*Season 2, Week 27* Analysis Thread - Page 12

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

@ Latha

You are right in every way. Even I felt wierd when Dev tried to correct Vicky. But then I thought Dev and Sobakshi's case is abnormal where they got separated due to many reasons . Dev might not have seen Vicky behave so with Elena in all these years. So he must have taken it on himself to set him right as a big brother. Also I can still spare Dev giving gyan to Vicky because I know he never hesitate to admit " you know I went wrong and spoilt my family life. You don't do this atleast." He has that honesty which Sona lacks. I hope you understood what I mean to say. Those who acknowledge their lapses are any day better than those who roam around as if they are right every time.

Sonakshi's behaviour towards the Bus incident I can not connect. Latha,even if she hardened herself in these seven years the danger she faced should be treated as something too scary and fatal that any lady can face. The situation itself is dangerous because you never know how lucky you are to escape unscathed.Still if she is uneffected,OK. Let her be. But she could not cold shoulder Dev and ignore his feelings. She should spend time and discuss the matter that would have given solace to him.

Like you said Sonakshi has time for everyone else but for her husband. She just runs away as if to catch a train Even when fire incident happened she behaved so normal while he is so worried about her safety. Lack of communication and not able to share his feelings with her is making Dev over protective and hyper. He is doings things that he is not supposed to do again.

The hair style is so bad Latha,he never looked like that,never ever I saw Shaheer like that. Vicky's styling is better than him. While Sonakshi is looking gorgeous Dev is looking so...I don't even want to say more.

Lakshmi

Originally posted by: y.c.yetikaroxx

I think you should watch the episode again.Sonakshi was trying to talk to Dev..It was Dev who was deliberately ignoring her.He was not letting her speak She tried to talk to him in their bedroom too but Dev stopped her and then i think she forgot about it after seeing the mangalsutra and sindoor.

@ Well. I don't think I need to watch the episode again. I very well know she said she wants to talk. Dev may be not interested that moment. Like Sonakshi did not feel the need to talk immediately after the incident I mean the next morning when she left before he got up properly. If she feels the necessity to discuss the incident easily she could have communicated with him the morning after the mangalsutra night. Or before the fire accident. If she really wished she would have done.

Plus i really think there was no need for Dev to call the investor.She did pick up the phone right?!Told him she'll call back which means she was absolutely fine so there was no need to call the investor He could have waited for her if he was so worried.That was an unecesssory thing to do.Even i found his behavior odd so i can understand Sonakshi's reaction.

@ well. Dev Dixit hai hi aisa. Sonakshi knows him. When she found him right there she should have met him even if for a brief while. Dev would have understood.

[Bold] She was getting late for a meeting(I think its normal ).

@ But it is a common practice nowadays. She in hurry he in desperation.

About the fire incident, Well she was not in the cabin, why should she worry.

@ Just because she was not in she should not bother? Isn't it a disaster though smaller on scale?

Sonakshi knows Dev is sacred for her due to the bus incident but she doesn't know the extent of it.

@ There is nothing wrong if she does not know. But she needs to know the extent to address the problem.

Though on the surface it looks like he is effected due to the bus incident but there is something else which is bothering him.And this incident was like a trigger I guess his serious abandonment issues.So even if Sonakshi talks to him about the incident I don't think anything will happen The real issue needs to be addressed.

@ I don't think so. I relate Dev's over protective attitude only with the bus incident nothing else. Before that incident he never bothered about Sona's work related movements.

Lakshmi

Possessive:

1. Demanding someone's total attention and love

2. Showing a desire to own things and an unwillingness to share what onealready owns

Protective:

1. Having or showing a strong wish to keep someone or something safe from harm

Above are dictionary definitions for words "Possessive" and "Protective". Watching 07/19 episode I am a bit confused about whether to call Dev Dixit a Possessive Husband or a Protective Husband? He does demand Sonakshi's total attention and love but he is also willing to share her love and attention with his other loved ones like his Maa, Soha, Golu, Elena, her parents and siblings and all other relatives. However he at no cost wants to lose her again and have strong desire to keep her safe from any harm at any cost and will go to any extent to achieve that. I am keeping faith in makers that they will clear my confusion in next few episodes - fingers crossed.

As some of you mentioned in few of the posts I was able to read:

-Dev's hairs during the fire scene were🤢🤢🤢

Sorry, I did not get chance to read all the wonderful posts from yesterday's episode but hope to catch up with them today.

Have a Terrific Thursday and I will catch up with you all soon!!!!!

Thank you.

Ji😃😃😃

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

@ y.c.yeti karoxx

I would agree to disagree as our thought process is different . I respect your views but I disagree.

Lakshmi

Great posts everyone.. Sona's reaction or lack of one has sparked quite a debate.

Everyone's response to trauma is different. Do we recall how Dev, her and Nikki reacted when the near-assault on Nikki happened in S1? Dev was the most affected of all and Sona was least. It does not matter if Sona was related to Nikki back then or not. She was herself in that situation where she could have been attacked (and Nikki and Elena spared).

Sona has in fact (like Yetika, Sam and Timba pointed in their posts) tried talking/responding to Dev. However, his own state is such that he has no mental space to allow for Sona's counterarguments and he keeps interrupting her when she wants to say something.

The fact that Soha was studying alone and Dev-Sona have no idea she has a test next day makes me think this is indeed Sona's reaction to the incident. She has gone into an auto-pilot mode.. get Soha ready, packed to school, off to work..

Like some of you said, the tracker is what has jolted her. What I want to see is batein... will they talk about it.. please do..

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

@ mahua

Shaavi explained so well to your question. Nothing more to say. Still I would like to remind you the difference between both of them in reacting to people,incidents and the demands of life. Dev is emotional while Sonakshi is way too practical.

The expression of their love also is different which I elaborated in my previous post.

Did you remember how Dev rejected a deal that may mint crores to be with Suhana? That is Dev. To him his loved ones will come first and foremost in his priority list. When you just faced a moment that might have spelled doom and danger and separation but fortunately came back safe,an emotional person like Dev would react only the way he is doing now.

For Dev it is like a new birth new life of Sonakshi and him also because without her there is no life for him. All through the night he must have shivered with the thought" what if I did not reach there in time? What if they kidnapped her and took her far away from me? "

So that morning is special for him for having his wife safe and sound in his room,waking him up as usual. He could not move away from her and return back to his normal routine. He wanted to shower her with his love ,please her and see the smile on her face. But Sonakshi just took the incident as a mishap averted in time. She is practical. She doesn't want to expose her fear or scare before any one least of all before Dev. She likes to be the confident undeterred Miss Bose in his eyes.

Dev just want to make sure that the previous night's happening would not make him cheerless . He wants to be her lover,husband and Protector who would let only good things happen to her . So now Dev Dixit is on a mission... Love Sonakshi,please Sonakshi,Save Sonakshi...

And ultimately we know how great a lover he is...let us enjoy Dev Dikshit,the knight in shining armour..

The care taker and protector of Sonakshi Bose... Dixit?

Lakshmi

Just a glimpse of their worst fears have them backtracking and retreating into a shell. For Dev a life without Sona is unimaginable. She is his life line, his anchor. But just when he had started believing in miracles and accept that Sona is back in his life and now they are bound forever because of Suhana, he got the shock of his life. Though he was worried for her safety he never expected the scene waiting for him. It took him back to his traumatic past where he was a helpless child who was supposed to be the man of the family unable to protect his mother from the vultures of the society. Then he wanted to grow up fast so that he would be able to be the man of the house and protect his family. The child in him hid himself unable to face the feeling of failure. But the trauma of seeing Sona with those drunkards has awaken that child in him and this time he is determined to not be a failure. He is determined to keep Sona with him and be that shield so as to protect her. Nothing will touch her when he is on the watch. Mangalsutr and Sindoor are just symbols for the society who forced his mother to carry a knife to protect her. He is trying to provide all the tools available to empower his woman against that society. Though he is trying to protect Sona the lines are blurred for him since this is pay back for all the times where he was just a helpless child and it is a statement that he is not that child anymore.

For Sona she is scared of her feelings, especially her need for Dev. She was devastated when she lost him and had to use everything in her to overcome that hurt. Suhana and her family gave her the strength for that. She doesn't trust herself to find that kind of strength in her to overcome such a situation again. After what happened she was shook by how much she needed him. When she asked him if they can have coffee it was obvious the she needed some space to come to terms with her feelings. But the way Dev touched and held her as if she was something fragile and will break if not handled with utmost care unnerved her even further. She wanted to feel that she was in control of herself and he was making it next to impossible. Next day she tried to throw herself into work so as to feel herself in control and Dev again took care of her. He fell in love with her independence but now he doesn't want her to be because it is proving too costly. She fell in love with his caring nature and now she is running away from his care to feel herself in control. What more to say about these two