*Season 2, Week 15* Analysis Thread - Page 11

Originally posted by: grace4317

Bolded - daraane ka iraada he kya...Don't want to watch any misunderstanding or fight anymore. If not reunion, want to have atleast a ceasefire between them. Sona already is on that mode. Better Dev also be so.

Originally posted by: flowers321

yesterday Ronita is just overeating. and sourav seriously 😡

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

@ Grace

I read your post on Saurav. After Dev Dixit Saurav is my favourite ch from the show. I liked him immensely. I never doubt his love for Sona. But he disappointed me yesterday by making a mountain out of mole.He should have waited for another situation which can justify his claim before his parents. Yes. Sona is the most loved and Saurav the neglected son. But that doesn't make Saurav right if he makes an issue out of no issue. I won't consider it balancing of relationships. It is an uncalled for intrusion . That's all.

Interesting discussions on Saurabh-Ronita and Asha-Bijoy... I read your thread too Grace... Thanks for sharing

There were quite a few things to note in the last few weeks on how Boses are dealing with a new bahu in their household and how SauRo are managing their new life.

I was astonished that Saurabh cancelled the honeymoon for Sona without even discussing with her. Somewhat similar to what Dev and Sonakshi did. Dev made an autonomous decision; however, the reason he gave was Neha's unhappiness without even discussing with Neha. Therefore, it is fine that Saurabh discussed it with Ronita...However, to then expect to be given every piece of information on Sona to Ronita is unfair on Asha and Bijoy.

Why does the couple Asha-Bijoy owe this to Ronita? They were sat in Sona's room... sipping tea. Asha was sombre. Whatever their reasons for stopping their discussion were (and that is a separate discussion), they do not have to tell this to anyone if they don't feel like it. Ronita did not even knock the door before entering the room.

On this show, the manner in which a couple's personal discussions are liable to be scrutinized by rest of the family is appalling. I know where this is coming from... When you live in a family etc... I do not think that is true though. All families respect a person, a couple and any relationship's personal space. Saurabh got the wrong end of the stick.

Saurabh wants to be a good husband... He wants to give Ronita that executive position, however, that position is not his to give. In a family, (especially the joint family set up), that position has to be earned. Asha and Ronita are working that equation out. Had Saurabh been honest with Bijoy, he would have found out why they did not tell everything to Ronita. Reminds me of Dev's dialogue (can we have a discussion on KRPKAB without Dev 😳) "itne salon ke gile shikwe... koi 60 seconds ka download nahi hai". Saurabh is not the head of this family yet. Bijoy and Asha are. He can be a good husband and re-assure Ronita that he will reach out to her when he needs help on Sona. However, he cannot fight her corner and expect that she is given every piece of information in the household when that is not even affecting her (Asha and Bijoy have not expected SauRo to change any of their plans for Sona). Becoming a good husband does not mean you yell at your family. Balance, dada.. Balance ☯️

I was not one bit shocked to see the Mondals. It was a facepalm moment however. Just that morning Bijoy told Asha he knows she is sad and then he goes on to invite the Mondals without telling her. Men! Clueless men of this show!

End of the day, when new relationships are built, the existing ones need to re-adjust. It all takes time, nurturing and understanding. We know Devakshi-Boses-Dixits failed at it. Will SouRo-Mandals-Boses succeed? Yet to be seen

Originally posted by: grace4317

Lakshmi...as I have replied to Ashwathy in my thread, let's give some time to Saurabh. In malayalam there is a phrase called nilaavathu azhichuvitta kozhi. I don't know the english translation for it. Right now that's Saurabh state. He is in a state of limbo, where he is confused & not sure on how & what to say. If Mrs.Mondal doesn't create any problem in between, then I am sure Saurabh will tone down as time passes by. If not, Asha & Ronita is there to guide him. I didn't feel Ronita overacting yesterday. I think, since she is also a Devakshi supporter, she might have been concerned for Sona too. Would be that, she didn't want to share it with anyone. Btw, does anyone in Bose house know that Dev is missing and Sona unki talaashi mein padi hai? I don't think so.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Interesting discussions on Saurabh-Ronita and Asha-Bijoy... I read your thread too Grace... Thanks for sharing

There were quite a few things to note in the last few weeks on how Boses are dealing with a new bahu in their household and how SauRo are managing their new life.

I was astonished that Saurabh cancelled the honeymoon for Sona without even discussing with her. Somewhat similar to what Dev and Sonakshi did. Dev made an autonomous decision; however, the reason he gave was Neha's unhappiness without even discussing with Neha. Therefore, it is fine that Saurabh discussed it with Ronita...However, to then expect to be given every piece of information on Sona to Ronita is unfair on Asha and Bijoy.

Why does the couple Asha-Bijoy owe this to Ronita? They were sat in Sona's room... sipping tea. Asha was sombre. Whatever their reasons for stopping their discussion were (and that is a separate discussion), they do not have to tell this to anyone if they don't feel like it. Ronita did not even knock the door before entering the room.

On this show, the manner in which a couple's personal discussions are liable to be scrutinized by rest of the family is appalling. I know where this is coming from... When you live in a family etc... I do not think that is true though. All families respect a person, a couple and any relationship's personal space. Saurabh got the wrong end of the stick.

Saurabh wants to be a good husband... He wants to give Ronita that executive position, however, that position is not his to give. In a family, (especially the joint family set up), that position has to be earned. Asha and Ronita are working that equation out. Had Saurabh been honest with Bijoy, he would have found out why they did not tell everything to Ronita. Reminds me of Dev's dialogue (can we have a discussion on KRPKAB without Dev 😳) "itne salon ke gile shikwe... koi 60 seconds ka download nahi hai". Saurabh is not the head of this family yet. Bijoy and Asha are. He can be a good husband and re-assure Ronita that he will reach out to her when he needs help on Sona. However, he cannot fight her corner and expect that she is given every piece of information in the household when that is not even affecting her (Asha and Bijoy have not expected SauRo to change any of their plans for Sona). Becoming a good husband does not mean you yell at your family. Balance, dada.. Balance ☯️

I was not one bit shocked to see the Mondals. It was a facepalm moment however. Just that morning Bijoy told Asha he knows she is sad and then he goes on to invite the Mondals without telling her. Men! Clueless men of this show!

End of the day, when new relationships are built, the existing ones need to re-adjust. It all takes time, nurturing and understanding. We know Devakshi-Boses-Dixits failed at it. Will SouRo-Mandals-Boses succeed? Yet to be seen