Patch up is yet to come - Page 6

Originally posted by: melliflous

I watched the segment... I don't think they have accepted each other as husband and wife. They have accepted that they are a team as soha's parents.. and they are friends and confidantes... but that's not a complete patch up.. it's the beginning of the patch up. As much as I liked to see happy faces of Dev -sona - soha as a family in one frame , I was disappointed with Dev crying session glorifying ishwari... cvs are hell bent on showing ishwari was never wrong in the pretext of being a mother who had too many hardships to raise her kids... can't believe it

I agree with your last statement...I am telling it from their break time that they have been trying to glorify Ishwari...

If they had shown Dev regretting all his mistakes in past including what he did to Sonakshi then its understood...and would have been logical if they showed shock and him being in dilemma to accept the fact that his mom has done such a crime...it would have made more sense than his crying scene blaming himself...

Well diff ppl react diff ofcourse ...so standing in his shoes probably his guilt is about not understanding his mothers fears ...and considering the blind love that he has for his mom...he is has not accepted that his mom could do something like that and he justifies it by blaming himself...as a son not being able to provide for his mom and sis because of which she had to take such drastic step...

CVs selected this path to glorify Ishwari...but what is the use ...Ishwari is missing ... 😆

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I agree with your last statement...I am telling it from their break time that they have been trying to glorify Ishwari...

If they had shown Dev regretting all his mistakes in past including what he did to Sonakshi then its understood...and would have been logical if they showed shock and him being in dilemma to accept the fact that his mom has done such a crime...it would have made more sense than his crying scene blaming himself...

Well diff ppl react diff ofcourse ...so standing in his shoes probably his guilt is about not understanding his mothers fears ...and considering the blind love that he has for his mom...he is has not accepted that his mom could do something like that and he justifies it by blaming himself...as a son not being able to provide for his mom and sis because of which she had to take such drastic step...

CVs selected this path to glorify Ishwari...but what is the use ...Ishwari is missing ... 😆

Even if we forget the robbery part, how are cvs justifying that Dev was good with what role did his mom play in his and sonakshi s separation... it's almost she can just do anything and wash it away going to mandirs. I think supriya pilgaokar was not ready to be back in the show. They are probably trying their best to get her back by glorifying her character and turning it completely positive... just guessing but this is all done at the cost of changing and defying all their logic and story... chalo let's see how more can they glorify her..

Originally posted by: randomramblings

mily the one in bold was not the reason. the problem was his family thought her father to be a gold digger. her trying to arrange the finances was not wrong, she could have very well done that even while staying at ishwari nivas. there was no necessity that she had to cut off dev while she arranged the finances. i am not justifying dev here, she leaving along with her baba to console him was right, on the flip side, she could have come back to her own house at the end of the day or may be next day to see how dev was. there is no way dev would have been happy with the whole incident. separation was something that was not inevitable had they handled the situation with maturity . both of them let their egos and emotions rule, it was situation where mind had to take control, but unfortunately they let the heart dictate the terms.

this is were she had done the biggest blunder of not trusting her relationship with him, unka relationship iski aur ke manjoori ki mohtaj nahi hain.no matter what GKB, vicky or Ishwari call her at the end of the day NO ONE can deny the fact that she is "SONAKSHI DEV DIXIT"

Sonakshi would have involved dev only if he had not slapped her father - accidentally or not doesnt matter. Sona also fell on ishwari accidentally and all dev said was a double getout. I don't understand why should only sonakshi be the understanding one despite being humiliated by him and his family repeatedly. Everyone has a breaking point and that was hers.
So what if she returned the money - how is that insulting to ishwari when she herself blamed bijoy as a chor.. the only thing that sona could have done better is yo let saurav return the check instead of sona doing it herself.. if it was done that way, then i am sure dixits would have asked sona to cut off all relationships with bose family and sona would have walked out anyways if dev doesnt open his mouth

Originally posted by: melliflous

Even if we forget the robbery part, how are cvs justifying that Dev was good with what role did his mom play in his and sonakshi s separation... it's almost she can just do anything and wash it away going to mandirs. I think supriya pilgaokar was not ready to be back in the show. They are probably trying their best to get her back by glorifying her character and turning it completely positive... just guessing but this is all done at the cost of changing and defying all their logic and story... chalo let's see how more can they glorify her..

No matter how much they try to justify the character of Ishwari , I don't think viewers will buy it...because whatever she did was not something small...she destroyed three lives in one go...Sonakshi , Dev and Soha...and prior to that she destroyed a family and their dreams by stealing the jewellery from a house to feed her kids...imagine the condition of that girl..and of that family ...why did she not take her brothers help...why was she adamant that Dev has to go to one of the best school?

We shouldn't forget she destroyed her daughters life too by not educating her...she was selfish ..she had a plan...to invest in Dev and make her and her girls futures safe...that's what she did ...and once he became successful she wanted to keep him in control so that she would nt have to share her investment with anyone other than her daughters...cunning lady...

By glorifying Ishwari they are giving wrong message to society...simple no crime can be justified ...a crime is a crime...no one becomes Mahan after doing the crime...Sonakshi was also in the same state as Ishwari...instead of 4 kids , she had 3 old ppl and a brother to support...and that too when she was pregnant...and CVs are not making Dev think on these lines...why ?? because if they make Dev see this then they wont be able to make Ishwari MAHAN !!

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Sonakshi would have involved dev only if he had not slapped her father - accidentally or not doesnt matter. Sona also fell on ishwari accidentally and all dev said was a double getout. I don't understand why should only sonakshi be the understanding one despite being humiliated by him and his family repeatedly. Everyone has a breaking point and that was hers.
So what if she returned the money - how is that insulting to ishwari when she herself blamed bijoy as a chor.. the only thing that sona could have done better is yo let saurav return the check instead of sona doing it herself.. if it was done that way, then i am sure dixits would have asked sona to cut off all relationships with bose family and sona would have walked out anyways if dev doesnt open his mouth

We can add a lot of "IFs" and "Buts"...but the reality is they would have separated even with out the slap ...they were on the verge of it ...it was only a matter of time because Dev and Sonakshi was insecure...and they were not communicating...and they lacked trust...all they needed was a trigger and the slap because the trigger ...its as simple as that...

Now also I feel they have just accepted their own flaws...they have a long way to go ...to get back together as husband and wife!!

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Sonakshi would have involved dev only if he had not slapped her father - accidentally or not doesnt matter. Sona also fell on ishwari accidentally and all dev said was a double getout. I don't understand why should only sonakshi be the understanding one despite being humiliated by him and his family repeatedly. Everyone has a breaking point and that was hers.
So what if she returned the money - how is that insulting to ishwari when she herself blamed bijoy as a chor.. the only thing that sona could have done better is yo let saurav return the check instead of sona doing it herself.. if it was done that way, then i am sure dixits would have asked sona to cut off all relationships with bose family and sona would have walked out anyways if dev doesnt open his mouth

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

Bang on there

I don't understand why should only sonakshi be the understanding one despite being humiliated by him and his family repeatedly. Everyone has a breaking point and that was hers

One of my biggest problems with the CVs. That has such a sexist feel to it.

Because DILs use their brain...the moment these DILs become MILs ...they loose their capacity to think...so in short the thought process is only meant for DILs...lord that reminds me I will also turn to a MIL one day...mera kya hoga... 😆 ...its a nightmare to think ...what if you turn out to be like Ishwarii...yewww...No way !!

Jokes apart...yes , I don't like the fact that she has to be shown as the most understanding person ...I guess this is because PH thinks ppl will not accept a tough DIL...who will give back 10 times what her MIL gives...my point is its ok to show her as understanding but don't make her look like a fool or stupid to glorify MIL...

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Because DILs use their brain...the moment these DILs become MILs ...they loose their capacity to think...so in short the thought process is only meant for DILs...lord that reminds me I will also turn to a MIL one day...mera kya hoga... 😆 ...its a nightmare to think ...what if you turn out to be like Ishwarii...yewww...No way !!

Jokes apart...yes , I don't like the fact that she has to be shown as the most understanding person ...I guess this is because PH thinks ppl will not accept a tough DIL...who will give back 10 times what her MIL gives...my point is its ok to show her as understanding but don't make her look like a fool or stupid to glorify MIL...

Again bang on. Her over flexibility is making her look like a fool. I don't want her to bash Ish. Jaap mat Karo yaar

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

Again bang on. Her over flexibility is making her look like a fool. I don't want her to bash Ish. Jaap mat Karo yaar

Thankfully Sonakshi was with his as his child's mother trying to encourage him ...out of his negative state of mind...I loved the precap...she being formal...not even willing for a friendly hug( she gives to Jathin ) ...which means her wall is back in its place...loved it !!

Well said