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Shaavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

<font color="#ff00ff">The way I see it.. Saurabh wants his child to have what he could not have.. starting from the best room in the house which I guess is Sonakshi's old room</font>

From the beginning of the series, Sonakshi was shown to get that unanimous support from the whole Bose family for all her decisions. Although Saurabh always supported her, he still was shown to question as to why he doesn't get that kind of support. He is like Neha of Bose family. One who feels that his contributions is never acknowledged.

By asking Sonakshi to clean out her room and make way for the baby, he wants to claim the "haq" he never got but always wanted. He doesn't want his child to feel like second class citizen that he was made to feel. He wants everything best in the world including the child being his parents primary focus. He wants his wife to get that place that Sonakshi holds right now -- the executive decision maker role. He wants Ronita to be truly the "daughter" of the Bose family.

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ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#32

Sam and DQ

Right now I have a problem only with Sonakshi 's behaviour and that is my way of seeing things.

I did not have a problem with any one at this moment though they all offended Dev ...Elena by exploiting his love for Golu..Vikky by manipulating Soha,Mamaji by being an opportunist,Mami by her partiality towards her son and Iswari by not gauging through Dev's inner conscience to see how offended he is by the revelation of Vikky's crooked plans that separated him with his wife and almost broke down his business .So I don't need to put any of them against Dev.

I feel bad for Dev because he doesn't deserve such treatment atleast from his daughter.

If by speaking for Dev you feel I pitted him and Sonakshi against each other I am sorry for spoiling the decorum of your thread.

Like Shaavi said questions are asked by people like us because Sonakshi is behaving against what she stood for and how she presented herself before.

So I do bother if Soha continues her misbehaviour and hurts Dev...

@ Aarcha ..Your summary really is good but it won't work for me as I believe Sonakshi's reasoning behind Dev slapping Vikky is lame and unapplicable to the situation.

I also don't agree with you when you said Dev should learn to control himself. It is not that easy when you see your culprit playing with your daughter during school hours as if nothing had happened. It is even more difficult when you see your daughter fall and all coolness and composure will blow off. I react like that only if my only daughter gets injured. First things first I will take to task the person who made her fall...

In the spoilers I read Vikky says Dev did not take permission to bring Golu home. How come he went to the school to play with Soha? Did he take permission? I hope Dev would ask him that.

Lakshmi

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timbarucha83

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Posted: 8 years ago

#33

Hi every One,

Finally I get the proper time to put my thoughts in the form of post for the last weeks developments and my view on the coming week.

Now coming to the pervious week it was full of many events which was happen. In the last week we see that dev and sona was once again back to the normal many of you will feel that they are not having an proper communication with each other but still I like the entire things. I know they have not talk on the actual issue but the entire rain sequence and the date part have the more importance. The problem of the dev was that he is not able to see the old sona but instead of that he was able to see the new sona who was more practical. And his fear to loose sona was making him mad so he try to get her attention and want to give her the lot of love and want to make her protected. But in the rain sequence he was able to see the old sona who was giving an importance to dev not her files(means work) and ready to spend the time with dev and enjoy the moment and create a beautiful memory so it must have given the assurance to the dev and In the same way In this sequence sona was able to see the old dev who was giving her simple gifts who was smiling and happy, They both relived the memory of the past which was before their marriage phase where their relationship was more beautiful compare to their marriage phase so it have a good impact on her. Even I like the way sona explain the recipe of the love. See how you are the express your love is going to the different one.

Now coming to the dev's current behavior related to vickki which you can understand but his anger had made the things difficult. Vickki has already used soha and golu very well . He already impressed soha and goes in the her good books and as soha is having an good impression on vickki it helped him to go near to his own son. He is playing very carefully. But I am sure he is going to make the blunder again. I hope this track will bring vickki's original face in front of soha and entire family. See it is the truth that if a child feels that he is not getting the proper attention from the parents and if some other third person gives them more attention it is the common feeling that the third person is the good one and the own parents are bad. So this is the phase and it comes in every child's life but at the end of the phase child understand the importance of the mother and father. If you try to press the soha that your papa and mama are the good and vickki chahu is bad then it will have the negative impact. See dev and cannot disclosed the actual reason upto the situation where soha itself tells everyone that vickki chahu is bad and he is not a good person. And this will happen because you cannot fool the kids they have a very good observation skill so if vickki changes his behavior after returning back to the ishu niwas he will be goes in to the bad books of soha and golu as his this behavior is only for time being. His first moto is to come back to the ishu niwas and then in the co. By manipulating the soha he can come back in the house but not in co. Because from soha point of view any work is the good work so in that case to get back in the co. he cannot use soha and no one can force dev to give him the another chance in the co not even ishu mata and mami because now Ishu mata will be grateful that dev allow vickki to come back but cannot say any thing in his decisions in business. Honestly I want a sequence that mami and ishu mata is asking him allow him to work in co and dev is saying no and asking him to work by own as he is trying to change to start the things by their own. This will bring the vickki's mask down and he will be back in the true self and to get the money will try to harm soha or cheat the ishu mata. By which I really hope she will say tata and bye bye to her brother and bhabhi and say strongly support dev. Because here if soha has not forced dev still at one point dev is forces to bring back vickki back to home because still Ishu mata feels that she is under her brother's ehasan so unless and until she is bale to make her free from that dev is not able to a strong step and execute it. But after that when he will get caught how they will move the story I don't thing they will make vickki positive after this so they have two options either send him jail or kill him.

Now coming to the bose house. About bose family and dada I think they will take the root like if they change the sona's room means indirectly they are changing her position at bose house. Baba bose has promised sona that her room will be the same forever before her marriage . But if dada change this for his child this will be the start then with the influence with mrs. Mandal he will try to remove the influence of sona from business. See the problem is dada never get importance in the bose house as a elder son so now he subconsciously want that importance his child and he must get. But to for the creation of new person postion you can't hurt the old one who is the pillar of your house .At this point dada is afraid of doing this but if he ask sona she will be hurt but she will say yes and bose also will ignore this in the coming happiness but it will have the effects for long term . Here dynamics are also changing slowly and another plot is coming forward..

Lets see how the things move.

Edited by timbarucha83 - 8 years ago

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asha2012

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Posted: 8 years ago

#34

I somehow felt this was coming especially after Saurav's words in the Friday episode on wanting to give the best for his child. There is no harm in wanting that but it should not be at the cost of his sister and neice.

I sometimes feel very bad for Dev and Sona - they always give so much for their family including their marriage and yet they are always expected to sacrifice more.

I somehow feel more and more that Vicky is going to throw them out of IN and then there would be more drama at Boses. Because Saurav (more than anyone else) who will not take kindly to Sona, dev and Soha (maybe Ishwari too) moving to Boses house, I think there would be a back story as to why Sona was always lonely when she was pregnant with Soha - maybe the Boses also felt awkward that their single daughter was pregnant. Just maybe they would show that the Boses were also not so nice to Sona - I think the only reason that Sona became so cold emotionally was that she felt that owed her parents and brother a comfortable lifestyle and that was the main driver for her to earn money especially considering that her brother was not very good with money and business.

Now that Sona is back with Dev she knows somewhere deep down that she may have to step in to help her parents and thats the reason she is not slowing down her work and business. I always thought that inspite of everything, Sourav always felt that he never got his due in terms of love and respect from his parents and this is his way of getting even. We dont know of course, at this stage whether its Mrs. Mondal who is poisoning his mind.

I really wish that the makers at least show us some scenes where Sona breaks down when asked to move her things from her room and Dev comforting her. Though I know this may be just wishful thinking on my part.

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timbarucha83

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Posted: 8 years ago

#35

@asha2012 Trust me vickki will not throw dev out or do nay kind of harm but above discussed change the bose house this will be start where in future mrs. mandal will manipulate the dada and try to remove the sona's influence with bose house and business. And why they will come to bose house sona is rich they can have their own house. Her co has market value is 400 crs. And dev is alrady rich.Dev is and was always smart when it comes to his business if not then very early dev and Ishu was on raod. He will try to do the damage but fail and then dev will throw him out or send him to jail. This is not the typical serial where hero become poor .

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asha2012

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Posted: 8 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: timbarucha83
@asha2012 Trust me vickki will not throw dev out or do nay kind of harm but above discusschange this will be start where in future mrs. mandal will manipulate the dada and try to remove the sona's influence with bose house and business. And why they will come to bose house sona is rich they can have their own house. Her co has market value of 400 crs. And dev is alrady rich.Dev is and was always amart when it come s to his business if not then very early dev and Ishu was on raod. He will try to do the damage but fail and then dev will throw him out or send him to jail. This is not the typical serial where hero become poor .

Thanks for making me feel better😃

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thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

Soha is being manipulated -- that is why she is behaving abnormally, and acting out -- and I am so happy to see that Dev and Sona are treating her as a victim rather than a gunegaar. In fact, Vicky is doing to her, precisely what his mother did to him. A child who was once grateful for her parents' attention and could function very well without constant care (even in Bose house, she spent a lot of time alone, drawing) is now feeling entitled, and like she has been wronged because her parents have been preoccupied for a few days. If Sona and Dev were to discipline her strictly at this point, that would be a repeat of the mistakes that Mamaji made, neglecting to counteract the harmful effects of his wife's bitterness. What Soha needs to counteract the effects of Vicky's influence is the constant and unrelenting assurance that she is loved by her parents.

@Sam, precisely.. Soha is getting a vital lesson in life... "Sweety, you can communicate with us in every possible way. We understand this is not making sense... Somethings are not meant to be understood in great detail. You are allowed to be angry. You are already hurting because we failed to pay you the attention when you were crying out loud for parental attention. we are here and you can show us your anger, hurt and disappointment" . When push came to shove, she went to Dev to stop Golu from going. (also notice, when the scene played, Dev and Suhana entered the room together. i.e. Dev was likely with Suhana talking out the "ghar chod ke jana scenario")

She is 7.. At this age, she could loose all her innocence in trusting others if she is given too much information. Dev has always operated on a need-to-know basis.. (This is the very reason his family believes they pull strings when they do none of that!). Elena taking the child to the restaurant before her school was a breach of unsaid rules between Dev & Elena where it comes to parenting. Does mami even remember the Dev who stood hand folded in front of her and asked for forgivness for not saying thanks for her help in the last 7 years? Her and Elena are forgetting that Dev gets excused because he asks for it! he begs for it... How did mami even find out about the slap? obviously Vicky told her

I do think Suhana should be told Vicky chachu is a dangerous person and the AGA should be warned. However, Dev & Sona still don't know if vicky is causing any harm to Soha directly.

Dev & Sona are doing exactly what the elders advised Dev... yeh sab bachchon ke saamne nahi hona chaheeye tha! Warna tu khush kaise rahega. All the kids need to know know is that Dev considers Vicky a threat to the family. And some rules are not to be broken or debated... They have been given that information in a diluted gentle manner. They were told that Dev does not have a problem with Vicky being friends with Soha (which like I said needs addressing). They were told its "badon kee batein". For now, I see nothing wrong with any of that

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thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: timbarucha83
Baba bose has promised sona that her room will be the same forever before her marriage .

That is an excellent reminder Timba! 👏. Good catch

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thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: ltelidevara
Sam and DQ
Right now I have a problem only with Sonakshi 's behaviour and that is my way of seeing things.

I did not have a problem with any one at this moment though they all offended Dev ...Elena by exploiting his love for Golu..Vikky by manipulating Soha,Mamaji by being an opportunist,Mami by her partiality towards her son and Iswari by not gauging through Dev's inner conscience to see how offended he is by the revelation of Vikky's crooked plans that separated him with his wife and almost broke down his business .So I don't need to put any of them against Dev.

I feel bad for Dev because he doesn't deserve such treatment atleast from his daughter.

If by speaking for Dev you feel I pitted him and Sonakshi against each other I am sorry for spoiling the decorum of your thread.

Like Shaavi said questions are asked by people like us because Sonakshi is behaving against what she stood for and how she presented herself before.

So I do bother if Soha continues her misbehaviour and hurts Dev...

Lakshmi, that unfortunately is exactly the problem with your post. You find a character is not to your liking... and you start bashing them. Fair enough. However, as we wrote before, the tone of your post is not conducive to what we have been trying to achieve on this thread. This thread was envisioned to allow people who find the rest of the forum abrasive to be able to come and share their thoughts...

We are requesting you to tone down your criticism of the characters... after a point your sarcasm just becomes repetitive and pointless.

Thanks

Sam & DQ

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Lakshmi, that unfortunately is exactly the problem with your post. You find a character is not to your liking... and you start bashing them. Fair enough. However, as we wrote before, the tone of your post is not conducive to what we have been trying to achieve on this thread. This thread was envisioned to allow people who find the rest of the forum abrasive to be able to come and share their thoughts...

We are requesting you to tone down your criticism of the characters... after a point your sarcasm just becomes repetitive and pointless.
Thanks
Sam & DQ

Thanks a lot for clarifying what you feel about my posts. I will take care.