We blame each other more than we understand each other

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Posted: 8 years ago
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A lovely dialogue by Dev Dixit to Sonakshi Bose...and we feel they dont deserve each other...and they dont love each other!!

When things dont go in our favour , we tend to be ruthless in words and deeds with ppl whom we love the most . That is so true. A toddler crying loud and not stopping even after his /her parents trying to do everything to calm him /her...and they would then end up saying ..why would you want to cry and trouble us like this..Blame game ??
After a hard days work at office husband/wife when they reach home sees a slightly messed up front room blames the spouse saying . 'what were doing the whole day ...look at the front room its so messy"
When something really messes up in our life...we look at god and say...you are the supreme power...you knew everything then why did this happen to me or how could you let this happen to me!!

Why is that why always blame the person whom we love the most ?? Why is the we tend to point fingers at the person we trust and love the most for all the misfortunes when know deep down in us that they are not the reason??

I think its because when we love a person, we trust them , we expect them to understand us and accept us ...above all we expect them to protect us , guide us and stand up for us to solve our problems.

In reality its not possible that we understand the situation of our loved ones everytime ...mostly because of miscommunication ...and that might lead to situation were in we will not be able to solve problems of our loved ones or even stand up for them...

This is when we need to give time and try to understand the situation before we impulsively blame our loved ones for a misfortune that happened to us..during a difficult situation our thought process gets confused and we end up blurting out words or end up doing something that will lead to hurting our loved one...

I am glad Dev did say that they dont spend time trying to understand each other.

PS : I love the way CVs are making them talk abt the past and mistakes one by one ...slowly and steadily... not in one shot with some over the top drama..Lovely precap...So we have the to do list...they should have had this early ...I am sure things would have been way better...lol...yeah but at Dixit house one more list will be there ...Ishwari ka issue list for Dev abt Sonakshi !! I am sure that list is going to suprise him !! ROFL...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have this feeling their is gonna be some major change in Dev Sonakshi's equation before going to Dixit house
Looking at spoilers post this wedding I assume they will be more clam and at peace :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sjain

I have this feeling their is gonna be some major change in Dev Sonakshi's equation before going to Dixit house

Looking at spoilers post this wedding I assume they will be more clam and at peace :)



And I think our Dev will get naughtier...after all his home ground !

Am eagerly waiting to see what his game plan is going to be...having said this I don't think life at IN is going to be easy for Sonakshi..there are too many against her...

Dev is unpredictable ...not sure if he would support...even today when mami blamed Bijoy he just said he had no concerns with them and he just came to meet Golu ..

Let us see what Dev is going to be like with his child and wife at his house...I feel he is waiting eagerly to get them home.. 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Shikhayat means complaint.
Parwa means concern,

Sorry just couldn't help myself, by your typo.

He is changed and these two words says so
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld



And I think our Dev will get naughtier...after all his home ground !

Am eagerly waiting to see what his game plan is going to be...having said this I don't think life at IN is going to be easy for Sonakshi..there are too many against her...

Dev is unpredictable ...not sure if he would support...even today when mami blamed Bijoy he just said he had no concerns with them and he just came to meet Golu ..

Let us see what Dev is going to be like with his child and wife at his house...I feel he is waiting eagerly to get them home.. 😳


Ashwathi, He did not say that he had no concerns with them. In fact he said he does not have any complaints against them. With that what he conveyed was that they haven't done anything wrong so don't talk ill about them. He did not really get fed up there that he he came back, but had just come because he knew Golu would be upset. After some time he was going back.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shaavi



Ashwathi, He did not say that he had no concerns with them. In fact he said he does not have any complaints against them. With that what he conveyed was that they haven't done anything wrong so don't talk ill about them. He did not really get fed up there that he he came back, but had just come because he knew Golu would be upset. After some time he was going back.



Thanks for correcting me :)

True...but what I don't understand is ...why is he trying to be nice to mami and Vicky ...no that he doesn't understand them rt ??

And Elina...I am sure there is a story behind her staying at Dixit house instead of supporting Sonakshi...there is something that Vicky and GKB knows abt her ...or is she scared that they will take Golu away from her??
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld



Thanks for correcting me :)

True...but what I don't understand is ...why is he trying to be nice to mami and Vicky ...no that he doesn't understand them rt ??

He knows maami and Vickky are greedy, but he doesn't know the depth of it. He is yet to know that Vickky is the one who is behind the eviction of Boses, most of the problems they endured, the misunderstandings caused by them between themselves(Dev and Sonakshi) and the families(Boses and Dixits). This is where I liked the hint given by CVs with the story ending that Dev told. Dev is yet to show them his true face and get back the control he has given up. But it will happen. 😃

And Elina...I am sure there is a story behind her staying at Dixit house instead of supporting Sonakshi...there is something that Vicky and GKB knows abt her ...or is she scared that they will take Golu away from her??

Elena is still with them because of 2 reasons, 1 is Golu, the other is the promise she made to Vickky and maami. Unlike Dev and Sonakshi who married with blessings from elders, these 2 married by running away. The moment Elena decided to marry Viccky and ran away from her home, she kind of broke the relationship with her family. Unless they forgive her, she cannot really go back and she has to bear the consequences of her actions. As was shown Bijoy does not want Elena coming back. Even the first time she went there, Bijoy was not happy. He might have shown that in front of the Mandols, but immediately behind them showed his displeasure and dislike.

My guess is as the story unfolds and the truths start coming out, she will start disassociating with the Tripathis and come back to Boses or maybe something else is planned by the CVs. But for now she is bound by her promise as she accepted them as her family.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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What hint did the CVs give...sorry didn't understand that point of yours?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ashwathy,
In the story Dev told to Golu, he ended it with these lines. "The king then took out his big sword and showed it to the people. The people got scared and ran away from there. The king and his family then lived happily ever after".

I feel the king in this story is Dev and him taking out his sword meant taking his control of his family and home back. People getting scared and running away meant that Vickky and maami are shown their place and happily every after is him with Sona, Soha and Ishwari living a happy life. 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shaavi

Ashwathy,

In the story Dev told to Golu, he ended it with these lines. "The king then took out his big sword and showed it to the people. The people got scared and ran away from there. The king and his family then lived happily ever after".

I feel the king in this story is Dev and him taking out his sword meant taking his control of his family and home back. People getting scared and running away meant that Vickky and maami are shown their place and happily every after is him with Sona, Soha and Ishwari living a happy life.😃



Wow ...never thought of it this way ...now it makes sense...

Any thoughts of the precap...why he added "talk to Sonakshi " to the to do list and then made it NOT TO DO list ?? only talk to Sonakshi came under not to do list or the others were also included?

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