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Posted: 8 years ago
#91
@Shailu, totally apt emojis... My sentiments exactly. 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
#92
Ashi, arre main to community tak gayee hi nehin.

Tagore, Raja Ram Mohan Roy ko jaane de. Woh to aurat ki haq ki baat karte the to Bhaiya ko to unka naam pata nehin hoga.

Lekin Rani Mukerji ka naam to suna hoga? Saurabh Ganguly ka naam to suna hoga? Inko bhi identify kar lete to bahut tha.

Mera husband Canadian hain aur unko bhi Bhaiya se jyada Bengali surnames pata hain. But then he loves me so he wanted to know my community since one day his children will also belong to that community. To Bhaiya se compare to nehin kar sakte.



Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

One thing which I would like to point out.Dev was blatantly insulting the Bengali community with his Ghosh,Bose jibe.

Is this what MaSh are trying to show people?? Look guys!! Our super hot hero is making fun of a respectable community,it's names and it's traditions.

Mr Dev Dixit,I guess you have never heard about Netaji Subhas Chandra Bose,Rabindranath Tagore,Raja Rammohan Roy,etc.
They were men of substance and they were Bengalis.You are not even 0.00001% of them.So just keep your frog sized mouth shut.
And Dev's family has insulted Sona's community ever since S1.Did Dev do anything to stop them?? Now he is doing the same thing.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#93
Arre don't you know? Bhaiya to Mahaan since birth. Khud Maata Goddess ne jo paida kiya hain. You know the lady who is a mother but not a woman? To Bhaiya aurat ki izzat kaise karega? Uski Maata to aurat hain hi nehin by her own admission. 🤢

Originally posted by: .Avengers.

Not that the show is some great Chanakya jaap but it was total BS today.

If dev came down wearing nothing people would laugh at whom him or Sona? then why she needed to go to him? and then he fussed like the small baby he is and when she gave up he had the audacity to show aukat. like what attitude he keeps throwing around where does this come from??? What mahaan thing he has done??


As a bengali myself this show has made a mockery. of us I don't like to link media with a community or religion (i preached about this to tanhaiyyan thread not too long ago 😆) cause media dont do representation good and one character dont represent an entire community. but when the characters utter stuffs like you bangalee (gkb all the damn time), bengalees pagal hai and all that is disrespectful. I wish sony was a bit responsible as to what they telecast and do some editing. a lot of things can be cut from final footage which wont hamper the progress of story or the final product, so why show it? Just to rile viewers? Is there no such thing as responsibility? This is not about the two morons who would end up together eventually but about some communities. If we can be sensitive about religion why not geographical communities?


And dev was talking about soha got ready all by herself without a single help from him and yet he couldnt tone down his sarcasm, as opposed to sona who beamed proudly. just like he still make his mom wear his chaddi he wants his kid to hold his pinkie throughout life and never become older. Independent? Thats a cuss in front of him.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Avengers.

glad i could make u laugh, but hope u are not hurt😆



Its hurts when others see you fall but since nobody saw me, it didn't 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i give up guys. tia you are right. there is no way to keep your brain alive whilst watching this show cos frankly, it hits a bit too close to home for me. honestly speaking bijoy is distasteful. his misbehavior with even dev is distasteful. it shows that on some level he still cares about dev dixit. dev does not deserve anything other than cold hard indifference from him. he should pretend like dev is simply not there. that would calm my soul. instead the man rages and gives himself a high BP. not just that but yesterday he even rejected his own family- golu- because of dev and ish. well you can be sure ish and co will not make such silly errors. they will ensure soha stays firmly in their pocket whilst you rage at your grandchild golu. that was sad and frustrating to watch. infact this whole process was frustrating to watch.
when i watch dev nowadays, it feels like watching a person who has blacked out from drinking too much and everytime he stirs i assume he is waking up, only to be disappointed. because wake up, he does not and frankly im starting to give up. when he was moving into the bose's i thought it would be a very neat message from the cvs. that finally dev would realize how hard it is to leave your home and independence and settle with people other than your own. that he would realize how it was for sona and what she faced. but alas, no change in dev at all. here he is living in a house, where minus bijoy everyone is nice and kind to him despite him having played a role in their homelessness about 7 years prior. yet he cant even be decently respectful to the people in the house and live like a normal person in there. i wont even elaborate on the situation. All i will say is, he thought sona pushed his mother and kicked her out of the house but she is expected to forgive him for 'mistakenly' hitting her dad in a fit of rage and even his current behavior is APPALLING. no matter what sona has NEVER spoken rudely to ishwari, dev cant even forward that courtesy to sona's family? there is no reason for him to annoy bijoy. if the man says something ignore it! how hard can it b to not be an a-hole? especially when you can see that every other member in the fam is trying to ease the situation for you? and this is supposed to b love? i doubt dev even loves soha or if shes just an ego trip or a one up on sona for him. this isnt love. love ensures respect for every part of your child's life- he cant even respect her mother and the family who raised her. hows he gonna love her? and sona needs to think, biological dad and all is fine, but are these the values she wants to raise her daughter with? where she grows up seeing her father treat her mother and her family like trash? i cant even imagine why sona is putting up with this. sona grew up idealizing her dad and her parents' marriage. i grew up with my parents' mistakes. there were no delusions there. but i can say with 100% insurance, if my dad was disrespected by my husband (forget ex), id walk out in less than a nanosecond with my children in tow. him and his haq can go trek the behind of a baboon.
today's episode started decent enough. i was trying so hard to warm upto dev and he was succeeding. i felt like he was mellowing down. becoming human. perhaps him and sona would form a camaraderie as co-habiting parents at least. he'd learn to respect her perfections, which includes her family. but then the dhoti scene happened. it was like watching a man take advantage of and roughhouse a woman to romantic music. it was perfect. just perfectly disgusting. the fact that he was enjoying her humiliation and desperation was disgusting. there is no love here, its completely gone. at least from dec's side. hes kind of incapable of loving anyone but ishwari. and tbh they cant be friends even. sona should openly tell soha whats up and be done with this- soha doesnt have a choice in this. she should get over herself and b grateful to have a family, albeit an odd one.
as for elena, i had hoped she'd just be like- ok i dont believe this bs. if you try to stop me from meeting my fam, im filing for divorce. you and your son and my husband and his mother and all your issues can go die in a homeless junky yard. its time she takes golu and walks out.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Purva, you made a good decision. You are better off skipping the episode. The amount of regressive bs this one episode showed, probably I have not seen in any episode in any season. 😡

Originally posted by: purva

I am skipping watching today's episode.. already upset over some super regressive BS I watched on YT today.. It was a lecture given by some so called social worker woman about how girls should be trained to live in a joint family system...🤢🤢

I can't take anymore BS for today 😭

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Is Halweshwari sach me going to Vaishno devi ?

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Posted: 8 years ago
#98
Did anyone see the thumbnail they've put up on YT for today's episode!? It's clear now that all they care for is the no. of viewers!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The first 100 episodes were probably the best episodes of any show I have ever seen. I watched them on repeat and I still watch them. But now it turned into saas-bahu crap and then regressive crap. It's getting harder and harder to sit through each episode.

I completely agree with you. The blame lie more on Dev because it's the husband's responsibility to balance wife and mother in a joint family situation since he is bringing his wife to live under his mother's roof. I said many times that Dev doesn't know how to balance relationships. Had he balanced relationships like Bijoy did, he would have a mother and wife who are best friends as opposed to enemies.

It's Dev's failure. Not as much Ishwari's failure. All weapons she used against Sona was handed to her by Dev himself.

Originally posted by: someonelikeyou-

Earlier Sona and dev used to really like each other, thus it wasn't a forced relationship like it is now.

What i liked about krpkab was that it was different than other shows in portraying romance and other stuffs (despite the saas bahu drama)...their mutual understanding for each other and liking for each other is not visible...and instead it's like other shows when the guy forces the girl to come near him...or when they accidentally fall on bed,floor, bathroom and what not..Their relationship can't be the way it was earlier.

It is said that once the thread (dhaaga) is broken, it can't be fixed.Even if it is fixed it can't be the way it was, since it has a lot of knots in it now, thus the beauty of that dhaaga is lost.The meaning is obvious, that the beauty/purity/innocence of the relationship can't be the way it was earlier.This is what has happened with devakshi.So many knots have made their relationship look awkward literally.

I blame it on Dev more than Ishwari and gkb.Sona was his choice.He brought her into his house.It was his responsibility to take care of her in a place which is alien to her.Rather dev was blinded by his mother's love and couldn't see Sona.Even if someone manipulates you, you must have enough trust on your partner.Was his love so weak that he couldn't protect her.I sometimes feel that Dev never liked Sona.It was just a fascination for him.He could be manipulated so easily.Whom he actually loves is Ishwari.

Even now he can't see his fault, and justifies his bad deeds as what Bijoy deserved.He can't see his mother's wrongdoings.I can't enjoy their love as Dev is still a cribber and Sona deserves a better person in her life.

The only good people i can find in this show are sona,asha,dida,elena and maybe sourabh...

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Posted: 8 years ago
Shailu, Dev is typical two-faced opportunist Dickshit. What else can be expected from him?

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

tia hats off to ur patience such bakwas epi me bi aap update karte ho ...

what u said about independent and feminist is right .
dev new found words from dictionary .
abuser became passionate love its just sucks ...ppl clap on such scenes ...
ish mata ka bulava i too felt the way u did "uta le re baba darti ka bhoj"but then i remembered dog to jayegi par tail dev ka kya hoga ...ott drama eyes filled with tears bashan about his mataji what not cant take such drama dramebaaz maa ka laadla dramebaaz e hota hai na

dev tho kabab se fakeu isaan hai the day he proposed was such a fake😡

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