Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi 3 Written Updates 20 Aug 2021 - Page 8

Originally posted by: NotAMuggle

Actually the problem is that the writers have backtracked & thrown a good chunk of season 1 & whole season 2 away.

I understand Dev's initial submissive behaviour towards Ishwari. Yes.... Ishwari brought him up like that. With continuous emotional blackmails & manipulations she programmed him like scientists program robots. Sonakshi said as much after the 7 years separation.

So I understand his initial blind faith on Mummy & ignorance towards Sonakshi & the first breakup (the hospital one). The 2nd break up took away all respect I had for him....but still I somewhat understand how Ishwari played a role in it.

But after that 7 years leap? I find him just terrible & terrible. Towards the very end of season 1, he somewhat grew as a person, even though they totally skipped his realisation & redemption, at least it could be seen he was a changed man. He even didn't mind going against his Godly mother for what he thought was right to do with Sonakshi. (Ex - His mother wanted Sonakshi to have Shubh but Dev said they needed to abort as it was risky for Sona, he pushed Sonakshi to work when his mother wanted her to sit at home & be a housewife, he even left his own work & looked after Shubh for that, much to his Mother's dismay....) It was brief, but they did establish that he learnt from his mistakes & changed for the better.

Now in season 3 they have given his character a complete U turn & he is even worse than how he used to be pre-leap. Back then you could at least say that he is not realising this & that or he is making mistake....but now he is like...he doesn't care at all about what happens to Sonakshi or his own kids. All that matters is his mother. Previously at least he used to placate Sonakshi inside their bedroom after siding with Mummy outside.... Now even in the privacy of bedroom, he is screaming shouting at Sonakshi asking why can't she just stop using her brain & blindly worship the ground his mother walks onHonestly speaking, right now it looks like he is intentionally being abusive! And oh! I just noticed, their bedroom wall is alarmingly devoid of their marriage pics now (which used to be full of at least a dozen of them back in the day) & there's a big photo of his Mom even inside "their" bedroom 🤪 I just can't fathom how awkward Sonakshi must have felt everytime they got intimate in front of his mother's picture🤢

Agree. Tbh I've never understood Dev's love for Sonakshi till date . Don't know what made him fall for her in the first place . It just seems like his own need for a partner made him fall. He definitely doesn't love her for the woman she is . He has problems with everything that Sona is, this season . He doesn't want her to prioritise work , he doesn't want her to prioritise her father and brother , he doesn't want her to have a mind of her own .

He seems to want a beautiful robot he can operate through a remote control.

Hey guys, do u guys think they will show EMA? I am afraid they will show sona shattered n thinking she is worthless n blaming herself.

Here one of my colleague going through it. She is thinking after delivery is she not pretty any more. And may b she was not good enough in bed activities. And she is blaming herself she won't be able to get dad for her child. Her condition is very bad. I hope cvs don't show this horrible track. Keep it to ma beta mahan track only pls..

Originally posted by: Hari73

Hey guys, do u guys think they will show EMA? I am afraid they will show sona shattered n thinking she is worthless n blaming herself.

I read a new female character is joining & she is supposed to be so much infatuated with him. Not sure about EMA but I can see problems heading in.

About your friend, I think she might be going through some postpartum depression. Many women go through it. Get help.

Originally posted by: NotAMuggle

Actually the problem is that the writers have backtracked & thrown a good chunk of season 1 & whole season 2 away.

I understand Dev's initial submissive behaviour towards Ishwari. Yes.... Ishwari brought him up like that. With continuous emotional blackmails & manipulations she programmed him like scientists program robots. Sonakshi said as much after the 7 years separation.

So I understand his initial blind faith on Mummy & ignorance towards Sonakshi & the first breakup (the hospital one). The 2nd break up took away all respect I had for him....but still I somewhat understand how Ishwari played a role in it.

But after that 7 years leap? I find him just terrible & terrible. Towards the very end of season 1, he somewhat grew as a person, even though they totally skipped his realisation & redemption, at least it could be seen he was a changed man. He even didn't mind going against his Godly mother for what he thought was right to do with Sonakshi. (Ex - His mother wanted Sonakshi to have Shubh but Dev said they needed to abort as it was risky for Sona, he pushed Sonakshi to work when his mother wanted her to sit at home & be a housewife, he even left his own work & looked after Shubh for that, much to his Mother's dismay....) It was brief, but they did establish that he learnt from his mistakes & changed for the better.

Now in season 3 they have given his character a complete U turn & he is even worse than how he used to be pre-leap. Back then you could at least say that he is not realising this & that or he is making mistake....but now he is like...he doesn't care at all about what happens to Sonakshi or his own kids. All that matters is his mother. Previously at least he used to placate Sonakshi inside their bedroom after siding with Mummy outside.... Now even in the privacy of bedroom, he is screaming shouting at Sonakshi asking why can't she just stop using her brain & blindly worship the ground his mother walks onHonestly speaking, right now it looks like he is intentionally being abusive! And oh! I just noticed, their bedroom wall is alarmingly devoid of their marriage pics now (which used to be full of at least a dozen of them back in the day) & there's a big photo of his Mom even inside "their" bedroom 🤪 I just can't fathom how awkward Sonakshi must have felt everytime they got intimate in front of his mother's picture🤢

Bold 1:

This is the main problem.

Season 1 was completely done. They showed flaws in characters, incidents happening due to those flaws, characters then realizing it and moving past and finally getting together, learning from those.

Now, all that is gone.

The Dev at the end of S1 would have told his mother, Ma, Sona doesn't want to bring Ayush home right away, she wants to give him as well as us some time and space and I respect that and stand by her.

The Dev at the end of S1 would have called his mother ahead of time, as Sona suggested and made sure nothing grand was done for Ayush's arrival.

The Dev at the end of S1 would have stepped in at the dining table and stopped his mother from intimidating Ayush into eating.

Most importantly, the Dev at the end of S1, would have taken a stand for Ayush and supported Sona in making sure this name change doesn't sustain, just as he took stands for Suhana against his mother, or for Sona's pregnancy against his mother.

Not standing for his kids is basically taking his character growth really backwards, because he was taking a stand even for Nikki(when she wanted night out), Neha(when he didn't reveal to anyone that Neha didn't want kids) and Riya(how he didn't have to wait and bring her home from work, she could come herself) pre-leap. This time, though, it's really going backwards.

Bold 2:

All family members pics are there, including the kids. Although, I don't know why. Over your bed, keep your own couple pics! Who the hell is designing these things!

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

I read a new female character is joining & she is supposed to be so much interested in him. Not sure about EMA but I can see problems heading in.

About your friend, I think she might be going through some postpartum depression. Many women go through it. Get help.

Its not postpartum depression. She caught him red handed n he was staying out for many days. It continued more than 3 to 4 months as she gave chance to correct but no use n now she told him to leave the house. But she crying as her all dream shattered. It's her feeling why it happened to her. N feel sorry for her child n feeling guilty. We cannot help in this. That man not even ready for counselling. Only we can suggest her to stay strong. Hope she become strong to handle this.

Originally posted by: Hari73

Its not postpartum depression. She caught him red handed n he was staying out for many days. It continued more than 3 to 4 months as she gave chance to correct but no use n now she told him to leave the house. But she crying as her all dream shattered. It's her feeling why it happened to her. N feel sorry for her child n feeling guilty. We cannot help in this. That man not even ready for counselling. Only we can suggest her to stay strong. Hope she become strong to handle this.

oops I misunderstood. Very sad indeed she must be devastated. Once a cheater always a cheater. MostIndian men are against seeing therapist or counseling. As if it is below their dignity & ego. Nothing is ever wrong with them. It’s always with the woman. Hope she gets counseling for herself to figure out what to do with herself & the child. 🙁