*Season 2, Week 9* Analysis Thread - Page 15

N after Sona going to help Dev for catching snake Soha has sensed that her Mumma can't leave her Papa alone in any prblm regarding her... Then when Sona asks her to look after Golu n herself as she is going Soha fears for her Mumma to which Sona perfectly says not to worry, her Mumma n Papa will handle it together n come out safe.. again she sensed that her Mumma n Papa can fight anything, but together... Alone they have their own fears... Then on hearing this screams she herself enters the room, the first thing she saw n noticed was her Mumma n Papa safe in eachother's arms.. n Dev asks Sona to take care of Soha n he will catch the snake, Soha again sensed that when we both r safe in front of him, he will get everything fixed.. keeping her safe with her Mumma n he will himself take the charge...

@ cscs...

Dnt want marraige to happen but being pressurizd from.Bijoy ..the talks will be on! .As the new segmnt is out .the way Bijoy is acting ..u can see he will try to stand as a wall between Devakshi...He cant tolerate Sohas closeness with him..so jus think how he will react wen it comes to his daughter!Its up to Sona now...to take a stand!

Originally posted by: Shaavi

Chaaru, this is how it would go if Sonakshi acknowledges her true feelings. The only reason Dev is not accepting his feelings is because he does not want to get rejected. He feels that Sonakshi rejected him and his love when they broke up. Even if he sees care, he will think it is for his role as Soha's papa and not as himself i.e as her husband and lover. He will also not try to pursue or do anything that might take away his access to Soha.

From Soha's perspective who does not want to hurt her mother will not propose Sonakshi and Dev coming together. She already asked about that in summer camp and got her answer from Sona. She also knows how Bijoy feels about Dev. So when the question of Sonakshi and Jotin's marriage comes up and Sona asks what she thinks she will ask her to go ahead as this would make everyone happy. I mean she doesn't know what Dev feels in the first place and also since Sonakshi has repeatedly said she cannot live with him anymore.

The only person who can stop all this is Sonakshi herself by accepting her hidden feelings. Right now she is being Dev in a lot of ways. She is a badly hurt liver. When the question comes especially with Mandols talking about it and its effect on Saurabh and Ronita's relationship, she will consider it. Jotin will play exactly the role of Natasha. If Ishwari thought Natasha was perfect for Dev, Bijoy thinks Jotin is perfect for Sonakshi. She also knows how much Saurabh supported her when she fell in love with Dev or in every step of her way. Saurabh is Sonakshi's Neha. Saurabh might not directly say it, but seeing him sad and pining for Ronita will do the trick.

As she thinks she hates Dev, Soha also saying yes for this marriage and everything else that is happening, she will agree to this marriage. She also will do this as she feels guilty of being the reason for what happened 7 years ago, the cross she has been carrying ever since. But yes it will end only when Sonakshi accepts her true feelings and love for Dev. She will have to come forward and meet Dev halfway in that role.

I too don want So-Ja , they r jst perfect as friends. As per segments,soha is planning to go bak to kolkata with dadu n dida bcoz she don want to stay alone with only mumma, she needs papa too. So better she thought to stay away from both . I thought bout the reconciliation of devakshi as both saying " i want u for myself " besides realising their mistakes . But now it seems like soha saying the same , " i want u both for myself " . Old wine in new bottle !

Originally posted by: Shaavi

Chaaru, this is how it would go if Sonakshi acknowledges her true feelings. The only reason Dev is not accepting his feelings is because he does not want to get rejected. He feels that Sonakshi rejected him and his love when they broke up. Even if he sees care, he will think it is for his role as Soha's papa and not as himself i.e as her husband and lover. He will also not try to pursue or do anything that might take away his access to Soha.

Came across these lines in an article on marriages. Posting it here, as it matched our Dev-Sona relation.

Originally posted by: grace4317

Shaavi...I totally agree with this.

Adding up, seeing today's spoiler segment, I feel it will be Dev who will convince Soha to stay with Sona and to give time to Sona to accept Dev.

I am not sure I understand this.
We want Sona and Dev together but only in Dev's terms because he is afraid of rejection? He pushed her away. Like you say above, Sonakshi rejected him when they broke up - and breaking up was his choice wasn't it? She didn't open her mouth ever and say 'She made a mistake by loving him or marrying him'. She didn't say 'Get out of my life'.
We are repeatedly shown what she thinks of Dev as a father for her child. She doesn't doubt his love for their child.

Unless Dev can prove himself as a good lover/husband, I don't want Sona to live with him. I'd rather she give Soha away to the Dixits and walk away with dignity.

So why exactly do we think it is Sona who is wrong in all this? I can understand the need for sympathy to Dev but what is Sona's fault?

Originally posted by: cscs

@Shaavi, i think cvs read our comments and decided to throw us all off balance.😆

I feel both Dev and Sonakshi are in delusion that they are just needed as Soha's father and mother respectively. There need for each other is required to be resurfaced ATM.

Now with Soha demanding to live either with both her parents or not with anyone, Jotin's marriage track will not fit here. Its Dev who Soha wants as her papa, not Jotin and the whole game will be backfired. Lets see how they take this forward.

Chaaru, the segment actually confirmed my belief that Sona Jotin's marriage track will happen. 😆 😆 . And Sonakshi will go along with it. Here's why --

1) Saurabh-- he has been Sonakshi's confidant and support for a long time. He was the one who would coax all of her true feelings and defend her and support her unconditionally. With Ronita accepting his proposal, Saurabh is on cloud nine. Mrs. M has already shown her feelings about Sonakshi staying there with Soha. If his wedding is not going as planned with Ronita, he might not say anything openly, but will definitely be sad. Similar to how Dev felt for Neha and was ready to fulfill all her wishes because of what Neha had done in the past, Sonakshi will be ready to do the same for Saurabh. Here he may not ask it himself or may even say it's ok, but seeing him pine for Ronita will not be something that Sonakshi will be able to handle. She would not want another thing to add to her guilt.

2) Soha -- It is true that in the segment, Soha said she doesn't want to choose, that she wanted to live with both mommy and papa. But she also knows that Sonakshi and Dev are not ready to live together. That although they care for each other as parents, they are not like Bijoy and Asha who are happy with each other. She has also seen how Jotin has taken care of her mom, how Sonakshi is happy with him. Till now Sonakshi and Jotin's marriage talks has happened behind Soha, not in front of her. If Jotin says that he will not take Dev's place as her papa, but will marry Sonakshi to take care of her and will be Her(Soha's) Jotti as she calls him now always, Soha would want Sonakshi to marry Jotin. Especially since she will see Bijoy's happiness in it.

3) Dev -- Post leap when he talks about Sonakshi and their love, be it with Golu or Ishwari, he doesn't refer to it as a "mistake". He owns that he was not a good husband, calls himself nakaam pati. He also thinks Sonakshi was too good and he wasn't good enough and will never be one. He also knows that Ishwari will never accept Sonakshi and since Sonakshi herself doesn't love him there is no point in trying to convince his mom. Dev has come to believe that Sonakshi does not love him and he thinks only of Soha. If Sona marrying Jotin makes Soha happy, then he will also make peace with it and not do anything that he thinks might upset Soha.

3) Sonakshi-- she has been living with the guilt for the past 7years. She calls her falling in love with Dev as a "mistake" which given a chance would like to mend it. She thinks she should have listened to Bijoy and because she didn't, he was insulted(slap by Dev), her family was hurt, thrown to the streets and she is solely responsible for all that. In the segment Bijoy made it clear that he doesn't want Dev anywhere near Sonakshi or Soha. He will definitely remind her of the insults that he had to endure because of her trusting Dev. Of all the things they had to bear since then.

This will prompt Sonakshi to reconsider marrying Jotin and say yes as she will see this as the way to redeem herself for all the distress caused by her to her family. This is also important for her as she thinks she takes her own decisions and is not unduly influenced by Bijoy or anyone. Doing so she will be in the same place as Dev, where she is trying to secure happiness to others even if is momentarily. She has to understand Dev in order to begin the healing process.

Only when she accepts that her falling in love with Dev was natural and not a "mistake", that she did not do anything wrong in wanting that love, will she be able to trust Dev again as her spouse. Only then will Dev and Sonakshi come together.

Originally posted by: jigsaw1234

I am not sure I understand this.
We want Sona and Dev together but only in Dev's terms because he is afraid of rejection? He pushed her away. Like you say above, Sonakshi rejected him when they broke up - and breaking up was his choice wasn't it? She didn't open her mouth ever and say 'She made a mistake by loving him or marrying him'. She didn't say 'Get out of my life'.
We are repeatedly shown what she thinks of Dev as a father for her child. She doesn't doubt his love for their child.

Unless Dev can prove himself as a good lover/husband, I don't want Sona to live with him. I'd rather she give Soha away to the Dixits and walk away with dignity.

So why exactly do we think it is Sona who is wrong in all this? I can understand the need for sympathy to Dev but what is Sona's fault?