Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi 3 Written Updates 20 Aug 2021 - Page 7

Originally posted by: CottonWorld

Dev looks stoned, uninteresting most of the time...how can anyone get infatuated with this person in this season?! Unless this is one of the girls he already knows...or maybe she knows him.

What I hate this season about Dev's looks are the rainbow colored suits! Why the hell are they making him wear yellow, pink, purple suits?!!!! This is just atrocious dressing for Dev, who has always admitted he likes blues, greys and blacks! Looks just terrible.

He's been doing that since the start of this season . Remember his conversation with mamaji where he was oh so helpless as the man of the house ! Kya man of yhe house bhai ? You have an educated , independent wife who is honestly working ( maybe by choice ) , taking care of kids with minimal support from you. I mean he jataofies even the smallest things he does like getting adoption papers signed !

Honestly, he's now facing the music for his unilateral, reckless decisions and being yes man to maate . Sona told him to give Ayush and her, both some time to absorb things before Ayush was brought into Dixit household . But no maa ki aagya ka palan tho karna tha . Then he blames Sona for the catastrophe . He has zero regard for her opinions , feelings etc. All he wants from her is to be a glorified Aaya to him and his kids .

Originally posted by: tamanna2391

He's been doing that since the start of this season . Remember his conversation with mamaji where he was oh so helpless as the man of the house ! Kya man of yhe house bhai ? You have an educated , independent wife who is honestly working ( maybe by choice ) , taking care of kids with minimal support from you. I mean he jataofies even the smallest things he does like getting adoption papers signed !

Honestly, he's now facing the music for his unilateral, reckless decisions and being yes man to maate . Sona told him to give Ayush and her, both some time to absorb things before Ayush was brought into Dixit household . But no maa ki aagya ka palan tho karna tha . Then he blames Sona for the catastrophe . He has zero regard for her opinions , feelings etc. All he wants from her is to be a glorified Aaya to him and his kids .

Agree with you there. 'Man of the house' he is only for his mother. His wife is quite independent.

As I have written in this forum since S3 started, Dev has been pissing me off a lot this time around. I place the entire blame on the writers. Because in S1, when I could easily see his faults, I could also understand where he came from, for him to have those flaws. Example: His behavior was terrible in that scene when they separated, but his sense of desperation and helplessness really came out as well.

In this season, however, that hasn't been the case. The background has not been set for his behavior. So when he questioned Sona as to why she went to meet her father and not just call him about Ayush, I was hopping mad. There have been several such instances where he has simply brushed away Sona's opinions, her fears and apprehensions. Dev, for me, has always been a flawed person, and I really like him for not being perfect but this time, the writers are making him look like a jerk. He isn't doing much to soothe Sona's hurt from the name change, just wanting her to accept it as fact, while at the same time, putting a big bandaid for a little pin prick. This is just poor writing, imo.

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30

Agree with you there. 'Man of the house' he is only for his mother. His wife is quite independent.

As I have written in this forum since S3 started, Dev has been pissing me off a lot this time around. I place the entire blame on the writers. Because in S1, when I could easily see his faults, I could also understand where he came from, for him to have those flaws. Example: His behavior was terrible in that scene when they separated, but his sense of desperation and helplessness really came out as well.

In this season, however, that hasn't been the case. The background has not been set for his behavior. So when he questioned Sona as to why she went to meet her father and not just call him about Ayush, I was hopping mad. There have been several such instances where he has simply brushed away Sona's opinions, her fears and apprehensions. Dev, for me, has always been a flawed person, and I really like him for not being perfect but this time, the writers are making him look like a jerk. He isn't doing much to soothe Sona's hurt from the name change, just wanting her to accept it as fact, while at the same time, putting a big bandaid for a little pin prick. This is just poor writing, imo.

Agreed. The premise has just not been set for Dev to behave this cold . It's so difficult to reconcile the Dev of previous seasons to this one .

The baby swap has been such a terrible pretext to bring about these conflicts. I hope the counselling track throws light on their past few years of married life and what really went wrong . Is Dev unhappy about her not having time for him because of work and kids.

And look as for the pin prick , Dev has always been emotionally handicap . But he's desperate to keep Sona with him at all costs . He didn't have to do anything much because he thought his kids are the binding glue for him and Sona . Now with Sona threatening to move out, that belief has proved false . Hence the victimisation and low key manipulation to make her feel guilty and stay , without disturbing status quo for dearest maate . See both Ishwari and Dev himself knows how essential Sona is for him to function . That's the reason first Dev and then Ishwari was desperate to have her back in the house.

Originally posted by: tamanna2391

Agreed. The premise has just not been set for Dev to behave this cold . It's so difficult to reconcile the Dev of previous seasons to this one .

The baby swap has been such a terrible pretext to bring about these conflicts. I hope the counselling track throws light on their past few years of married life and what really went wrong . Is Dev unhappy about her not having time for him because of work and kids.

And look as for the pin prick , Dev has always been emotionally handicap . But he's desperate to keep Sona with him at all costs . He didn't have to do anything much because he thought his kids are the binding glue for him and Sona . Now with Sona threatening to move out, that belief has proved false . Hence the victimisation and low key manipulation to make her feel guilty and stay , without disturbing status quo for dearest maate . See both Ishwari and Dev himself knows how essential Sona is for him to function . That's the reason first Dev and then Ishwari was desperate to have her back in the house.

I completely agree. The baby swap is just a ridiculous backdrop to show these conflicts and they haven't set the stage for them to reach here at all. Not even in flashbacks. Flashbacks have been how much in love they were. So I simply am not able to reconcile this Dev with the previous seasons Dev. I really hope they use the counseling to show exactly what went wrong and how they drifted. Otherwise this doesn't make sense.

"Without disturbing status quo". Very rightly put. That is what it is. Dev doesn't want status quo disturbed at any cost. That is why he is so good at sweeping things under the rug without dealing with them.

I also have a big disagreement with they way he is doing all this nautanki. If the trophy wife opens her mouth to give her opinion, raja beta gets down to all this nautanki. Also, his dependence on alcohol, prescription pills whenever things are not going his way (his mom's way actually) are very immature. What is going to teach his kids? Jab bhee life mei thoda issues hon, start popping pills. Also, amma jee ka 4 house ke bartan struggle was actually Neha's struggle. She had to raise her 2 sisters, cook food , sacrifice her studies so that this weirdo maa-beta could spend all the quality time together once mom came home from 4 house ke bartan. What about the other working mothers ( and fathers) who work on full time jobs, long commutes (pre- COVID)come home cook and shuffle kids around to their activities while cooking and doing at least one house ka bartan (self) LOL!

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30

What I hate this season about Dev's looks are the rainbow colored suits! Why the hell are they making him wear yellow, pink, purple suits?!!!! This is just atrocious dressing for Dev, who has always admitted he likes blues, greys and blacks! Looks just terrible.

He has been looking bloated too in some scenes now.

Originally posted by: baijubavra

I also have a big disagreement with they way he is doing all this nautanki. If the trophy wife opens her mouth to give her opinion, raja beta gets down to all this nautanki. Also, his dependence on alcohol, prescription pills whenever things are not going his way (his mom's way actually) are very immature. What is going to teach his kids? Jab bhee life mei thoda issues hon, start popping pills. Also, amma jee ka 4 house ke bartan struggle was actually Neha's struggle. She had to raise her 2 sisters, cook food , sacrifice her studies so that this weirdo maa-beta could spend all the quality time together once mom came home from 4 house ke bartan. What about the other working mothers ( and fathers) who work on full time jobs, long commutes (pre- COVID)come home cook and shuffle kids around to their activities while cooking and doing at least one house ka bartan (self) LOL!

Ishwari had it rough, there's no denying that. It wasn't just about the quantity of the work.... It was about the nature of the work & the type of treatment she got in her workplace as well. So yeah.... Ishwari did struggle. But she cannot keep glorifying herself over it. Our housemaids are living her life actually, but I doubt they go & emotionally torture their kids like Ishwari did.

Neha had it way more rough. She herself was a child & she was burdened with the caretaking of two more. She was deprived of basic education because they didn't have money to pay her school fees but sprinkling salt to her wounds, her brother got ready in his new uniform & grabbing his new books marched off to study in a reputed school. And after doing all these, Neha got repaid by glorious stories about how the Maa Beta did so much sacrifice & achieved so many things with their courage & hardwork.

And Dev toh I don't understand how does he even victimise himself 🙄 Yes, they were poor, but he was always the preferred one & got the whole creamy part of any milk that came their way. He was always given the opportunity & was motivated to study by his Mom. He was not allowed to even carry a bucket because that would harm his study. He didn't even bother home educating his sister....again, because it would have "disturbed" his studies I guess🤔. I remember he showed Sonakshi the gullies using which he used go his private tutors! People from worse condition, clears UPSC , becomes IAS or IRS. Dev didn't do any wonder really. He succeeded yes, but he was given every opportunity possible to succeed. His Mom, so righteous & virtuous otherwise, even stole bangles to fund his business. She didn't consider doing anything like that for her other 3 children. I seriously don't understand what he did to earn so much worshipping & think of himself as some victim

Originally posted by: CottonWorld

Could be. He seems to be ignorant and lack knowledge about the relationship between a wife and husband... except for the physical needs part lol

I don't know whether to consider it good or bad but yeah....it seems his Goddeshwari Mummy cannot control at least that part of his life😆. He lets his hormones control him there😆

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30

I think he has been mentally conditioned to accept what his mother says, and even if he knows its totally wrong, it's very hard to come right out and confront her with it. I know this happens, as I know someone going through this personally.

He has treated Sona poorly every time his mother had twisted his arms. Taking Ishwari out of the equation, things have been just fine for them. This is why I hate how they have reversed character development for Dev this season. Took so long to get there and poof, erased it all just like that.

Dev-Sona relationship will work properly if they lived separately. When post-leap, Dev wasn't very close to his mother, Dev-Sona were working together much better. They should just get a separate apartment, move with their kids and things will go far more smoothly.

Actually the problem is that the writers have backtracked & thrown a good chunk of season 1 & whole season 2 away.

I understand Dev's initial submissive behaviour towards Ishwari. Yes.... Ishwari brought him up like that. With continuous emotional blackmails & manipulations she programmed him like scientists program robots. Sonakshi said as much after the 7 years separation.

So I understand his initial blind faith on Mummy & ignorance towards Sonakshi & the first breakup (the hospital one). The 2nd break up took away all respect I had for him....but still I somewhat understand how Ishwari played a role in it.

But after that 7 years leap? I find him just terrible & terrible. Towards the very end of season 1, he somewhat grew as a person, even though they totally skipped his realisation & redemption, at least it could be seen he was a changed man. He even didn't mind going against his Godly mother for what he thought was right to do with Sonakshi. (Ex - His mother wanted Sonakshi to have Shubh but Dev said they needed to abort as it was risky for Sona, he pushed Sonakshi to work when his mother wanted her to sit at home & be a housewife, he even left his own work & looked after Shubh for that, much to his Mother's dismay....) It was brief, but they did establish that he learnt from his mistakes & changed for the better.

Now in season 3 they have given his character a complete U turn & he is even worse than how he used to be pre-leap. Back then you could at least say that he is not realising this & that or he is making mistake....but now he is like...he doesn't care at all about what happens to Sonakshi or his own kids. All that matters is his mother. Previously at least he used to placate Sonakshi inside their bedroom after siding with Mummy outside.... Now even in the privacy of bedroom, he is screaming shouting at Sonakshi asking why can't she just stop using her brain & blindly worship the ground his mother walks onHonestly speaking, right now it looks like he is intentionally being abusive! And oh! I just noticed, their bedroom wall is alarmingly devoid of their marriage pics now (which used to be full of at least a dozen of them back in the day) & there's a big photo of his Mom even inside "their" bedroom 🤪 I just can't fathom how awkward Sonakshi must have felt everytime they got intimate in front of his mother's picture🤢