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Tejaswini, I agree with all of your points. I can't watch manhandling on screen and call it romance. I am sorry but love and respect are entwined in my head. So in my mind when one is present, the other has to be present too. And if one is absent, then the other is meaningless.
I have heard Dev claim a lot of things. But none of them he delivered. So I don't trust him.
And the fact that he goes Dr. Jeckyl Mr. Hyde in front of Soha vs. behind his back tells me that he is two-faced. Then why do we blame Vicky, Radha and Ishwari? Why do we call them villain and Dev hero?
All of them have motives behind their behaviour.
Sorry, I can't justify the same behaviour in someone that I am condemning in another.
Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham
i give up guys. tia you are right. there is no way to keep your brain alive whilst watching this show cos frankly, it hits a bit too close to home for me. honestly speaking bijoy is distasteful. his misbehavior with even dev is distasteful. it shows that on some level he still cares about dev dixit. dev does not deserve anything other than cold hard indifference from him. he should pretend like dev is simply not there. that would calm my soul. instead the man rages and gives himself a high BP. not just that but yesterday he even rejected his own family- golu- because of dev and ish. well you can be sure ish and co will not make such silly errors. they will ensure soha stays firmly in their pocket whilst you rage at your grandchild golu. that was sad and frustrating to watch. infact this whole process was frustrating to watch.
when i watch dev nowadays, it feels like watching a person who has blacked out from drinking too much and everytime he stirs i assume he is waking up, only to be disappointed. because wake up, he does not and frankly im starting to give up. when he was moving into the bose's i thought it would be a very neat message from the cvs. that finally dev would realize how hard it is to leave your home and independence and settle with people other than your own. that he would realize how it was for sona and what she faced. but alas, no change in dev at all. here he is living in a house, where minus bijoy everyone is nice and kind to him despite him having played a role in their homelessness about 7 years prior. yet he cant even be decently respectful to the people in the house and live like a normal person in there. i wont even elaborate on the situation. All i will say is, he thought sona pushed his mother and kicked her out of the house but she is expected to forgive him for 'mistakenly' hitting her dad in a fit of rage and even his current behavior is APPALLING. no matter what sona has NEVER spoken rudely to ishwari, dev cant even forward that courtesy to sona's family? there is no reason for him to annoy bijoy. if the man says something ignore it! how hard can it b to not be an a-hole? especially when you can see that every other member in the fam is trying to ease the situation for you? and this is supposed to b love? i doubt dev even loves soha or if shes just an ego trip or a one up on sona for him. this isnt love. love ensures respect for every part of your child's life- he cant even respect her mother and the family who raised her. hows he gonna love her? and sona needs to think, biological dad and all is fine, but are these the values she wants to raise her daughter with? where she grows up seeing her father treat her mother and her family like trash? i cant even imagine why sona is putting up with this. sona grew up idealizing her dad and her parents' marriage. i grew up with my parents' mistakes. there were no delusions there. but i can say with 100% insurance, if my dad was disrespected by my husband (forget ex), id walk out in less than a nanosecond with my children in tow. him and his haq can go trek the behind of a baboon.today's episode started decent enough. i was trying so hard to warm upto dev and he was succeeding. i felt like he was mellowing down. becoming human. perhaps him and sona would form a camaraderie as co-habiting parents at least. he'd learn to respect her perfections, which includes her family. but then the dhoti scene happened. it was like watching a man take advantage of and roughhouse a woman to romantic music. it was perfect. just perfectly disgusting. the fact that he was enjoying her humiliation and desperation was disgusting. there is no love here, its completely gone. at least from dec's side. hes kind of incapable of loving anyone but ishwari. and tbh they cant be friends even. sona should openly tell soha whats up and be done with this- soha doesnt have a choice in this. she should get over herself and b grateful to have a family, albeit an odd one.as for elena, i had hoped she'd just be like- ok i dont believe this bs. if you try to stop me from meeting my fam, im filing for divorce. you and your son and my husband and his mother and all your issues can go die in a homeless junky yard. its time she takes golu and walks out.
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