*Season 2, Week 27* Analysis Thread - Page 19

By the time I am able to post this Thursday, 07/20, episode views, analysis for Friday's episode have already begun which I have not watched yet. Please forgive me for the long and late post. I just was not feeling well. I will definitely try to post my "two cents" 😉 on Friday's episode by early Saturday morning here in US.

"Two things can destroy any relationship: Unrealistic expectations and poor communication." ~Unknown

"Great couples get angry with each other but they continue to discuss a problem until there is a solution, even if it takes several days."
~ Bob Grant

Above two quotes, in my opinion, fit perfectly with Devakshi's current situation. Getting angry at each other over disagreements is normal; however communication is the key in resolving any disagreement/issue. This is true with any relationship. In certain relationships, you may take your loved one for granted and act in a certain way. Depending upon seriousness of the action the other partner needs to understand and let go of their expectation which may be unrealistic for that particular situation. Once the dust settles, first thing both partners need to continue communication and discuss it until they reach to a positive agreement. After watching Thursday, 07/20, episode, what I fail to understand is the lesson these two madly in love with each other couple learned in last 7 years? I least expected this behavior from these two people Dev & Sonakshi. They both suffered 7 years of painful separation due to lack of communication even then. You think they learned from their mistakes? I do not see that happening here because they both are bent to prove himself/herself right and abruptly stop communication with each other.

Though, I am leaning towards believing that our 3D (Dear Dev Dixit) really is not an unreasonable over possessive husband; rather he is just a loving and caring overprotective husband, I do believe he should have communicated with Sonakshi regarding uploading tracker in her phone but not doing so also was not that much of a big deal for me. It was not because he did not trust Sonakshi. It was only for her safeguard. Eventually, I think, he would have communicated it with her. However, I am totally surprised with Sonakshi accusing him of stalking her due to his lack of trust in her. I firmly believe he is just worried about her safety and trust her 100%.

Above are strictly my views and certainly not aimed to hurt anyone's feelings. I do take any suggestions/critics very positively so whether you agree or disagree, I would certainly love to hear about it.

Have a wonderful weekend and let's also post weekly likes and dislikes similar to SONY's Weekly Relive within this thread before starting the new week with Monday ,07/24, episode .

Thank you.

Ji 😃😃😃

Originally posted by: GKaPyar

By the time I am able to post this Thursday, 07/20, episode views, analysis for Friday's episode have already begun which I have not watched yet. Please forgive me for the long and late post. I just was not feeling well. I will definitely try to post my "two cents" 😉 on Friday's episode by early Saturday morning here in US.

"Two things can destroy any relationship: Unrealistic expectations and poor communication." ~Unknown

"Great couples get angry with each other but they continue to discuss a problem until there is a solution, even if it takes several days."
~ Bob Grant

Above two quotes, in my opinion, fits perfectly with Devakshi's current situation. Getting angry at each other over disagreements is normal; however communication is the key in resolving any disagreement/issue. This is true with any relationship. In certain relationships, you may take your loved one for granted and act in a certain way. Depending upon seriousness of the action the other partner needs to understand and let go of their expectation which may be unrealistic for that particular situation. Once the dust settles, first thing both partners need to continue communication and discuss it until they reach to a positive agreement. After watching Thursday, 07/20, episode, what I fail to understand is the lesson these two madly in love with each other couple learned in last 7 years? I least accepted this behavior from these two people Dev & Sonakshi. They both suffered 7 years of painful separation due to lack of communication even then. You think they learned from their mistakes? I do not see that happening here because they both are bent to prove himself/herself right and abruptly stop communication with each other.

Sonakshi wants to talk Its Dev who is not communicating and not letting her speak.Either he gives her silent treatment or just shouts/blames her and walks off.He doesn't even listen to what she is saying or what her point of view is.And it is Dev,who is hellbent on proving himself right.Sonakshi did say to Dev that she wants him to tell her what he is thinking so that she can conclude if she is wrong or right.

Though, I am leaning towards believing that our 3D (Dear Dev Dixit) really is not an unreasonable over possessive husband; rather he is just a loving and caring overprotective husband, I do believe he should have communicated with Sonakshi regarding uploading tracker in her phone but not doing so also was not that much of a big deal for me. It was not because he did not trust Sonakshi. It was only for her safeguard. Eventually, I think, he would have communicated it with her. However, I am totally surprised with Sonakshi accusing him of stalking her due to his lack of trust in her. I firmly believe he is just worried about her safety and trust her 100%.

She wasn't accusing him.She just said that so that he stops following her and also so that he lets out the real reason behind his this behavior.(thats what i think)

Above are strictly my views and certainly not aimed to hurt anyone's feelings. I do take any suggestions/critics very positively so whether you agree or disagree, I would certainly love to hear about it.

Have a wonderful weekend and let's also post weekly likes and dislikes similar to SONY's Weekly Relive within this thread before starting the new week with Monday ,07/24, episode .

Thank you.

Ji 😃😃😃

Hi Yetika,

Thanks for your comments.

1. These are the incidents making me blame both for having lack of communication.

I believe the source of lack of communication was Sonakshi when she left to see her client without letting anyone know which landed her in a big trouble with goons. That is also source of Dev being so overprotective now. Also, when she was meeting with her client in the restaurant and Dev was waiting, because she was angry about Dev placing tracker in her phone, she left to go to pick-up Soha without letting Dev know. When she enters their bed room, after discussing with Ishwari on how Dev was following her everywhere, Dev was the one approached her for the discussion/argument and started the conversation, her expression prior to that as she entered the bedroom looked like she was angry at Dev and was trying to avoid talking to Dev. After their Argument in the bedroom, Dev started avoiding conversation with her making it difficult to communicate.

2. While Dev and Sonakshi were discussing/arguing in the bedroom which was initiated by Dev, below were the dialogues which made me believe Sonakshi was accusing Dev not trusting her:

S: Tumne mere phone me tracker dala. Iska kya matlab hai? Tum mujhe trust nahi karate?

D: Kaisi baate kar rahi ho? Of course mein tumhe trust karta hun.

S: Then what is this all about? Kyun kar rahe ho ye sab?

I am certainly not disagreeing with your comments however these were just my observations from the episode and certainly can be proven wrong.

Again thanks for your comments. It made me think more on why I wrote what I wrote.

Ji 😃😃😃

Originally posted by: GKaPyar

Hi Yetika,

Hi 😊

Thanks for your comments.😊

1. These are the incidents making me blame both for having lack of communication.

I believe the source of lack of communication was Sonakshi when she left to see her client without letting anyone know which landed her in a big trouble with goons. That is also source of Dev being so overprotective now. Also, when she was meeting with her client in the restaurant and Dev was waiting, because she was angry about Dev placing tracker in her phone, she left to go to pick-up Soha without letting Dev know. When she enters their bed room, after discussing with Ishwari on how Dev was following her everywhere, Dev was the one approached her for the discussion/argument and started the conversation, her expression prior to that as she entered the bedroom looked like she was angry at Dev and was trying to avoid talking to Dev. After their Argument in the bedroom, Dev started avoiding conversation with her making it difficult to communicate.

Can anyone forsee trouble? But i agree she should have told someone even if it was Jassi.She was lucky Dev reached on time.Over-protectiveness is fine on a certain level but if it starts getting harmful for your own sanity that becomes a problem.I am not even talking about Sonakshi here I am talking about Dev.I really think the intensity of Dev's love is too much. That guy will go crazy.What if something happens to her?Then what will happen to him?What will then happen to Soha or the rest of the family? Sona's concern is also valid.

Yes,she was trying to avoid, but till then their conversation had not even started so that's okay,No? And since then she has tried so much.. to talk to him.

2. While Dev and Sonakshi were discussing/arguing in the bedroom which was initiated by Dev, below were the dialogues which made me believe Sonakshi was accusing Dev not trusting her:

S: Tumne mere phone me tracker dala. Iska kya matlab hai? Tum mujhe trust nahi karate?

D: Kaisi baate kar rahi ho? Of course mein tumhe trust karta hun.

S: Then what is this all about? Kyun kar rahe ho ye sab?

I am certainly not disagreeing with your comments however these were just my observations from the episode and certainly can be proven wrong.

Hey, i know that😊 i too just wrote my point of view.Thats all😊.

Again thanks for your comments. It made me think more on why I wrote what I wrote.

Ji 😃😃😃