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Posted: 8 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: JShukla

As per SBS segment, patch up is done.

Sona will be all goody goody now until kicked again



You mean they are back to being husband and wife?? If that is the case , I cant understand the logic...yesterday her body language was very rigid, she was there just to solve an issue since she was connected to him because of their daughter...even when she told Kathri abt their relationship...there was never a word called love or husband from her side...her ref to his mom and his family as hers is because she is not out of his love...its just that she is cautious ...

So now if they show them as husband and wife again...then the only reason is to glorify Ishwari...and nothing else...

And I will be forced to tell the CVs that you destroyed a beautiful love story trying to glorify a side character!! 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mily_mathew



I am not asking Dev to detach himselves from Ishwari,but shouldnt some things be between a husband and wife???



When it comes to marriage...both have to keep their side of the family away...doesn't mean you need to stop respecting or helping them etc...but should NOT allow them to interfere in ur relationship with your spouse ...learn to keep it different..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Do you still think so after SBS segment?🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..natasha..

Do you still think so after SBS segment?🤣


Natasha I guess well wait for the episode.Segments are misleading.

Looks like patch up is still not done.They are behaving as friends now,
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Posted: 8 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

ur bang on there. This is what even I wrote in other post. Sona did not participate in the hug wholeheartedly. She had her apprehensions. But one thing I din like is she calling their issues as choti si problem. Getting ur father humiliated is not a choti si problem

7 years back things had gone so ugly between them that they needed a separation maybe not for 7 years. But still. Her over concern for ish still annoys me


mily the one in bold was not the reason. the problem was his family thought her father to be a gold digger. her trying to arrange the finances was not wrong, she could have very well done that even while staying at ishwari nivas. there was no necessity that she had to cut off dev while she arranged the finances. i am not justifying dev here, she leaving along with her baba to console him was right, on the flip side, she could have come back to her own house at the end of the day or may be next day to see how dev was. there is no way dev would have been happy with the whole incident. separation was something that was not inevitable had they handled the situation with maturity . both of them let their egos and emotions rule, it was situation where mind had to take control, but unfortunately they let the heart dictate the terms.

this is were she had done the biggest blunder of not trusting her relationship with him, unka relationship iski aur ke manjoori ki mohtaj nahi hain.no matter what GKB, vicky or Ishwari call her at the end of the day NO ONE can deny the fact that she is "SONAKSHI DEV DIXIT"
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Posted: 8 years ago
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yaar, i have seen the sbs segment. dev had been neglecting his mother or rather based on what they had shown, he distanced himself from her. now he is feeling guilty about it.
jab sona uske zindagi mein nahi thi, toh woh zinda kaha tha ? koi bhi rishta ko mehsuus karne ke liye aap mein "jaan" hone ki jaroorath hoti hain.

aaj sona uske paas hain,aur dona phele ki tarah "baath" kar rahe hain. he is back to "expressing" himself again. so gradually he is coming to life once again. he is able to "FEEL" all over again.

sona always knew the importance of ishwari in his life. the only mistake from her side is she was under the delusion that ishwari could dictate her relation with dev. what she failed to realize was that their relationship was solely owned by them and as long as they have trust in their relationship no one can cause any cracks in it. today she know this truth. she will become more strong the insecurity she had with regard to their relationship will no longer exist.

Dev had a fear of losing her, yesterday he got to know that no matter what " his sona" is forever "his" . she will not allow anyone to take his place. even he is out of his insecurity now.

all that remains is the insecurity of ishwari that sona being in dev's life will distance him from her. once dev and sona start building up their relationship, get back the element of trust in their relationship, then together they will fight with this insecurity of ishwari. they will make her realize that each relationship in our life has its own place and pace and none can compete or replace each other. they can only " compliment"


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Posted: 8 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: ..natasha..

Do you still think so after SBS segment?🤣



When it comes to matter of heart and love...every logic fails . I know you dislike Dev and you hate Sonakshi even more because you feel she will do anything to be back with him...to an extant it is true...because she loves ...she doesn't see him as a criminal to deny her love...she sees him as man ..a normal man with his flaws, emotions , weakness, a man with difficult childhood that has scared his confidence...and when you love some one so deeply you will find it difficult to let go...you might be able to stay away but to let go for good ...is not that easy as we think...especially when they have shared beautiful moments together..

I doubt if she will get back to him as his wife...but as a friend, mother of his child ...yess !! That can happen...which I think should happen or else that poor lil girl wont have a happy childhood.

Regarding the segment...I only see her as consoling him as a friend...probably she would have done the same to Jatin as well...and its more on to a friendly nature ...which is ok...

Even if she gets back in that house as his wife , then I would think she is well equipped to handle the challenges that is going to come across her..she is well aware that his relatives hate her and doesn't want her to stay there...so what ever she is getting into is not blindly..

When ppl take decisions in life then they should be prepared to face challenges that will come across because of their decisions...

So as a viewer I want to see them back together...because for me both Sonakshi and Dev are incomplete with out each other...I don't feel bad when they make mistakes as long as they can learn and correct them ...for me they are not perfect and there is no concept of perfect husband /wife or marriage...marriage is a journey...will have ups and downs...and we just cruise thru them together!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I watched the segment... I don't think they have accepted each other as husband and wife. They have accepted that they are a team as soha's parents.. and they are friends and confidantes... but that's not a complete patch up.. it's the beginning of the patch up. As much as I liked to see happy faces of Dev -sona - soha as a family in one frame , I was disappointed with Dev crying session glorifying ishwari... cvs are hell bent on showing ishwari was never wrong in the pretext of being a mother who had too many hardships to raise her kids... can't believe it
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: randomramblings



mily the one in bold was not the reason. the problem was his family thought her father to be a gold digger. her trying to arrange the finances was not wrong, she could have very well done that even while staying at ishwari nivas. there was no necessity that she had to cut off dev while she arranged the finances. i am not justifying dev here, she leaving along with her baba to console him was right, on the flip side, she could have come back to her own house at the end of the day or may be next day to see how dev was. there is no way dev would have been happy with the whole incident. separation was something that was not inevitable had they handled the situation with maturity . both of them let their egos and emotions rule, it was situation where mind had to take control, but unfortunately they let the heart dictate the terms.

this is were she had done the biggest blunder of not trusting her relationship with him, unka relationship iski aur ke manjoori ki mohtaj nahi hain.no matter what GKB, vicky or Ishwari call her at the end of the day NO ONE can deny the fact that she is "SONAKSHI DEV DIXIT"



You are right Sonakshi was in a tough situation on ...one side is her husband and the other her dad...both are equally important...so yes what Dev did cant be justified , it happened now what ...?? So she could have pacified her father and got back to Dev to understand what went wrong for him to do such an act...and both should have together gotten back to her house for apology...

When ever your spouse makes a mistake you are equally a part of it...it is your responsibility to be with your spouse to take the ownership of the mistake that happened and then correct it ...here they acted differently...

And above all their problem was they wanted their families to accept each other like the way they accepted each other...it was like their respective families acceptance means their spouse is a good person...lol...a logic that I failed to understand...

Let us see what CVs give us today...am very excited as long as there is less negativity in the episode..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: randomramblings


mily the one in bold was not the reason. the problem was his family thought her father to be a gold digger. her trying to arrange the finances was not wrong, she could have very well done that even while staying at ishwari nivas. there was no necessity that she had to cut off dev while she arranged the finances. i am not justifying dev here, she leaving along with her baba to console him was right, on the flip side, she could have come back to her own house at the end of the day or may be next day to see how dev was. there is no way dev would have been happy with the whole incident. separation was something that was not inevitable had they handled the situation with maturity . both of them let their egos and emotions rule, it was situation where mind had to take control, but unfortunately they let the heart dictate the terms.

this is were she had done the biggest blunder of not trusting her relationship with him, unka relationship iski aur ke manjoori ki mohtaj nahi hain.no matter what GKB, vicky or Ishwari call her at the end of the day NO ONE can deny the fact that she is "SONAKSHI DEV DIXIT"


My issue with that whole fiasco was there Dev's partiality was clearly visible,
He took no time in shutting up Bijoy but Mami was spewing out venom.---First wrong of Dev for me.


she could have come back to her own house at the end of the day or may be next day to see how dev was. there is no way dev would have been happy with the whole incident.

I seriously dont think so.The humiliation to Bijoy was far greater.Sona had to be there for her father.If u blame Sona for this,then Dev has to be blamed for ditching Sona on his birthday surprise night.
Just like Dev cant think of anything else when it comes to Ish,Sona also could not-Helll Bijoy was slapped and humiliated.Which loving daughter will think otherwise??She will definitely give prioroity to her broken father,Dev's miseries were his own doing,not Bijoys.Thats the reason Bijoy has more support.


Again Can we blame her.Given Dev's history,he was going to muddle up things.She left she became a successful business woman.Soha got some really good morals.

I tell you they needed a break.

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