When things dont go in our favour , we tend to be ruthless in words and deeds with ppl whom we love the most . That is so true. A toddler crying loud and not stopping even after his /her parents trying to do everything to calm him /her...and they would then end up saying ..why would you want to cry and trouble us like this..Blame game ??
After a hard days work at office husband/wife when they reach home sees a slightly messed up front room blames the spouse saying . 'what were doing the whole day ...look at the front room its so messy"
When something really messes up in our life...we look at god and say...you are the supreme power...you knew everything then why did this happen to me or how could you let this happen to me!!
Why is that why always blame the person whom we love the most ?? Why is the we tend to point fingers at the person we trust and love the most for all the misfortunes when know deep down in us that they are not the reason??
I think its because when we love a person, we trust them , we expect them to understand us and accept us ...above all we expect them to protect us , guide us and stand up for us to solve our problems.
In reality its not possible that we understand the situation of our loved ones everytime ...mostly because of miscommunication ...and that might lead to situation were in we will not be able to solve problems of our loved ones or even stand up for them...
This is when we need to give time and try to understand the situation before we impulsively blame our loved ones for a misfortune that happened to us..during a difficult situation our thought process gets confused and we end up blurting out words or end up doing something that will lead to hurting our loved one...
I am glad Dev did say that they dont spend time trying to understand each other.
PS : I love the way CVs are making them talk abt the past and mistakes one by one ...slowly and steadily... not in one shot with some over the top drama..Lovely precap...So we have the to do list...they should have had this early ...I am sure things would have been way better...lol...yeah but at Dixit house one more list will be there ...Ishwari ka issue list for Dev abt Sonakshi !! I am sure that list is going to suprise him !! ROFL...