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astrix90

@astrix90

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#41

I honestly believe the show has been ruined and a lot of characters have been butchered for drama but its interesting that they are creating similar situations and parallels in Season 2. Ronita's mom seems to be a better version of GKB if I may say so. Dev might take the blame in today's episode to save Saourav's marriage or some such weird reason). Its an interesting parallel to the time GKB stole from Dev's room and Sonakshi exposed her (prior to the accident sequence). Dev and Ishwari believed Sona yet they did not speak up cos of GKB's drama. Am curious to see everyone's reactions in today's episode. Bijoy might jump the gun assuming Dev wants to create issues there just like his family. Will Sourav believe Dev wants to ruin his marriage just like Neha did back in the day though Sona only had best intentions in her mind? Most of all, am most curious about Soha's reaction. She hardly knows her father. Yes, she loves him but does she trust him enough to believe him in the face of all the adverse evidence? I know Dev's name will be cleared but in that short period of time when he is accused, am curious to see how everyone reacts. Its an absurd precap and the whole drama is ridiculous but after ages, am actually interested to see everyone's reaction to this (including Dev to see if he will let it slide and not make a big deal out of it).

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_Payalj_

@_Payalj_

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: IFfreak
Payal..the above is adressed to Jshukla..but I wholeheartedly agree with this post of your s. But we both know Sona is a dumbo in such things.she is very naive in complicated relationship understanding. She felt ishwari will appreciate her home making skills. And road to marital bliss is via ishwari's acceptance.
I didn't expect her to understand that ishwari will not like it to see someone new being as good as herself in ishwari's core skills.

I am kinda worried about marriage now. I am in a relationship and all our discussions are making me worried about taking the plunge or not. 😆

Please go in for marriage. Alone is lonely especially when your sisters, friends all get married and have their own families. It's just be ready to adjust. In my old grandma's words - jo karna hai karna par pehle pair (feet) to jamne do

One more thing I hear so much about how good are nuclear families. But what about the children. A grandmother is a billion times better than any Crche or maid. Even if the MIL taunts or does power show, can't we tolerate her for the sake of our children?

Who will sacrifice for the child if the mother can't? And if the mother is such a great advocate of equality then why bring the child into the world? Why sacrifice his rights at the altar of your rights?

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Lavanya

@KumbhkarnKiNani

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Posted: 8 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: astrix90
I honestly believe the show has been ruined and a lot of characters have been butchered for drama but its interesting that they are creating similar situations and parallels in Season 2. Ronita's mom seems to be a better version of GKB if I may say so. Dev might take the blame in today's episode to save Saourav's marriage or some such weird reason). Its an interesting parallel to the time GKB stole from Dev's room and Sonakshi exposed her (prior to the accident sequence). Dev and Ishwari believed Sona yet they did not speak up cos of GKB's drama. Am curious to see everyone's reactions in today's episode. Bijoy might jump the gun assuming Dev wants to create issues there just like his family. Will Sourav believe Dev wants to ruin his marriage just like Neha did back in the day though Sona only had best intentions in her mind? Most of all, am most curious about Soha's reaction. She hardly knows her father. Yes, she loves him but does she trust him enough to believe him in the face of all the adverse evidence? I know Dev's name will be cleared but in that short period of time when he is accused, am curious to see how everyone reacts. Its an absurd precap and the whole drama is ridiculous but after ages, am actually interested to see everyone's reaction to this (including Dev to see if he will let it slide and not make a big deal out of it).

The fact about krpkab is that everything hinges around Dev.Yes Ish is the central point but the show actually hinges on Dev's character.You may like him,dislike him but it's hard to ignore him.We all want a much more sensible Dev and the show will automatically start appealing to everyone.I have a very very strong gut feeling that we are moving towards a much more improvised version of Dev in the upcoming weeks.I'll just say-hang on friend,I'm very hopeful that the show will again appeal to you and all the audience.I still love the show although better and evolved characters(particularly Dev) would be a great relief.

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JShukla

@JShukla

Inactive

Posted: 8 years ago

#44

@ Payal- I liked your post and theoretically agree. But I am not sure if I will feel OK with not being'allowed ' to do what I want to do in my house.

I mean , if I feel like cooking and doing some sort of home management, I will. It somehow is not my responsibility to curb insecurity feelings in someone who feels threatened by just about anything I do

sorry I am unable to explain. But I will attribute this to my 'so-far' easy short (<1 year) married life. Maybe that's why I don't have the perspective you have?

Is it about principles? How could Sona maintain the girlfriend status quo while being a wife?

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astrix90

@astrix90

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: gt2918

The fact about krpkab is that everything hinges around Dev.Yes Ish is the central point but the show actually hinges on Dev's character.You may like him,dislike him but it's hard to ignore him.We all want a much more sensible Dev and the show will automatically start appealing to everyone.I have a very very strong gut feeling that we are moving towards a much more improvised version of Dev in the upcoming weeks.I'll just say-hang on friend,I'm very hopeful that the show will again appeal to you and all the audience.I still love the show although better and evolved characters(particularly Dev) would be a great relief.

Yeah Dev and Ishwari are the central point of most conflicts anyway 😆 The reason why we dont see mature characters is because the writers lack creativity to write drama centered around mature characters. There were million ways to show conflict, break-up, separation etc. but the writers always choose the most juvenile ways just to generate more drama. The Dev and Sona of the initial episodes will never behave the way they are currently (or even post marriage) even in their worst dreams 😆 So yes, anything goes so long as they get to drag the show. They have destroyed every single character IMO. Even Ishwari and Bijoy were sensible humans with flaws when the show started. Not the caricatures that they are currently. So yeah, I dont really put much thought into that. Its just that am kinda curious about today's episode after ages. Just to see everyone's reaction to this tamasha. I just hope the makers dont make Ishwari come and create another ridiculous drama out of this and they let Dev deal with this on his own.

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Drcs

@Drcs

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Posted: 8 years ago

#46

@deeps you indeed have a knack lady...I bcm very emotional when I read your convo with your MIL... what she has done for you, you can suffer 100s of snide comments...isn't it?...agreed, to reach this stage both of you might have sacrificed a lot but at the end if it's a win-win situation why not tolerate...🤗

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havima

@havima

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: IFfreak
Payal..the above is adressed to Jshukla..but I wholeheartedly agree with this post of your s. But we both know Sona is a dumbo in such things.she is very naive in complicated relationship understanding. She felt ishwari will appreciate her home making skills. And road to marital bliss is via ishwari's acceptance.
I didn't expect her to understand that ishwari will not like it to see someone new being as good as herself in ishwari's core skills.

I am kinda worried about marriage now. I am in a relationship and all our discussions are making me worried about taking the plunge or not. 😆

@IF freak... please dont worry about the unknown. All these insightful posts about each ones lives' experiences will actually help somebody as a referral guide on what to expect but will never be the same for the other.. The values nd virtues with which we are brought up largely defines a woman but once she is married the same has to undergo a refinement with the values nd virtues of the new family adding to the mix which will bring out the finesse of the lady... for we are programmed tht way.

For example... i was brought up in a large family ( as in the immediate family comprises of nearly 50.. we are 'fondly' called as the "crowd") where sharing, snatching, fighting nd crying were a parcel of day to day life. But was married into a family ( a big one) but everyone maintained their distance nd unwilling to share anything ( even if it was a snack). It was like a cultural shock for me but with time was able to adapt nd apply my core values of sharing within the boundaries. It makes me happy nd my in laws too.

Always keep urself happy and cheerful and you will end up making others happy. It takes little time for the new family to know nd accept ur nature and vice versa. But once u both understand each other the journey is wonderful with new horizons explored each day. Good luck nd best wishes for your journey.

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havima

@havima

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#48

@chits.. enna ellarayum innaikku think panna vechutteenga.

Wonderful topic to ponder upon. And also i must add tht whn i think abt writing my experiences... it is also helping me to introspect on where i might have gone wrong. So many life experiences in one place and for me its worth every second of the last one hour spent. Since i will never be a MIL... i am working on becoming one like asha.

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_Payalj_

@_Payalj_

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: JShukla
@ Payal- I liked your post and theoretically agree. But I am not sure if I will feel OK with not being'allowed ' to do what I want to do in my house.
I mean , if I feel like cooking and doing some sort of home management, I will. It somehow is not my responsibility to curb insecurity feelings in someone who feels threatened by just about anything I do

sorry I am unable to explain. But I will attribute this to my 'so-far' easy short (<1 year) married life. Maybe that's why I don't have the perspective you have?

Is it about principles? How could Sona maintain the girlfriend status quo while being a wife?

See its like save and invest today, enjoy later. But then everyone have their own peculiar situation and there are no universal principles. Ultimate aim, after all, is to be happy

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JShukla

@JShukla

Inactive

Posted: 8 years ago

#50

Payal- "Who will sacrifice for the child if the mother can't? And if the mother is such a great advocate of equality then why bring the child into the world? Why sacrifice his rights at the altar of your rights? "

I think even at nuclear families the grandparents are visiting to share the load during early years of child . Even corporate world is addressing the issue by giving longer maternity leaves to mother, because off course father can't breastfeed😆.

However I agree that when both parents are working, its good to invite both MILs on a rotation basis to provide child care.

if the above does not work , I am sure after 1 year a career oriented mom can plan to go back to work and then a father should be willing to pitch in more hours in child care(changing nappy, giving milk, singing lullaby, taking out for walks😳.) I believe in equality and hence will promote this.

Not sure how being advocate of equal rights in exclusive of bringing child into the world.