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Posted: 9 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: -mina-

"I don't want to save her but I guess I owe it to the memory of my love. What a drag but I better do it."

He has to talk himself into it. For every nice or good thing he does, there are five mean or selfish things. Just as its not reasonable to only count the mean things, it's not reasonable to only count the nice things. On balance I find him being not nice much more often and much more thoroughly than he is nice.


Ahaa. Abhi is expected to do the right thing, despite being in a wrong knowledge of it. And he gets called not nice for contemplating over what he is doing!

And, I guess you don't believe in "actions speak louder than words" thing.

I find it way better than hearing Pragya say "I want to help him" 100 times and doing nothing substantial about it.

I do not have many mean things to count about him. And today's scene was not mean at all to me. in fact it is mean of Pragya to use the comfort of his arms and still not let him know the truth about her reality (and she has used his muscle powers to have him save her too in this Mogambo track many times). But I am not gonna hold her on this, she is in grief. But will she tell him the truth the next morning, of course not!
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Posted: 9 years ago
#62
If actions speak louder than words, Abhi's daily contempt of Pragya deafens me to whatever sound his heroic saves are supposed to make.

I don't believe that people should be admired for being "nice" if they are also being selfish at the same time. You can be both at once, but if you are both - you can't only be seen as one or the other.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#63
I have nothing to say even if him taking bullet, going to jail etc are not valued.

I better stop being insensible and stay away 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: Raji9

@bold 👏👏👏 you nailed it Mina ..



Thank you Raji. Although others have often tried to show me the math, I can never find the balance to be any different.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: Cerealgirl

Looking at the immediate context, I'm glad she got some solace, Mina. 😛

It was agonizing to see her "lose" her sister and get shunned by her mother. From Pragya's perspective, I'm glad she got the emotional support she did not get from her mother. Her mother disowned her and left her to grieve on her own. Abhi, however questionable his tactics were, was there to console her and not make her feel all alone.

As a viewer, I would have lost all respect had Abhi not found a way to be there for Pragya. What she cannot do with her mother she did with Abhi. She could not talk back to her mother. But she did blame him for this. That was a crucial piece of dialog she said. She couldn't save BB because of him. All said and done, Abhi is more accepting of her than her own mother is, in my opinion! I'm glad Abhi was there for her through this tragedy!! I don't feel that in a heroic or romantic sense. I'm glad he did what he did even if he taunted to break her defenses down and console her. 😊


prani, i don't she think she blamed him, her dialogue was aap jante hai kaisa lagta hain jab koi apna apke samne apni jaan de deta hai woh bi apke wajah se" she was referring to herself.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: harisha_kb

I have nothing to say even if him taking bullet, going to jail etc are not valued.

I better stop being insensible and stay away 😊


You may remember we have come to a draw on exactly the same point before.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: harisha_kb

I have nothing to say even if him taking bullet, going to jail etc are not valued.

I better stop being insensible and stay away 😊


You are right Rishu. This is gross insensitivity to Abhi!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Moodyblue


prani, i don't she think she blamed him, her dialogue was aap jante hai kaisa lagta hain jab koi apna apke samne apni jaan de deta hai woh bi apke wajah se" she was referring to herself.


Yes, that's how I heard it too Neha.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Tia-


You are right Rishu. This is gross insensitivity to Abhi!


Is that not allowed here? I see gross insensitivity to other characters sometimes.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -mina-


Is that not allowed here? I see gross insensitivity to other characters sometimes.


I never said it is not allowed. You can do whatever you want within rules.

But I am allowed to say what I thought of some of the posts. I hope I didn't break the rules.

I also saw a lot of insensitivity to Sarla Maa too today and way too much pity for Pragya! Biases are always there. It's a fan forum after all.

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