Sonakshi needs to take a firm stand for Ayush

I understand sonakshi is taking time to process that Ayush is her son and I completely understand that. But this season's sonakshi is not firm about anything. Remember how she was firm even with Vicky's internship.

She should now stand up to Dev and ishwari and stop them from taking rash decisions.

In the new promo Dev is trying to change Aysuh's school. His intention might be right but this is just too much for a kid. Poor child hasn't even gotten used to the house and now they want to take away his friends from school too.

Changing schools alone is so hard for children , that with all the house change , family change, father's death, no grandparents the child will suffocate. Only Sona so far has understood Aysuh's struggle so far. She just needs to be firm of what she decides and now let Dev decide everything.

I agree. And few fans are hell bent on proving that Sona is not understanding Ayush. She is that's why she is taking baby steps. She is not suffocating him with her love like Ishwari, instead she is making him feel comfortable first. But she also has her apprehension regarding the whole matter. How can she suddenly show love to Ayush when somewhere she herself is feeling guilty of cheating on Soha. She needs to come clear to herself and for that she will need time.

Hopefully Dev understands how different it will be for Ayush to change to a new school when already he is trying to adjust in a new house.

I really hope sona dont just stand crying while esh sending soha away like in her dream. Hope she takes stand for suhana..

Sorry but I think it's Suhana who needs her more than Ayush. So it's Suhana she must take a stand for at the moment as everyone is hell bent on snatching things away from her and give it to Ayush instead.

I don't think she needs to leave suhana for that. ayush just needs time. i'd probably rather ayush slowly with time grow on suhana and sonakshi.

pushing ayush and suhana together is what is causing the problem. otherwise i don't really think suhana is that big of an issue. She and ayush both need time remember how the first day they met she tried to talk to him twice. she will try if not for the excessive push from ishu and dev

i think we often mistakenly think that maternity is some auto trauma bond that happens when you experience unequivocal pain to give birth to a child. thats not true. its a bond you built over time. for sona from the moment the baby came out of her it was soha. it was soha whose needs triggered her body, her postpartum hormones and maternal instincts. add to that she raised the girl from day 1. is it not undue pressure on her to just change all that and suddenly expect her to feel remotely similar for another child? no matter how much she may (and a strong MAY) have given birth to him- ayush is not her baby. soha is. ppl are like she's doing partiality with soha. well ya- at the very core of it soha is her baby. we're all partial to our babies. i also see ppl comparing dev and sona. tbh- dev and sona are not even remotely comparable in this case. maybe if it was shubh then shayad. for dev he hasn't raised soha for that much longer than he has raised ayush. the switch is nowhere near as difficult even if i take out the aforementioned hormones and instincts. he also sees himself in ayush's struggle which make it very easy for him to just imagine another.

how and why do we expect sona to take decisions for ayush when she cannot love him like that rn? and why do we expect her to love him like that rn? for her its like going through postpartum basically- as if she's birthed a new baby. so perhaps for the time being- its fine if dev does the care-giving. if sona could raise soha alone for 8 years- no issue in dev pulling the weight here till sona comes to term instead of constant critique.

I understand that. I am not even asking Sona to mother him. Or do anything for him. She just needs to be firmer imo. She can clearly see what ishu is doing and how Dev is wrong. She's not told Dev not to suffocate AYUSH or not be partial towards Soha.

Uh idk I wrote this 4 days ago my thoughts aren't exactly similar either. I also feel and ishwari aren't listening to her at all and gaslighting her almost.

Originally posted by: Doodle12

I understand that. I am not even asking Sona to mother him. Or do anything for him. She just needs to be firmer imo. She can clearly see what ishu is doing and how Dev is wrong. She's not told Dev not to suffocate AYUSH or not be partial towards Soha.

Uh idk I wrote this 4 days ago my thoughts aren't exactly similar either. I also feel and ishwari aren't listening to her at all and gaslighting her almost.

the gaslighting is so real and constant from dev and ishwari both. they never listen to her anyways but my point here is that she's not in the right frame herself to make any calls. she herself is overwhelmed in her own stance towards her kids. so is it right to ask her to reason with dev and ishu who are terrible on a good day and now toh sona's bad days are running. i do feel bad- its sad for ayush cos dev is definitely the less competent thinker amongst the parents crew but he's what ayush will get. maybe better than no parents and just dada dadi? i can't decide.

Yeah well you're right. Its just frustrating. If they'd have let ayush stay with his grandparents all of this drama wouldn't have happened.

Dev is high key stupid sometimes. Mamaji etc are also somehow not understanding. Neha Nikki haven't been given screen time. It's mindboggling honestly how they just bought a whole new child without consulting the whole family first. Honestly imo they should've never told ayush about the baby swap thing.

oh ya. i literally wrote this in my other post- dev just does what is right for his ego and to make himself feel better. no care that he totally destabilized ayush and sonakshi, confused soha and triggered his mother. he doesn't really think beyond himself frequently.

he has been cooking up stupid stories for a while now. i was also mad at sona for going along but i guess they hardly listen to her and honestly, she feels very fragile because she doesn't want them to abandon her daughter. they aren't really the most confidence giving individuals. sona is also aware that the only reason for dev's and ishwari's jhukav towards soha is because she's (was) their blood. they didn't raise her so there's nothing binding them to soha unlike the bose family. so that insecurity is making her even more fragile.