ITA with you @soapwatcher1
The whole thing is disturbing. Although it was sweet to see Amyra expressing regret at the fact that she took her father and his music for granted and didn't learn or practice properly, the reason she revealed for this regret was very disturbing --she is upset she did not learn music only because she wants to win this competition.
--It is disturbing that all that matters to Amyra is winning --even when supposedly on her deathbed.
--it is disturbing that Sikka wishes to indulge Amyra's cut-throat competing tendencies for winning instead of sitting her down and explaining to her that one truly becomes a winner in life by learning to accept one's limitations gracefully.
--it is disturbing that Sikka, who is currently nursing Amyra through multple asthma attacks a day, agreed to teach Amyra music knowing full well that music as an art form demands a great deal of lung capacity and breath control.
--it is disturbing that Sikka does not know that Amyra lacks flair for music.
--it is disturbing that the entire dysfunctional and codependent family is fawning around Amyra as though their only purpose in life is to fulfill all her wishes.
--it is very disturbing to recognize that even when she was not dying, Amyra's life was all about fulfilling her desires at the cost of everyone else's. Both she and Lovely repeatedly put Kulfi in danger just so that Amyra could have this or that whim fulfilled. Amyra's was always a fair-weather-friendship with Kulfi. Both mother and daughter continued to use Kulfi whenever they wanted and to throw her to the wolves whenever they had no need for her, or when her status as Sikka's biological daughter threatened them.
--It is greatly disturbing as you pointed out so well, to see Sikka unconcerned for Kulfi's welfare. By now he is totally aware of the grave extents to which Lovely can go to get rid of people she perceives as obstacles. Should he not know that Kulfi might be either dead or in great danger? Regardless of her being his own daughter, we are talking about a small child with whom he has a strong bond of love. Should he not worry even the slightest?
--Finally it is highly disturbing to see that everyone in this serial, except perhaps for little Kulfi, thinks that the meaning of love is to indulge the person's fancy, even when the object of love is holding you hostage, blackmailing you, or threatening you with dire consequences. What kind of a love is it, which is not freely given but has to be eked out through threats of death?
Edited by aimf - 6 years ago
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