Diff. B/w ganga and nandini coming back

Theres a huge difference between wanting ganga back than wanting nandini back.

1. Ganga was forced to leave, and Nandini left by choice.

2. Sahil had an extra martial affair with another woman, and Karan didn't have a choice if he wanted the well being of his daughter.

3. Ganga lost her identity by force, her children and status were taken away from her. Nandini gave up her children and status.

I'm not saying Nandini can't come back, all i'm saying is everyone wants nandini back so bad that no one thinks about wat will happen to tanya. Tanya gave up her whole life for Karan and Nandini, so she could take care of Nandini's family during her absence. As for the birth of Manthan, they didn't know Nandini would survive her coma. (it takes 2 not 1 for a pregnancy to occur, therefore tanya cannot be blamed).

Ganga was forced to leav by Gayatri. Gayatri didn't think for one moment that if she was in Ganga's place how would she feel and wat would she do. (Side Note: Savita was more supportive to Tulsi when Mihir and Mandira had an affar, Savita kicked Mihir out not tulsi; Gayatri should have learned from that example and should have better handled the situation). Tripti even shows her evil plans when she told sahil that if he got the contract she would take care of his family; then wat has she been doing for the last 20 years.

Difference between Tripti and Tanya

1. Tanya kept a family together; Tripti broke a marriage

2. Tanya was supportive to the joint family; Tripti showed bitterness towards all even "her children"

3. Tanya thinks good for all; Tripti wants to get rid of half the family

I just wanted to point this out because everyone shows sooo much hatred towards Tanya, and the whole issure with calling tulsi a hypocrite for not wanting Nandini back. No Offence to anyone

Tell me wat you think

Kiran

tanya was good before leap but post leap i see so many faults in her.

she pretty selfish in her own ways

how can u say karan did not have a choice but to marry tanya for well being of his daughter......there were so many people in the house...tulsi,damini,ganga, to take care of hid daughter. nandani was in coma not dead and if he loved her so much he should not have married her what ever be the circumstances.

I'm not saying shes 100% perfect cuz no one in this world is. Yes i also see her faults when it comes to raising her children she made them very greedy and arrogant.

Originally posted by: doll4ever16

she pretty selfish in her own ways

totally agree with you

Originally posted by: prana9

how can u say karan did not have a choice but to marry tanya for well being of his daughter......there were so many people in the house...tulsi,damini,ganga, to take care of hid daughter. nandani was in coma not dead and if he loved her so much he should not have married her what ever be the circumstances.

So you agree that Karan is also at fault. Secondly damini and ganga had there own kids to look after, and tulsi is always busy in keeping her family straight and that no one would have the time to take care of someone elses child. Lets face reality for a moment and think about this situtation: When a mother has her own children to take care of and is asked to take care of other children which aren't hers shes going to keep, if not a big but a small, difference between the children, and that mother will not take care of both kids equally. About nandini's coma the doctor said there wasn't any hope of her surviving the coma, but karan kept the machines on.

Kiran

I agree, but Nandani left because she probably did not want to hurt
Tanya.
The whole family cheated on Nandani even Tanya. Tanya only looked
after Bhoomi so she get close to Karen and also she loved him before he
married Nandani. Tanya cheated on nandani when she got Ansh and
Nandani together and separated Karen and Nandani, she played big part
in getting them together knowing that karen and nandani loved each
other. It was Tanya choice to take care of Bhoomi no one forced her. If
she was not around, I am sure someone from the family would have
looked after Bhoomi.

Tanya had said in the previous episodes that as soon as nandani comes
back she will leave Karen. Please don't get me wrong, I have nothing
against Tanya. I am only trying to be fair. I think Tanya should leave as
she promised but now she is creating a big fuss. I think she is very
selfish. I feel sorry for Nandani. she was forced to merry Ansh and when
she went into coma, the family did not wait for her and married karen off
with tanya just because of bhoomi, but why someone else did not take of
bhoomi. Tulsi is dead wrong in this by saying that she does not want
nandani back.

Originally posted by: Kiran187

So you agree that Karan is also at fault. Secondly damini and ganga had there own kids to look after, and tulsi is always busy in keeping her family straight and that no one would have the time to take care of someone elses child. Lets face reality for a moment and think about this situtation: When a mother has her own children to take care of and is asked to take care of other children which aren't hers shes going to keep, if not a big but a small, difference between the children, and that mother will not take care of both kids equally. About nandini's coma the doctor said there wasn't any hope of her surviving the coma, but karan kept the machines on.

Kiran

so what u mean to say that a man should marry a woman just to take care of his kids .

Originally posted by: prana9

so what u mean to say that a man should marry a woman just to take care of his kids .

I never said a man should marry a woman just to take care of his kids. thats just you putting words in my mouth. Everyone was telling Karan to marry tanya (remember the mandir scene he stops the wedding but when he sees bhoomi he continues) and no one carried him to the mandir he got up and walked there on his own and married to her. all i'm saying is its not right to only blame Tanya, it is also karans fault, if you want to put it that way. also a child needs both parents, a mother and a father. I know there are many children with one parent or no parents, adn i'm pretty sure most of them want both of their parents.

Kiran