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On YouTube saw an old on location shoot which reminded me of certain dialogues and watched those episodes. It is from Neha Ranveer marriage track. In that, in one of the episode, the sisters will be discussing the kind of food and music for the different days. Where Sonakshi says that the food should be of the diet kind and healthy. The sisters protest and Dev comes there and supports Sonakshi saying she is correct. After that scene Dev is shown to go to kitchen and say that she cannot be right all the time, where she tells him that boyfriends should always follow what girlfriends say(paraphrasing here 😃 ). So he says he is not joru last gulaam. So she says that it is instinct of guys to do as their gf says. After that in one of the scenes it is shown that Sonakshi is in kitchen, sees Dev and calls him with hand gesture. He starts walking towards her, but midway decides that he doesn't want to be jkg and walks off in different direction. The next time they come in front of each other. Sonakshi puts her hands on her ears in apologetic way and tells him that she is sorry and that he is not jkg. He replies that he was ok of being one, but since she is insisting, he will not be one.

I feel this suits Dev and Sonakshi now. He was jkg, now is in midway where he is saying he doesn't want to be jkg. Hopefully the makers will keep a similar series of events as above and make Sonakshi say sorry for converting him to what he is now. And ask him to be what he was before.

Originally posted by: Shaavi

Nitu, I am still on the fence on this one. There is a probability that the makers show the story as you said and will not go back to his business for another 2 - 3 years. But what I am more curious is about is Sonakshi. Is she ready to give up her place as the "best mom, or "perfect mom. In our society, a women's life is considered as complete when she gives birth to a child and becomes a mother. Because Dev was not there when she was a child, Soha told him that he was just her father and not her "papa.. And went on to say that a papa is one who is like Bijoy. Now if Sonakshi is ku nd of absent from their lives for 2 - 3 years, and Soha compares Sonakshi with Asha or Ronita and says a "mom should be like them. And so Sonakshi is just her mother and not her "mom, is Sonakshi prepared for that situation.

As to that nanny, the makers kind of made a mockery out of it. 😆

Shaavi ,

They will never show anyone in the show questioning about Sona's role as a mother or wife .If they wanted to show they would have made Soha ask this question instead of Dev when truth of Dev being the father was revealed.

In this show , Sona was , is and will be perfect mother,wife ,daughter .They would never address her flaws .

Yest epi was just galling to say the least. I just dont get this:

Originally posted by: yyy

Shaavi ,

They will never show anyone in the show questioning about Sona's role as a mother or wife .If they wanted to show they would have made Soha ask this question instead of Dev when truth of Dev being the father was revealed.

In this show , Sona was , is and will be perfect mother,wife ,daughter .They would never address her flaws .

Nitu

@JALK2000 I can very well relate to your frustration, it was same case with me after watching yesterday's episode, I just do not understand why are the CVs stereotyping things based on gender, before the season started when I came to know about the role reversal this was the exact same thing I was hoping against but the makers have done just that, stereotype . Is this the same Dev who post leap was shown to handle Golu and infact telling Elena how to hold the kid yet he seemed to have forgotten that when it came to his own kid. Why are they showing Dev to be so dumb.
Now I am kind of sure what @iteledevara had written while starting this post regarding the kind of ending this season would have will come true. I guess the last scene of this season would be the award scene and the makers will show that while a woman is able to manage both professional and personal lives, a man can never balance both and Dev will end up being either a house husband or businessman, the probability of him being a house husband being more.

My POV, no offence.

These saas-bahu are seriously getting on my nerves. Especially Sona, when she got married she used to swing between her baba and maa. When bijoy is unhappy then she used to shout and fight with Dev and when asha gives her gyaan then she used to come and hug Dev. Now she is swinging between Dev and rest of the family. What exactly she feels for Dev, one minute she says I trust you and next minute she says I think our family is right. On top of that she is becoming control freak openly now as if ishwari is not enough, now he should take permission from her If he wants to speak. There is no trust, no respect, not even companionship. What exactly is there in their relationship? And what exactly these makers want to convey? If they call this as progressive content then I prefer to call myself conservative.

Latha

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

These saas-bahu are seriously getting on my nerves. Especially Sona, when she got married she used to swing between her baba and maa. When bijoy is unhappy then she used to shout and fight with Dev and when asha gives her gyaan then she used to come and hug Dev. Now she is swinging between Dev and rest of the family. What exactly she feels for Dev, one minute she says I trust you and next minute she says I think our family is right. On top of that she is becoming control freak openly now as if ishwari is not enough, now he should take permission from her If he wants to speak. There is no trust, no respect, not even companionship. What exactly is there in their relationship?And what exactly these makers want to convey? If they call this as progressive content then I prefer to call myself conservative.

I am actually waiting to see how much patience does Dev have, any normal human being would generally after all this will burst out, both Ishwari & Sonakshi are behaving as if Dev does not want the well being of the kids. I really want Dev to tell both that the kids are not with any stranger but their Dad but I highly doubt as if that happens both the ladies will stop talking to him and emotionally blackmail him . In fact yesterday Mami made more sense than these two and the way Saurabh is progressing I will not be surprised if Mrs.Mondal influences him and gets her way.

My POV, no offence.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Latha

What is new here? It is always Sonakshi who called the shots. Shaavi puts it right. Sonakshi is a replica of Iswari. Mirror image. Dev can not function on his own anytime. He has to accept Vikky back. Sonakshi wished it. He signed the agreement Sonaksi wanted him to. Though I very much enjoyed seeing that nanny get her due I know it is because Sonakshi and Iswari doesn't want her in IN. Ofcourse that nanny is a kaamchor and deserved to be thrown out.

So Dev will have to submit before Iswari in the past and Sonakshi at present That is the mantra for the survival of their married life.

Lakshmi

@sp12, Isn't it the same that guy was saying from episode one that they are his kids too and she is not leaving them to any stranger. Is there any one listening to him at all? No more emotional blackmailing please, looks like as shaavi and Lakshmi says Sona is turning into another ishwari.