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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Can't agree more with you nitu. Even though her Accept your mistakes dialogue really cracked me up and I am still rolling on the floor laughing but at the same time her bossy nature and pendulum like behavior is really annoying. On top of that ishwari's never ending interference and tantrums. Basically this saas-bahu are made for each other.😆


In the first few episodes of the initial marriage phase, Dev tells Sonakshi that since she has come to IN, she has only been focused on winning the "best bahu title" and also tells that she never even tried to win the "best wife" title. She is proving his words to be true. 😆 😆

And that is why for me the real fun starts from monday when she will have to face society.


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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: LiveLife321


Can't agree more with you nitu. Even though her Accept your mistakes dialogue really cracked me up and I am still rolling on the floor laughing but at the same time her bossy nature and pendulum like behavior is really annoying. On top of that ishwari's never ending interference and tantrums. Basically this saas-bahu are made for each other.😆



If nature had allowed Sona would be giving birth to Ishwari's child .Seriously it feels like Dev is just a sperm donor here . Sona no longer has any issues with Ishwari's interference and often supports her dear MIL .
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Can't agree more with you nitu. Even though her Accept your mistakes dialogue really cracked me up and I am still rolling on the floor laughing but at the same time her bossy nature and pendulum like behavior is really annoying. On top of that ishwari's never ending interference and tantrums. Basically this saas-bahu are made for each other.😆

Latha makers have played a safe game here. . HER PENDULAM like behaviour is a result of that. So she is shown in both ways. Career poriented and family oriented. So no one can point a finger at her. And I don't think she bothers for society. Didn't she spend one week in both houses with Dev in season 2 ?


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Posted: 7 years ago
for taking care of "my kids and that's when my assumption that Dev is doing it for himself proved wrong


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Good to see you understand the fact. Dev is passionate about his profession. When he realised Sonakshi would never feel happy staying at home though she says she will,he made his decision.





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Posted: 7 years ago

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If nature had allowed Sona would be giving birth to Ishwari's child .Seriously it feels like Dev is just a sperm donor here . Sona no longer has any issues with Ishwari's interference and often supports her dear MIL .

Wonderful Nitu you made me laugh and relieved me from stress that I felt on seeing the episode.

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Posted: 7 years ago
I wrote this in another post, am adding it here.
Sonakshi is somebody who is shown as a person who doesn't face the "consequences of her actions" especially when they are negative. It is not to say that she doesn't do it with the best of intentions. She does everything with the best of intentions. But when the result is less than ideal is when she starts distributing the blame.

Standing there, seeing all the things Dev had done, she did feel all the love and support she got from him and that is what she said in her speech. For her, it ended there, her words, her emotions, her thoughts. But what happens when she finds that her words have been captured and viewed by millions of people including her paternal family and everyone associated with it. And also Dixit family and everyone associated with them. When she started working on the project, her only goal was the project success and she did achieve it. The speech was not something that she prepared beforehand. It was just what came from her heart at that minute. But will she be ok when it is questioned by the very same people from whom she seeks constant approval like Ishwari, Bijoy and Asha. In the precap too if you look at Sonakshi's expressions it is one of alarm. If she didn't really care about this reaction from society why isn't she calm. But Dev is calm and he is clear in his thoughts.

Society can be generous as well as cruel. They can praise someone to the moon as well as condemn too. While the society will applaud Dev for what he is doing, they will censure Sonakshi saying you have turned a man like Dev Dixit to "joru ka gulaam". And people talk. No one can stop them to talk. I am saying this from personal experience. Is she ready to answer the society when they will ask her if she is happy that she has now turned Dev into "joru ka gulaam". It won't matter to them if Sonakshi asked him to be a stay at home husband or not. Nor will they just accept her word and say, yes you didn't say, he did it by himself.The truth here wouldn't matter to society. Will she be ok if people refer to Dev as "henpecked husband".
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Posted: 7 years ago
Shaavi I am clueless of Sonakshi 's reaction. I very much wish what you say become true but I doubt the intentions of the makers.That is my problem




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Posted: 7 years ago
Adding to what I wrote just above a few episodes before Bijoy commented how his daughter made a man out of Dev Dixit. In today's episode Sonakshi on national television admitted that she is somebody because of him. Credited all her success to him. What do you guys think Bijoy's reaction will be when he sees Sonakshi's speech. 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Shaavi I am clueless of Sonakshi 's reaction. I very much wish what you say become true but I doubt the intentions of the makers.That is my problem




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Lakshmi, as you know one of my favorite book is pride and Prejudice. And I feel it is DDs inspiration too and see KRPKAB is a modern Indianized version of P&P. In the book too Elizabeth is highly prejudiced against Darcy. When he confesses his love to her, she rejects it and chides him for his pride. Later he gives her a letter. In the book, it is mentioned that Elizabeth reads it multiple times before accepting the truth written in that letter about her sister and her family as well as about Mr. Wickham. Even with that letter she still doubts him when she sees his behavior in Pemberly. When she gets the letter about Lydia eloping with Wickham, she thinks that Darcy is lost to her for ever. Even towards the end when he comes to Longbourn with Bingley, but doesn't talk to her, she mistakes his actions and kind of gets angry both at his silence and her own feelings. She feels that he no longer loves her. When Catherine De Bourgh comes to her home and has that conversation too, she cannot really tell her that Darcy did love her. After that conversation, she once again is not sure of what Darcy's reaction is. But when he does come and they get the opportunity, Elizabeth is the first one to confess her thanks, that in turn pushes Darcy to renew his proposal which Elizabeth accepts this time. Mr. Bennet agrees to Darcy when the later asks his approval, but is still skeptical. Only when Elizabeth explains everything completely is when Mr. Bennet agrees. The help that Darcy gave Lydia is the last nail on the coffin that convinces of both Elizabeth and Darcy's love and sincerity.

I see KRPKAB in a similar light. Dev is now near the final chapters, like where Darcy gives his ok for Jane and Bingley's marriage. Maybe this is the reason why I am very optimistic that the makers will show Sonakshi's realization and admission of the same in front of everyone. 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
Shaavi and ltelidevara, I agree with your posts! Sonakshi wants to please one and all... even in today's episode she wanted to please Ishwari first. Her change of attitude towards Dev was probably due to what Soha said...Sona is quick to reflect only when questions are asked by OTHERS! Soha's questions have always impacted her to think and act. Her romantic side today and subsequent speech could have been spur of the moment emotions from the heart (not planned from the mind as she usually does). It was nice to see this side of her..

The future consequences of the speech will however not be in her favor. It will be a war between Ishwari and Dev, and Sona will have to take a strong stand with whom to support instead of swinging like a pendulum! She will have to decide either to stand and support Dev (as his life partner) or stand next to Ishwari (as IN Bahu). She will have to decide what is more important.. Dev's and kids happiness with Dev as super dad, or Ishwari's decisions and Dev as mamma's boy'.

Sonakshi doesn't fear society norms.. she lived 7 years as a single parent w/o disclosing Dev's name even in Soha's birth certificate ... but she does care about pleasing one and all in her family! She has fully forgiven and accepted Ishwari as integral part of Dev's life to extent of supporting Ishwari more than Dev! Hopefully this video' storm will get her to think and act!

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