*Season 2, Week 27* Analysis Thread

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timbarucha83

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Posted: 8 years ago

#161

Hi everyone. I like the last two episode. From last two episodes I have a feel that finally their actual married life has been started in last 7 years they were married in their mind but not leaving with each other and on s1 they were married but to get acceptance to their relationship from ishu mata and family they fail or I will say forgate to be husband and wife. Now the actual process to become husband and wife were started.

After reading the another post the another thought come in my mind what do you mean by meant for each other. If two persons are different thought process at certain point means they don't love each other or it just opposite attracts. So for this my mind give the answer that dev and sona are the two different persons at certain point their thought process is different but they are meant for each other because they love each other they know that they have a difference of opinions but they love each other most and care for each other most.Thats why in their separation they still choose to be alone and wait for each other . In a way they are different from each other is a good thing as one is emotional and another is practical so if one is going to much emotional then another can stop him. And if another is having a practical approch the another one can show him the need to the emotioanl approch. The same happened yesterday when sona was having an practical approch dev help her to see the other aspect where when your loved once get affected or in pain then the other person will have an impact. Thats why yesterday their fight was not over but still dev want to place the sona's best childhood photo on the wall knowing that he is not good at this work and when she understand dev is hurt you have to see the sona's reaction she was so worried so she loved dev dixit and he knows that also.But he is angry as sona was before she have an open communication with ishu mata. Before she try to communicate with him but when she was not able to do that she goes to ishu mata. Some how sona and ishu mata both are strong as they both were alone and take care of family alone so ishu mata's reaction was different then dev as she was worried for her and thank god as sona was safe but she was not goes in the protective mode and thats why she was able to tell her what kind of effect it will have on dev.So after this she was trying to communicate with dev but he was not in the mood to listen.He was what ever i am doing is correct. I think today when he hear that his this behaviour can harm their relation he may get hurt but it will help him to listen or speck what he want to speack which is deep in his mind and when he will able to communicate his fellings and thoughts and then he will listen what she is trying to say and I am confident that they will come on the common ground.Its my personal opnion that their is no such things that made for each other couple.The couple have to achive this by the help of communication,undertanding,respect and love with the trust and for that you required years where you will make the mistake and learn.

The another point which caught my attention is that the confidence of mamaji on dev they vickki can never harm dev actuly it was the msg from cv's that vickki will not able to harm dev.

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tellyjo

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Posted: 8 years ago

#162

I guess apart from the proposal day, Sona has been having a very cold approach towards the reunion. She is still not sure about her decision to reunite. If she had her way she would have maintained status quo by living at both houses

She has done it in the larger interest of her daughter and both families as well as Dev. Since Ishwari is positive now she doesn't have a problem living with the family

As per me she loves Dev deeply but both her ego as well as her fear of getting too involved is making her display a cold exterior. Also she has not healed from her hurt (Dev has healed much better as he was more open.). She still holds Dev responsible for the eviction and not taking a stand for her. She had experienced him doing such things earlier when she was thrown out of her job, Ritwik's bank loan, kushal alliance and hence is convinced that Dev would do anything to get his way.

In the 7years of Separation she has tried not to get attached to anyone except her work. Else she would have easily fallen for Jatin.with so much proximity and family goodwill. But Dev is and will always be her Prince Charming and she may live with just the thought of her love for him. She has stopped expecting anything from him. So anything he says or does doesn't affect her much(she tries to)

She knows that if she experiences his affection it is so overwhelming that she will drown in it.

Dunno if I made any sense. These were just some thoughts after some pondering on her behaviour

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timbarucha83

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Posted: 8 years ago

#163

Originally posted by: tellyjo
I guess apart from the proposal day, Sona has been having a very cold approach towards the reunion. She is still not sure about her decision to reunite. If she had her way she would have maintained status quo by living at both houses
She has done it in the larger interest of her daughter and both families as well as Dev. Since Ishwari is positive now she doesn't have a problem living with the family
As per me she loves Dev deeply but both her ego as well as her fear of getting too involved is making her display a cold exterior. Also she has not healed from her hurt (Dev has healed much better as he was more open.). She still holds Dev responsible for the eviction and not taking a stand for her. She had experienced him doing such things earlier when she was thrown out of her job, Ritwik's bank loan, kushal alliance and hence is convinced that Dev would do anything to get his way.
In the 7years of Separation she has tried not to get attached to anyone except her work. Else she would have easily fallen for Jatin.with so much proximity and family goodwill. But Dev is and will always be her Prince Charming and she may live with just the thought of her love for him. She has stopped expecting anything from him. So anything he says or does doesn't affect her much(she tries to)
She knows that if she experiences his affection it is so overwhelming that she will drown in it.
Dunno if I made any sense. These were just some thoughts after some pondering on her behaviour

She is sure about their reunion but as you say may be she is afrid of being show her real feeling as she is afrid of being hurt again.or may be her helling is not comlpete. But it will be complete when they both will communicate with each other.

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tellyjo

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Posted: 8 years ago

#164

I don't think only communicating will solve their problem. It will to some extent only. All truths have to come out for Sonakshi to see Dev in a fresh light. It will have to reignite her emotions for Dev. I would think the new entry will play a role in that.. Not as a romantic but something else. After all the whole story premise is about this only. So it will all come to play in some time. Till then we have to bear with a stoic Sonakshi

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Sunshinebhumii

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Posted: 8 years ago

#165

I was thinking along the same lines. I really thought/hope Sona has some reason behind her cold exterior, she has deep rooted fear. But when Sona sought answers from Ish, I felt its quite clear that she failed to understand, emphatise with her husband. She failed to reflect on his actions and missed chance to adress his fears and show compassion. Instead, she prioritized her ego and her identity as 'Sonakshi Bose'.
Sona disappointed many fans big time I felt.

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cscs

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Posted: 8 years ago

#166

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Nope she would have never agreed. But they would have atleast discussed the matter with this app thing. That is the need of the hour. N Dev do not have trust issues with Sona, he just want her to be safe. I guess ATM she didn't understood why was he behaving like that.

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sjain

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Posted: 8 years ago

#167

Finally I am here to put up something

Yesterday's episode was quite a amusing one..Right from the beginning till the last scene of yesterday's episode..The only thing which was roaming in my head was Sonakshi's responses in various conversations..Whether it was Ishwari or Dev..

Ishwari - "Arey woh aise hi pyaar karta hai tu toh janti hai,woh bohot alag hai..Tujhe toh khush hona chahiye ki Dev tera itna khayal rakhta hai.."

Ishwari - "Kya tu nahi chahiti ki dev tere liye itna sab kuch hone ke baad bhi teri chinta karey..Aur ab toh uske mann mein ye darr baith gaya hai..Ab toh woh kuch nahi sunega..ab dekhna uska sara dhyaan tujh par hi rahega.."

Sonakshi - "Lekin Itna sara dhyaan..Main koi Soha thodi hoon"

Ishwari - "Par Soha se kam pyaari toh nahi ho na..Sonakshi samjh na Dev tujmhe kho nahi sakta..woh darta hai ki kisi bhi wajah se tu us se alag na ho jaye"

Sonakshi - "Thank you mujhe samjhne ke liye"

I was so surprised with this conversation of Sonakshi with Ishwari..She couldn't understand at all to what Dev said to her..She was so clueless..She was the one who witnessed his following trait long back she should have immediately connected the dots and realized why he is doing all this..She was looking so lost and messed up I almost felt she has come to this house 2 days back for the first time ever..and is not aware of Dev as a person..mostly which happenes in arrange marriages..when you dont know your partner and discover him gradually..She had this big question mark on her face all the time..A little example..few days back when their was blank call and Nikki was calling to hear Ishwari's voice she so quickly made all the connections how Nikki was calling she must have tasted food and all..and today her husband she knows from past 7 years the one who she has seen how emotional and extra sensitive he is regarding his family and super concerned when it comes to her..how he has seen his mothr suffer in past is not able to connect with him at all is worries at all..strange

Coming to tracker..See tracker might not be the most comfortable thing for everyone and may not be common with couples..I wont say its normal..and its not..It can be a precautionary measure specially after the kind of incident that happened with Sonakshi..so It can be one thing which can be done to keep you safe..so that if you are not able to make call then atleast your family can track you through it..yes dev is using it ATM coz the accident that took place and the mishap that could have happened 2-3 days back is still fresh in his head and it is giving him sleepless nights literally..He said "kya kuch imagine kar raha hoon" I can see what he is going through..What shocked me was Soankshi so casually said I will tell you if I will be in some problem..The day accident happened she luckily was able to make call to him and tell him where she is but she couldnt even complete the call before her phone got switched off ...Some one should ask Sonakshi what if her phone had switched off before that call and she hadnt been able to inform him or if their had been some network issue then what..Like I was so surprised by her words..You merely escaped a tragic incident and this is how you are reacting..I know she has been living her life independently from last 7 years..But if you will refer your husband as stalker and his concern as stalking..Then thats bound to hurt him..Its okay if you feel he is entering you personal space and you are not too comfortable about it ..but atleast consider his concern and care ..dont demean it Please acknowledge it

Also I am glad she talked to Ishwari and told her everything coz in my opinion She should have been aware about the incident..so its good Sonakshi told her all and discussed it with her

Also coming to the most controversial point of Dev being possessive or protective..I would like to use Bijoy as example here..What if Bijoy had done this post that night incident..if he had installed tracker or had been outside her office constantly keeping an eye on her..so we would have addressed him as stalker ?? No it would have been called as fathr's concern his love his protectiveness..but since Dev is doing it it looks wrong

No offense My POV

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thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

#168

There once lived a guy in the Capital City of Delhi. In his anger he asked his wife, his lover, his soulmate to "get out". She left. All those years he regreted it. I regreted it.

His wife is now saying the wrong things. Will he see through the facade?

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sjain

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Posted: 8 years ago

#169

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen
There once lived a guy in the Capital City of Delhi. In his anger he asked his wife, his lover, his soulmate to "get out". She left. All those years he regreted it. I regreted it.
His wife is now saying the wrong things. Will he see through the facade?

She took his words by face value and left ..Now he is taking her words in same way..Ist it ??

Or you mean kuch aur ??..Explain

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LiveLife321

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Posted: 8 years ago

#170

Originally posted by: astrix90

You actually managed to give a positive spin to that exasperating and confusing promo 😆 Can you or someone here please decode the promo/ the conversation they had? Cos of it went right over my head. Like integrity, test, running to him etc. 😕😆

Finally, i am able to login. First of all, Its good to see many members joining the discussions and sharing their perspectives on this thread. Its always a pleasure to read different povs when its presented in a respectful way.

Coming to your question, I am not that good with words or with analysis so lets wait for the take from the fabulous writers on this thread. Even i am eager to read. From my side, all i can say is lets wait for the episode. All i felt after watching that clip was thank god finally they are addressing their core issues. This may be since they are almost done with cleaning the family mess.