and WHY I CANNOT EVER SYMPATHIZE WITH A WOMAN WHO CHOOSES TO BE 2ND IN A MAN'S LIFE AND THEN DARES TO CRY ABOUT IT, ACTING AS IF SHE HAD NO CHOICE.

i would rather live alone for the rest of my than accept the 2nd position as a wife in a man's life. and i would say that any female member who has self-respect and dignity will agree with me. why should a woman choose to live life as a 2nd wife? why?

more, i 👏 👏 for nandani not going back to karan. why because why should she compromise because karan made a mistake. she stepped away permanently and left them 2 alone. its not her fault that karan hasn't forgotten about her. she gave karan away when she went to jail and put their hands togethr and told them to be together. right then, she had made the decision that she will NOT come back to them.

but what upsets most of us is the fact that NOT once has the virani family shown any concern for her or for KN's child. they NEVER visited her when she went to jail, not even tulsi. WORSE, they treated her like a burden when she came back from the coma.

tulsi along with adding gray to her hair, seems to have forgotten that N was pregnant when she went to jail.

THATS THE main issue with us and the viranis. at least ask about her or mention some concern about her, instead of treating her like a disease.

as for relationships breaking when karan wanting to bring her home, what relationship are they talking about?

Damini herself has said that because of N's memories, k and t have never come close and the distance b/n them 2 is widened.

karan has made his feelings clear to tanya repeatedly and both of them are so miserable, it has DISILLUSIONED BHOOMI AND MANTHAN ABOUT LOVE. THEIR SOUR RELATIONSHIP HAS EFFECTED THEIR children.

more, karan was never tanya's. she has a spot in his heart as a best friend and support system. tanya should learn that if 20 yrs cannot change karan's feelings for her, then nothing ever can.

MORE: you cannot force some1 to love you. which is what tanya should know by now. tanya should realize that she cannot force karan to stay with her. and karan has served his punishment for betraying nandani.

so what relationship are they talking about breaking?

i only feel pity for a woman like tanya because she is ruining her self-respect and dignity by clinging to a man who will never be hers. who was hers once but as a compromise. and the result of that compromise is manthan and her sour relationship with karan. but it doesn't mean i like her.

no matter what, she is the 2nd woman by choice not by circumstances.

nandani faced her circumstance: either share karan with tanya as a compromise and be unhappy forever or go away and live alone, leaving karan-tanya alone. and she has left forever. she won't come back to Sn ever again, esp not as karan's wife. it will take something drastic for her to go back to SN.

humaira

very well said👏 👏and i totally agree😳

i agree with you but like i've said many times we all have our own points of view. Like you said, I would also rather live alone than be 2nd in a mans life.

I created this topic because in a different topic gangas situation was being compared to Nandini's and all i was trying to say is that ganga was forced to leave and Nandini left by choice

Kiran

and what we are trying to say is that if tulsi cares for ganga's happiness then she should care MORE for karan's happiness. because karan and ganga both are miserable without their loves.

if tulsi for once wants to think about giving her children happiness instead of trying to do the so-called right thing, then her life and her children's life will be much smoother.

tulsi knows how much karan loves nandani yet she is telling him to move on. if savita had been alive and tulsi been kicked out, would tulsi or any1 of her fans liked it for savita to tell mihir to make tulsi a beautiful dream and forget about her? so why the double standard with nandani?

for once, i would like tulsi to think about her children's happiness rather than worry about doing the right or wrong thing, because this so-called thing of doing the right thing has lead to karan's life where it is. and that too without nandani.

i'm just happy for once karan has become a man and doesn't bow down to every wish of tulsi's. he finally grew a spine.

Originally posted by: Kiran187

i agree with you but like i've said many times we all have our own points of view. Like you said, I would also rather live alone than be 2nd in a mans life.

I created this topic because in a different topic gangas situation was being compared to Nandini's and all i was trying to say is that ganga was forced to leave and Nandini left by choice

Kiran

well said, but i want Nandini back for some reason!

Originally posted by: desiflavour101

look, no 1 is saying karan is not at fault, he is at fault, just as much as tanya is when it came to betraying nandani. he got his punishment: N leaving him and not coming back to him for 20 years, thats the worst punishment karan can ever get which is why he isnt happy because he is miserable without her.

now 1 thing i want to mention to you since you seem to be forgetting is that: Karan has always told tanya that she will NOT come before Nandani nor will she be able to take that spot in his life and heart that belongs EXCLUSIVELY TO NANDANI. he said this before leap when she came back to him after he got out of jail and nandani went to jail.

NOW, since post-leap they have only shown us karan being angry and upset, because he partially blames tanya for being responsible for nandani not coming back to him. which is true, because in order to repay tanya back for all the favors she did for nandani, nandani didn't want to spoil tanya's marriage, which is WHY she left.

post-leap, they have shown arguments b/n karan-tanya. in which tanya has TOLD KARAN THAT SHE WILL LEAVE HIM AFTER nandani comes back to him. in this argument, IT WAS SHOWN THAT THEY HAVE HAD THIS ARGUMENT MANY TIMES, BUT SHOWN JUST ONCE TO INDICATE TO VIEWRS THAT THIS ARGUMENT HAS TAKEN PLACE REPEATEDLY.

again post leap they have shown that the MAIN reason why karan is so attached to bhoomis BECAUSE she is nandani's daughter.

post-leap, THEY HAVE shown karan telling tulsi that he is all alone in this world, ever since she and nandani left him. which goes to show that in the past 20 years, TANYA COULD NEVER MAKE A PLACE IN KARAN'S HEART.

they have EVEN SHOWN MANTHAN telling tanya that karan will ALWAYS CHOOSE NANDANI BEFORE HER. what does that say? that even their kids know THAT NANDANI COMES FIRST FOR KARAN.

WORSE: they have shown tanya crying to N's picture asking her to come back and then TANYA BLAMING NANDANI FOR HER LIFE BEING A MESS, BECAUSE NANDANI LEFT THEM.

and then when the time has come for tanya to follow her word, SHE IS BECOMING SELFISH. she already has told karan that she will leave him SO WHY is she acting up now.

NO 1 FORCED TANYA TO MARRY KARAN AND ACCEPT 2ND POSITION IN HIS LIFE. SHE ACCEPTED THIS POSITION BY HER OWN CHOICE. thats where her MAIN fault is and WHY I CANNOT EVER SYMPATHIZE WITH A WOMAN WHO CHOOSES TO BE 2ND IN A MAN'S LIFE AND THEN DARES TO CRY ABOUT IT, ACTING AS IF SHE HAD NO CHOICE.

i would rather live alone for the rest of my than accept the 2nd position as a wife in a man's life. and i would say that any female member who has self-respect and dignity will agree with me. why should a woman choose to live life as a 2nd wife? why?

more, i 👏 👏 for nandani not going back to karan. why because why should she compromise because karan made a mistake. she stepped away permanently and left them 2 alone. its not her fault that karan hasn't forgotten about her. she gave karan away when she went to jail and put their hands togethr and told them to be together. right then, she had made the decision that she will NOT come back to them.

but what upsets most of us is the fact that NOT once has the virani family shown any concern for her or for KN's child. they NEVER visited her when she went to jail, not even tulsi. WORSE, they treated her like a burden when she came back from the coma.

tulsi along with adding gray to her hair, seems to have forgotten that N was pregnant when she went to jail.

THATS THE main issue with us and the viranis. at least ask about her or mention some concern about her, instead of treating her like a disease.

as for relationships breaking when karan wanting to bring her home, what relationship are they talking about?

Damini herself has said that because of N's memories, k and t have never come close and the distance b/n them 2 is widened.

karan has made his feelings clear to tanya repeatedly and both of them are so miserable, it has DISILLUSIONED BHOOMI AND MANTHAN ABOUT LOVE. THEIR SOUR RELATIONSHIP HAS EFFECTED THEIR children.

more, karan was never tanya's. she has a spot in his heart as a best friend and support system. tanya should learn that if 20 yrs cannot change karan's feelings for her, then nothing ever can.

MORE: you cannot force some1 to love you. which is what tanya should know by now. tanya should realize that she cannot force karan to stay with her. and karan has served his punishment for betraying nandani.

so what relationship are they talking about breaking?

i only feel pity for a woman like tanya because she is ruining her self-respect and dignity by clinging to a man who will never be hers. who was hers once but as a compromise. and the result of that compromise is manthan and her sour relationship with karan. but it doesn't mean i like her.

no matter what, she is the 2nd woman by choice not by circumstances.

nandani faced her circumstance: either share karan with tanya as a compromise and be unhappy forever or go away and live alone, leaving karan-tanya alone. and she has left forever. she won't come back to Sn ever again, esp not as karan's wife. it will take something drastic for her to go back to SN.

humaira

very well said !!!!!!!

Originally posted by: hiten_fan

very well said !!!!!!!

very very well said.