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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Drcs


@Lakshmi there is no doubt about Dev's magnanimity and generosity...he was epitome of magnanimity pre and post marriage also... he doesn't have to validate it even in the post breakup because sonakshi is well aware of his love and understanding...what went wrong in their relationship was during a critical situation he couldn't reach upto her expectations or in other words she was left alone to fight against all demons...if a similar situation comes again whether Dev would be the pillar of support for sonakshi is highly uncertain...in finance theory we classify people into those who love risk, averse risk and hedge risk. When she married Dev, she was aware that she is marrying someone's CHAND how can he be her SUN...so Sonakshi couldn't averse risk as she let her decisions controlled by her emotions rather than intellect...now she is hedging the risk because she knows entering into Dev's life again means lots of risky propositions...it's not Dev but the inmates of IN have to change...but her short stay has proved that they are in the same spot as she left them 7 years back only change is they have become stronger and powerful...more over now whatever decisions she takes the repercussions will be on many innocent lives like Soha, Golu and her sister Elena. Sonakshi knows her future with Dev will be BLEAK unless some of the residents of IN leave or the permanent residents change their attitude...she is ready to wait...here a feasible outcome for everyone would be what you suggested in your short story...Vicky and his parents leave to Mumbai forever...

Chitra , it is highly impossible to see change in every person around you so that you can lead a peaceful life. Some people won't change their basic nature come what may. RR and Vicky belong to that type. Iswari also would have remained the same had Sonakshi's heartfelt attempt to remove the Khatri issue from her life not happened. It shook her from the base and wiped off her animosity towards Sonakshi. Destiny favoured and Iswari could see Sonakshi's reality.
Yes in my story I conveniently shifted Vicky and RR to Mumbai because with them in the scene Dev and Sonakshi could not have a peaceful and harmonious life atleast as friends. But chances are bleak that our CVs show it that way.

I feel Dev also is not expecting Sona to say yes to remarriage. He is happy with the present equation with her. He is relieved that his mother finally realised Sonakshi's goodness. For Dev that is enough to lead his life with the light of his life Soha and his good friend Golu

Dev's part is over. More than this he can not prove anything to Sonakshi.Remaining depends on fate.

Like Krishna says in Gita " Karmanyevadhikaraste Ma phaleshu kadachana...

A person can do his duty but result he can not dictate.He has no right on his karma.So Dev's fate will dictate his life.
As for Sonakshi she is free to wait till she gets confidence in Dev or she can move over as per her father's wish.

Lakshmi



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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: mehraan

Can anyone tell me..."U hve changed a lot "is direction to what?..is it Devs post leap change where he was complete opoosite to S1 Devs ... or to his composed calm change in behaviour after Khatris track...Asha voiced it n so did Sona...I wnt to know exactly in which context was it referred to...Sometimes im so confused even simple dialogues n gestures are difficult to interpret...im always having a hardtime in this show🤣...



I was also a little confused at first but then I assumed that it was the way he admitted that jhula was still there because she got it or else he would have thrown it... so he admitted he never liked it but liked the fact that it was her choice. In s1 Dev never admitted it... he just kept saying he likes it or doesn't mind it to please her. In short, Dev is more expressive about how he feels and that's a change in him. With asha too it was such a big deal that he discussed how his mother felt about sonakshi.

I too would like to have the interpretations from the experts here about 'you have changed ' ... its such a pleasure reading everyone's interpretation on this thread... they are brilliant!
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: melliflous


I was also a little confused at first but then I assumed that it was the way he admitted that jhula was still there because she got it or else he would have thrown it... so he admitted he never liked it but liked the fact that it was her choice. In s1 Dev never admitted it... he just kept saying he likes it or doesn't mind it to please her. In short, Dev is more expressive about how he feels and that's a change in him. With asha too it was such a big deal that he discussed how his mother felt about sonakshi.

I too would like to have the interpretations from the experts here about 'you have changed ' ... its such a pleasure reading everyone's interpretation on this thread... they are brilliant!


Thanx dear...for putting ur thoughts forth...!Can get it as to what u hve said...But was this change not evident when Dev had gone to stay in Bose house??.He was pretty xpressive n blunt with Asha n Sona too...the one who is complete opposite of S1...so ab kya different hai?.Tats y i was confused as to what Sona n Asha saw now ...i hope im talking sense here😆

I would also wnt others to delve on this" Changed behaviour"😃
Edited by mehraan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Nice post shavi, Lakshmi, Charu !!
What more can Dev do now ?
Really ball is in Sona's court now.
But I am very sad - most of it was not dev's fault.
Yet he is paying the price.
When will Vicky & Mami get their punishment??
I am waiting for that.
Nobody gets away by doing so many wrong things.
It will definitely hit back,
In their case , I feel it is overdue.
Why Dev always underestimate the power of Vicky & Mami ?
I know he considers them as good for nothing.
But for the first time in the hospital- he understands the evilness of Mami.
But Vicky?? How can be Dev so naive when it comes to Vicky?
My blood boils when I see ' happy marital life ' of Vicky & Elena.
7 years is a long period- this separation was initiated by this trio.
But can't fully attribute it to them because Dev could have searched for them .
If iswari had not sent sona back ...
I think there was some problem with the writing/ script.
Now it looks like things have started falling back correctly.

I don't know I really feel bad for Dev.
Why he has to prove himself again & again?
Why can't he get a girl who really understands his weakness & be his Sahara?
Is it too much to ask?

I have a question- don't bash me for this - what is sona worried about most?
Another heartbreak??
But for Suhana' happiness can't she compromise??
Isn't that what all parents do ?
It is easy in arranged marriage because expectations from each other is not very high.
In love marriage this can be a problem.
I don't know anything about love- but what I thought was ego should never come between 2 people madly in love.
To forgive each other also becomes easy.
Why is sona hesitant?
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Posted: 8 years ago
@ Sneha

I can understand your anguish. Why would any one bash you if you ask a question? You are free to do so. But frankly speaking I have no answer for your question. I am so confused and drained guessing Sonakshi's mindset and her reasons to say no to remarriage. I am done with that. I hope Shaavi,Mallika Sam Suyash ... any one can have an answer.

Lakshmi


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Posted: 8 years ago
Brilliant analysis going on Guys. 👏

So, while watching the repeat, i observed that when Dev asked Sona's hand to get up from Jhoola and she happily gave in, ATM, Sona was the first one to hold his hand and then he tighten his grip against her hand. I hope I am able to convey what i want to. o.O

Sona tighten her grip on his hand first and then he followed.

So was it a kind of symbolism that Dev will let her hold on him first and then he will held her. Like Sona has to take the first step, as it is also discussed in many posts here.

Or it was just a random scene and I am making my own theories. 😆
Edited by cscs - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: cscs

Brilliant analysis going on Guys. 👏


So, while watching the repeat, i observed that when Dev asked Sona's hand to get up from Jhoola and she happily gave in, ATM, Sona was the first one to hold his hand and then he tighten his grip against her hand. I hope I am able to convey what i want to. o.O

Sona tighten her grip on his hand first and then he followed.

So was it a kind of symbolism that Dev will let her hold on him first and then he will held her. Like Sona has to take the first step, as it is also discussed in many posts here.

Or it was just a random scene and I am making my own theories. 😆


This is what over analysis does to you. 🤣
Edited by _Diksha_ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Snehavinaya




I have a question- don't bash me for this - what is sona worried about most?
Another heartbreak??
But for Suhana' happiness can't she compromise??
Isn't that what all parents do ?
It is easy in arranged marriage because expectations from each other is not very high.
In love marriage this can be a problem.
I don't know anything about love- but what I thought was ego should never come between 2 people madly in love.
To forgive each other also becomes easy.
Why is sona hesitant?


Hi Sneha, i will try to answer your question, firstly I don't think Vicky- Elena had a very good married life in last 7 years. They might be shown doing cochi coo romance, but still they had their share of problems. As Elena has already said that she would have left Vicky, but stayed for Golu's sake. Now Elena here compromised for Golu and stayed in marriage, but thoughts of leaving and her issues didn't get resolved. May be later she will repent her decision of staying in marriage.

Now coming to Devakshi (Even in my horrified dreams i will never compare vikilena n devakshi, but i just used elena's case as an example). So Devakshi separated due to MU and interfernce of their families. They didn't gave their relationship utmost importance, so they fell apart. Now after 7 years, they are understanding their mistakes and its a wonderful thing. Will it not be great if they realise their mistakes and decide to start afresh because they want to be with each other. Their wish, their want, their desire will be top most priority for their reunion.

I am not saying that parents don't patch up for their child. But in Devakshi's case they themselves have so much potential of reunion that they should not need any push. They just need a leap of faith and assurance. I am one of minority, who feels that Devakshi should not re marry only because of Soha, or Ishwari or Bijoy has given acceptance. Yes parents are important and their acceptance also and Soha's happiness is top most priority. But its their relationship and they should be the one to realise their love and each other importance in their life. Acceptance, love for their family, child can be seen along as whole for reunion.

Just like i don't want 3 or 4th angle interference in the same way Soha or their families should not be deciding factor of their re union.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: _Diksha_


This is what over analysis does to you. 🤣

Oh yes 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
@ charu
Thank you for your thought process.
What I meant was in our setup - the way we have been brought up-
Marriage is a lot meant to be compromise from both partners.
Once our children come into picture- our life starts revolving around them-
That itself is a good bond between the couple & children.
Maybe my thought is old school-
I am thinking like old generation- for me nothing can be more than my child's happiness.
Anyway maybe new gen may think differently.

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