*Season 2, Week 23* Analysis Thread - Page 26

Originally posted by: aarcha

Grace , i'm answering hre ..

Dev for once at least would have indulged

So, revelation of Dev's this past & Vicky's cheatings may happen simultaneously and that's when Sona is going to realise & break down on how her one act of distrust had destroyed Dev & his family

Grace, y v r nt thinking bout wat caused this distrust ? V can't put the blame solely on sona. IMO, if v compare both the families, then dev's family caused more damage to their marriage than bose family . Sona had to face the wrath of ishwari, mamiji, vicky n neha in IN. Dev cudn support her always .( But dev only had to face bijoy , sometimes sona too ...in bose house.. season 2 ) 5 crores deal blew out of proportion & ended up in slapping baba. Dev tried to apologise but in vain. Had Dev stopped mamiji or wudn't hav affected by his maataji's emotional state, nothing wud've hapnd, everything wud b under control. Dev Dixit was capable of doing that but he cudn make that possible. Wen sona came to return the chq, ishwari told her to get separated from Dev. Without knowing wat really hapnd, dev had some arguments with sona & pushed her who accidentally made ishwari fall to the ground , eventually made dev shouting 'get out 'to sona. Sona went out ..wat else sona can do esp , in front of a group of hostile people. Then eviction , prenup emergence finally separation. Only the viewers knew prenup n eviction r manipulated by someone else , nt dev. But for the boses, all done by Dev. So i cudn buy this fact that sona's one act of distrust destroyed dev n his family. Actually it's Dev who himself destroyed everything by nt acting wisely wen needed. Had dev took a stand then , they wud've been living happily with an addition of one or more tiny Mr. Aubhodro or tiny Ms sonakshi . Life is all bout taking decisions @ the right time. Time n tide wait for none ...

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I request all the fellow members here to go through my post " Please Sonakshi" in the main forum. If time permits let me know your views on it. Thank you.

Lakshmi

Originally posted by: Drcs

The entire forum is shocked over the "divorce issue. CVs have never said that they are divorced in fact there are many instances where it's been indicated they are estranged rather than legally divorced. This is the issue of the fandom, we presume certain things if they don't show as per our assumptions we create a havoc. Dev and Sona were calling each other as Exes, I would like to consider it as when 2 kids fight they consider the other person no more his friend but when they become "batti they are friends...In the same manner, when someone writes in favour of Sona they are Team Sona or against sona is Team Dev. In my last posts I have been looking at the story from sona's perspectives, so many labelled me as Team Sona...infact I received msgs from some who said you were a bigtime supporter of Dev what happened now? Comon' guys can't someone have soft corner for both characters, can't we love both of them equally, should we lose our objectivity to display our love for one character at the expense of other? Mmm very long rant... my response after reading from page 26...you know how quirky Iam, so read at your own risk😆

Originally posted by: timbarucha83

Honestly I Disagree with the part that is sona is responsible for the current state of the dixit house and the state of the curret relation state. For on time may be we can hold her responsible for the dev who has become who was just acting as a provider and not want to have any kind of connect with his family who was broken.<font color="#333333" face="Roboto, sans-serif">And the absence of the sisters in not only the outcome of the dev being lost but at the same time it is the out come of the way dixit family wasstructured. Three sisters where more connected to each other for riya and nikki neha was their mother. Neha by his own wish distroyed her marriage because of her zidd to leave a rich life and Ishu was more and more concern with dev and she fail to generate the bond between her and her Daugherty and her fear also never allowed dev to be the brother to her sisters in the real sence where they have a noraml relation Neha was always jelous and riya and nikki see dev as the man of the house and the provider who give them what they want .Dev had found himself when he meet soan so when soan goes from his life the lost himself and just want to be alone and stick to the role of being simply provider to the family.So in this Dev had a less fault then Ishu and mamji . That's why I feel.He donot want to get connected with any one as he feels he is afailure and he was not able to protect sona and his love. His mother has cheat him for the property and taken the signature of the document which was the final nail for the failour of the dev and sona' s relation. Honestly I don't hold sona responsible for the current state of the dixit family. In the same way I don't put dev responsible for the matter related to Bose House it was the complete Responsiblity of Bijoy . why Because he has given the power sona to make the dscision which can lead them to this. He was the on e who first trusted Vickki when he was angrey and blinded with his pride and ego.Theydon'ttrusted dev it was their fault. So I want sona shouldintrospecther self but first but not for the current state of the dixit family but for loosing 7preciousyears of life by not trusting dev and his love, for not having an open communication with dev, for trying tosolveevery problem by their own(Which I think she had understood). What Dixit family had faced or facing is the wheel of Krama. They get cheated by mami and vickki. Because Ishu mata hadbetrayed malati and she hide this fact from dev to secure her god image.Dev was no longer the same but if Ishu had able to generate theconnectwith her owndaughtersthen they still have acontactwith their mother.But at that point she fail because she was more concern with dev. So from my point of view it the Wheel Of karma. First Dev and Sonashouldfocuson their relation and avoid thepreviousmistakes which I am sure they will do.For above statement</font>"Kya Maine Dev ko aisi zindagi jeene ko majboor kiya? Kya meri Wajah se is parivaar ke saare sadasya bikhar gaye?" For bold part I agree she should have a focus but for second part I disagree. This is completely my view.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Was about to post on this thread to say I really liked it! 👏

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Just to interject on Nikki's age... Dev was 8 when his father died. They did not show Ishwari was pregnant at the time so Nikki had to be atleast a few months old? Which means she was 8 years younger than Dev.. Dev was 29 at the break up so she was 21...

Unless the makers change the dates yet again!

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

@Shaavi: I hope you don't mind my interjecting here. As someone who reads this thread both as a participant and as a moderator, I think your accusations are unfair. You have just quoted one of my posts in which I explicitly call out Sona's decision not to communicate Soha's existence as wrong. How then can you make the claim that nobody on this thread points out Sona's mistakes and flaws? In fact, more often than not, this thread is skewed towards supporting Dev because of the reason for its inception and the number of Dev fans who came here for refuge from a then hostile forum. As long as nobody is breaking the rules, that is fine, but the moment the thread becomes intolerant or hostile to pro-Sona/Boses material, or persists in descending into the bald numerical tabulation of Sona and Dev's errors, we have to take a good look at where we might be going wrong.

As a friend who really appreciates your writing and your insights, I ask you take a moment to question what you are responding to. Is it really a problem with this thread?