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Posted: 9 years ago
#71
"Too much pity for Pragya"
"Gross insensitivity to Abhi"

Yes. There is no requirement for any one person's opinions on every character to be balanced.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: -Tia-

Yes Rishu, Abhi won't die if he marries Tannu. And truth never hides. The truth that the bay is not his will come out somehow to him.

And had it been Abhi only, Tannu would have never used her pregnancy to trap him. Because they had an agreement to not sleep with each other. And then, when he got to know, Tannu was gonna abort because he didn't believe her. And he would have either gotten her to abort or kept that child outside MM if it came to that.

Bur thanks to Pragya's sincere help, the "truth" about TaBhi came out in open. Intereting that Tannu didn't dare to tell the truth but Pragya misplaced a report in her so called great intentions to help him!!

And Aalu, even today if she is scared of anyone, it is Abhi. She can never win over him in the bigger picture.

Abhi's enemies and the traps he was in were not even that big. But now they are, because Pragya has escalated it all so much with her Mogambo act. And the ones that got hurt the most are her people!!!


@ Bold...Yet Abhi said he wants the baby vocally to Pragya ...And Indian serials don't believe in a wife accepting an outsider baby, it doesn't go with Ekta or even other Indian serials...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#73

pragya thief...what exactly did she thief...if you want to accuse someone of stealing abhi's property and worth,,,then who will it be other than dadi..for it would of been her doing the theifing to have it transferred to pragya..abhi;s assets were temporarily transferred to pragya...if indeed this really happen...as we all know this is just a farce...is she squandering it...is she giving it away to her family and friends..no she is securing it for him...not herself...she is wearing designer saris...and she looks damn good in them...so hurray...ekta needed someone to showcase her saris and thank god she chose pragya..and the others are being made to work...seriously...what is wrong if they were asked to work...they were all living of of abhi's wealth all of the time...doing nothing and everyone including tayji,,,mitali and the whole lot intention was to pilfer abhi of his wealth...so yes I quite agree for pragya to make them work...I don't bash abhi because also is a vicitim of circumstances and he is a genuinely good person at heart...but just as he has come to pragya's assistance time and time again ...pragya came to his assistance from the time she married him...even knowing what kind of treatment she was getting...she never waved from her duties as a wife towards him...and thus in her doing so abhi realized that she always stood by his side and in return he did the same...did he helped her in the beginning when alia and tanu wanted to embarrass her in front of everyone in purab and bulbul's engagement...no he knew of the plan to put the ring in her bag and he went along willingly with it...he further went on to get bubbly to serve her alcohol in the mehendi to embarrass her...did he said no please don't do this...no he did not...so pragya was the one who stood by him and she was continuously insulted and brought down...but she never put down her husband...she saved him from jail by taking the blame for the accident...so please don't say that abhi is the one who was continuously helping pragya even thought he is being cheated...she was cheated from day one and she stood by him...

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Posted: 9 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: ann5

pragya thief...what exactly did she thief...if you want to accuse someone of stealing abhi's property and worth,,,then who will it be other than dadi..for it would of been her doing the theifing to have it transferred to pragya..abhi;s assets were temporarily transferred to pragya...if indeed this really happen...as we all know this is just a farce...is she squandering it...is she giving it away to her family and friends..no she is securing it for him...not herself...she is wearing designer saris...and she looks damn good in them...so hurray...ekta needed someone to showcase her saris and thank god she chose pragya..and the others are being made to work...seriously...what is wrong if they were asked to work...they were all living of of abhi's wealth all of the time...doing nothing and everyone including tayji,,,mitali and the whole lot intention was to pilfer abhi of his wealth...so yes I quite agree for pragya to make them work...I don't bash abhi because also is a vicitim of circumstances and he is a genuinely good person at heart...but just as he has come to pragya's assistance time and time again ...pragya came to his assistance from the time she married him...even knowing what kind of treatment she was getting...she never waved from her duties as a wife towards him...and thus in her doing so abhi realized that she always stood by his side and in return he did the same...did he helped her in the beginning when alia and tanu wanted to embarrass her in front of everyone in purab and bulbul's engagement...no he knew of the plan to put the ring in her bag and he went along willingly with it...he further went on to get bubbly to serve her alcohol in the mehendi to embarrass her...did he said no please don't do this...no he did not...so pragya was the one who stood by him and she was continuously insulted and brought down...but she never put down her husband...she saved him from jail by taking the blame for the accident...so please don't say that abhi is the one who was continuously helping pragya even thought he is being cheated...she was cheated from day one and she stood by him...


👏 👏 👏...Best way to put it. Thank you, Ann...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#75
Abhi definitely doesn't understand Pragya as he should. Their love needs to mature...their love and understanding of each other is like unripened fruit!

I did not like Abhi thinking about himself in that particular moment. Him being mean to her when the scene started is still understandable because he was trying to prove she is faking...

...but in that moment it was not about HIM, not about how emotional he is, or how HE has been emotionally fooled! It was about BULBUL and everyone's emotions attached to HER and how her sudden demise would be emotionally so traumatic for people related to her!

For me, Abhi lost in the scene when he took things upon himself where as, it was a different game altogether. He was trying to play cricket with a football!

It's good though that he realises Pragya wasn't faking and he genuinely felt her pain afterwards...but yeah I do also get the title of this thread!
Edited by SaaraDON - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#76
My eyes just fell upon the mention of 'Abhi took a bullet for Pragya'...

I would just like to say...Pragya would do the same for him any goddamn day!!!!!!!

And if you are a woman belonging to the Mehra clan...Abhi would do it for you any goddamn day without giving it a thought too. The bullet he took was for Pragya Mehra, his wife by rituals. Not for the love of his life.

Taking a bullet for someone takes a lot of courage and you're literally putting your everything at stake...but it is definitely not a compensation for your future paapon ka prayashchit!

And no, I am not accusing Abhi of any paaps (sins). I am just not satisfied with his level of understanding Pragya and why she does some things.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ann5

pragya thief...what exactly did she thief...if you want to accuse someone of stealing abhi's property and worth,,,then who will it be other than dadi..for it would of been her doing the theifing to have it transferred to pragya..abhi;s assets were temporarily transferred to pragya...if indeed this really happen...as we all know this is just a farce...is she squandering it...is she giving it away to her family and friends..no she is securing it for him...not herself...she is wearing designer saris...and she looks damn good in them...so hurray...ekta needed someone to showcase her saris and thank god she chose pragya..and the others are being made to work...seriously...what is wrong if they were asked to work...they were all living of of abhi's wealth all of the time...doing nothing and everyone including tayji,,,mitali and the whole lot intention was to pilfer abhi of his wealth...so yes I quite agree for pragya to make them work...I don't bash abhi because also is a vicitim of circumstances and he is a genuinely good person at heart...but just as he has come to pragya's assistance time and time again ...pragya came to his assistance from the time she married him...even knowing what kind of treatment she was getting...she never waved from her duties as a wife towards him...and thus in her doing so abhi realized that she always stood by his side and in return he did the same...did he helped her in the beginning when alia and tanu wanted to embarrass her in front of everyone in purab and bulbul's engagement...no he knew of the plan to put the ring in her bag and he went along willingly with it...he further went on to get bubbly to serve her alcohol in the mehendi to embarrass her...did he said no please don't do this...no he did not...so pragya was the one who stood by him and she was continuously insulted and brought down...but she never put down her husband...she saved him from jail by taking the blame for the accident...so please don't say that abhi is the one who was continuously helping pragya even thought he is being cheated...she was cheated from day one and she stood by him...


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Loved your interception. Pragya always stood by him. From the start Abhi always means Always misunderstood Pragya unless some1 came and confronted him or spoke to him. He never used his own brain in understanding her. Its always Purab, Dadi who made him understand. Even now he has a bigg bigg misunderstanding towards her.some1 like Purab/ Dadi(as bulbul is out of the picture for sometime) see him being worse n worse towards pragya n put the truth n sense into his mind. But i dont want this to happen now. I want Abhi to put his brains and connect the dots rather than misunderstanding Pragya.

Shez bearing eyeryones hatred all alone. Which Dadi also should bear and in a way bulbul n purab also. All this for whom?? Abhi's sake. None of her team is comming and supporting her out in the open when in dire consequences except for purab during dussehra when Every1 is speaking about her character..

Even since she came as Mogambo all are thinking shez torturing them. But no. shez just making tham work. Shez never made them starve to death etcetc. The only torture she gave is to Abhi n Sarla , that too she just isnt showing her love towardds them. thats it. its not like she didnt give them money and fulfill their necessities. She definetly did everything that was necessary. She just stopped the unnecessary stuff.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#78
if abhi had been told the truth about alia and tanu...what would of been his reaction...his anger would of spiraled out of control...it would of been pragya's words against theirs...I understand to a little extend why abhi and sarla ma wasn't told of this plan...but I don't believe that she especially is being insensitive or hurting anyone but herself most and foremost...she and bulbul always had the same enemy...alia..tanu and now raj has joined the ranks...she has not deprived abhi totally of his wealth...she controls it...previously his wealth was a free for all...and he got nothing in return...he would of been eventually ruined...I understand dadi's reasons for doing it this way...I don't agree with it but I have begun to understand why...alia is ruthless...she will stop at nothing to get what she wants...and we saw that from the way she had him attacked and she herself did not think twice about kidnapping him..i am not going to say that pragya is insensitive...abhi acts out of anger more than anything else...pragya Is the one who thought him how to think a little...and without pragya at his side he will be the same abhi...hurling and runting until he is brought to a certain coolness...pragya in all her grief yesterday was the one who brought him down to consoling her...abhi has a lot of making up to do in being a pillar for pragya...yes at times he has been...but the only reason is that she is the one that is the pillar for them both...it is unfortunate that bulbul suffered the consequences but if the situation was reversed I am sure that pragya would give her life and limb for her...to take this stand and put herself In this situation to save her husband says a lot of pragya and insensitive and uncaring and not any of the words that is to be used...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ann5

if abhi had been told the truth about alia and tanu...what would of been his reaction...his anger would of spiraled out of control...it would of been pragya's words against theirs...I understand to a little extend why abhi and sarla ma wasn't told of this plan...but I don't believe that she especially is being insensitive or hurting anyone but herself most and foremost...she and bulbul always had the same enemy...alia..tanu and now raj has joined the ranks...she has not deprived abhi totally of his wealth...she controls it...previously his wealth was a free for all...and he got nothing in return...he would of been eventually ruined...I understand dadi's reasons for doing it this way...I don't agree with it but I have begun to understand why...alia is ruthless...she will stop at nothing to get what she wants...and we saw that from the way she had him attacked and she herself did not think twice about kidnapping him..i am not going to say that pragya is insensitive...abhi acts out of anger more than anything else...pragya Is the one who thought him how to think a little...and without pragya at his side he will be the same abhi...hurling and runting until he is brought to a certain coolness...pragya in all her grief yesterday was the one who brought him down to consoling her...abhi has a lot of making up to do in being a pillar for pragya...yes at times he has been...but the only reason is that she is the one that is the pillar for them both...it is unfortunate that bulbul suffered the consequences but if the situation was reversed I am sure that pragya would give her life and limb for her...to take this stand and put herself In this situation to save her husband says a lot of pragya and insensitive and uncaring and not any of the words that is to be used...


@bold: Exactly. Even though shez hurting them both, More than those two shez hurting herself.. Abhi and Sarla are venting out their anger on Pragya. Who can Pragya vent out her frustration and anger on?? No one...

IF ABHI was in Pragyas place he would have done the same thing. Dont you guys agree??

He Did the same thing Pragya is doign now during the MMS track. In order to know the truth and clear her name n bring justice to Pragya he acted cold and ruthless infront of each eyeryone. Got himself slapped from Sarla. Did he give himself up then?? Pragya tried to commit suicide, even then he didnt give himself up n still behaved ruthless till the end and right moment.

And /now Pragya is doing the same. In order to save him shez acting ruthless. The only difference in both the track's is MMS track was over in days time and Mogambo is being stretched..

In this situation if Abhi is in Pragya's shoes he would definetly have done the same.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bravo ann!! Thank you for spelling out in detail the many ways AbhiGya's equation is unbalanced - with Pragya doing such a heavy share of the lifting.

Chubby, I agree on a lot of what you've said, especially that Abhi has rarely used his brain when it comes to accepting Pragya, but he's been talked into it by others time and again. And the difference for me - Abhi did play ruthless just like Pragya is doing, but he barely felt bad about it. We never got any hint that he felt conflicted about hurting her and her family. He did start to apologize, but his tone was that Pragya SHOULD forgive him because it was only for her own good and for the sake of the truth (exposing Aaliya). Pragya held NOTHING against him the moment she understood that. I can only hope he is as quick to do the same when it's his turn.

And personally no, I don't believe that Abhi would do as Pragya has done. He is a different person with different values. That doesn't make him bad. But that doesn't mean Pragya is bad for doing differently than Abhi would.
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