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sjain

@sjain

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

And I think our Dev will get naughtier...after all his home ground !

Am eagerly waiting to see what his game plan is going to be...having said this I don't think life at IN is going to be easy for Sonakshi..there are too many against her...

Dev is unpredictable ...not sure if he would support...even today when mami blamed Bijoy he just said he had no concerns with them and he just came to meet Golu ..

Let us see what Dev is going to be like with his child and wife at his house...I feel he is waiting eagerly to get them home.. 😳

To be honest this stay at Dixit house will be an emotional one and why Bose hoise stay happened first also makes more sense to me now..Its not lile they will be all peaceful and cordial and They will argue will show attitude but beneath it the healing happening will be signifcant and is gonna mellow them down .. also Sonakshi will face mami Vicky and she knows she has to be well prepared for that

Dev "standing up" for Sonakshi is something I dont want, she is mature and adult enough to do it by herself, Dev handled Bijoy like he thoight he should and now they have a pact to be atleast fakely polite with each other but they found so

ution to it on their own ..So Sonakshi too should tackle Ishwari how she thinks she should in best possible way

No didnt say he isnt concerned but he said he has no complaints with them

I dont know if their is anything called "Game plan" because he is bringing his daughter and hercmothr home..not planning some torture for them LOL arey he isn't some mafia gang ka boss LOL

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AparnaChinnu

@AparnaChinnu

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#12

sonakshi is not the same...she stayed as a wife and Bahu in dixit house before but now she is only soha's mother...they can't control her now and she doesn't need dev's support now...but dev should raise his voice if his family trouble sonakshi because then there was no one to question him but now soha is there... she wnt tolerate her mother getting hurt

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pkbdas61

@pkbdas61

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: sjain
I have this feeling their is gonna be some major change in Dev Sonakshi's equation before going to Dixit house
Looking at spoilers post this wedding I assume they will be more clam and at peace :)

I also feel so too... else it would not make sense...

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vibg

@vibg

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Shaavi

Boses xpted her marraige the second day.. they went to doxit house and blessed the newlyweds. Bijoy didnt welckme her now, not because she ran away, but she didnt stand with Boses in their hour of need.. when they were accused as golddiggers, when bijoy was slapped, and when they were thrown on streets. thats why Bijoy is angry with Elena!

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lavanya

@dlavanya

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: vibg

Boses xpted her marraige the second day.. they went to doxit house and blessed the newlyweds. Bijoy didnt welckme her now, not because she ran away, but she didnt stand with Boses in their hour of need.. when they were accused as golddiggers, when bijoy was slapped, and when they were thrown on streets. thats why Bijoy is angry with Elena!

I think bijoy and boses still welcomed elena after 7 yrs... but she turned out to be dev dixits spy- so he asked her to leave

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vibg

@vibg

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: dlavanya

I think bijoy and boses still welcomed elena after 7 yrs... but she turned out to be dev dixits spy- so he asked her to leave

yup, they xpted her despite how she betrayed them.. but Bijoy saw thise texts and figured out she was there to spy for Dev.

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mena_k

@mena_k

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Shaavi

Dev's protest in front of his family in IN had always been meek, so much so that they all never hesitate to taunt, badmouth against Sonakshi and boses before or now. However, for Ishwari, dare anyone say a word and he is ready to tear them apart. So no I don't think Dev ever means any good and respect for Sonakshi or boses. He never did anything for Sonakshi when she was his wife, so now being an ex-wife I don't expect anything from him either.

Elena was forgiven immediately for her run-a-way marriage. Bijoy was even happy when she visited them after 7-yrs, it was only after he came to know of her real purpose of visit, he got angry and justified too. She came as a spy rather then a family.

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randomramblings

@randomramblings

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Thanks for correcting me :)

True...but what I don't understand is ...why is he trying to be nice to mami and Vicky ...no that he doesn't understand them rt ??

And Elina...I am sure there is a story behind her staying at Dixit house instead of supporting Sonakshi...there is something that Vicky and GKB knows abt her ...or is she scared that they will take Golu away from her??

Dev by nature does not forget anyone who was kind to him ever. vicky and mami might be after his money today, but at the end of the day, mami did stand by them in their worst times. His mama is not someone who was filthy rich, to take on additional burden of Ishwari and her kids and his mami too is not heartless. there is no way she could have predicted that dev will be so successful, yet she never really stopped her husband to reach out to them in their worst crisis.

Even during the snake scene, she only wanted to scare away dev, but had no intention of harming h him or anybody else for that matter. even when vicky got dev beaten up, she was cross with him for having resorted to violence.

She is few of those who like to rule, but don't turn vindictive if they don't get want they want.

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shruti.

@shruti2007

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Pls someone make me understand dis dialog. Becoz was unable to connect it.
I always felt tht dev sona understood each other d best .the problem is thy didn't accept it..if thy could accept each others weakness d situation might be different today.

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randomramblings

@randomramblings

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Posted: 8 years ago

#20

it is too early to judge elena's character. coming to slap gate incident, i dont think elena had to involved in anyway. it might be her MIL who called her mesho names, at the same time her mesho also gave back equally to GKB. matter ends there, it was all about two warring elders.

It was Dev who slapped his FIL, again elena does not need to get involved as it is her uncle and not her dad unlike for Sona. We need to know the difference and understand the importance of each relationship before we start fighting for the rights or wrongs. Vicky and Elena are spouses, if the mistake was done by any of them, then yes they had to argue and fight. for third party things, they don't need to be at loggerheads, this is precisely why dev and sona's marriage failed. they gave priority to people around them ( i am blaming both here) instead of their own relationship.

coming to vicky throwing away boses out of their house, every one including Dev himself believed that he was responsible, there is no way elena could suspect it was a vicky and not dev behind the deed.

why she did not stand by boses-- biggest question, what help were the boses expecting from her? did they even contact her or did they brand her as another dixit. ?

If we see the series of incidents before the final showdown, we dont get to see sona talking to elena or vice versa when she left dev and started staying with boses before she arranged for the money . When people shut you off there is no way you can barge into their lives.

this is the major complaint i have about sona, she was in crisis, her father was humiliated, no denying that , yet there was no reason why she had to completely shut out dev from her life. Earning your fathers respect, and saving your relationship with your spouse are two separate entities. each have a place of their own.

Dev tired ample times to reach out to her, she could conveyed that she would not like to return until she restores her father's image. instead of having a word, she chose to shut off . When egos flare people get blinded. this is what happened with sona, shutting out only adds to more problems.

This is precisely what Asha is teaching her, blunders do happen in every relationship. WE hold on to them inspite of all flaws because we value them, the minute the value of it diminishes, it tends to snap.

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