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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have always read people blasting Ishwari and Dev but no one blasting the Bose family. Yes Ishwari and Dev were wrong but no character is "dudh ka dhula" in this show. Bijoy was as irritating as Ishwari pre leap and more so post leap and sorry to burst the bubbles but Sona is also getting onto my nerves now. She is doing exactly what she blames Ishwari for. Controlling the life of her daughter, getting insecure and trung to keep her away from everyone. Even legally she can't keep Ishwari or Dev away from Suhana whether she is sleeping or doing whatever. Hope the track changes soon before I start hating her.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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FYI Soha is 6 year old and she's bound to get insecure she's her daughter and Dixits want only child without mother!
Where as Dev is in his 30's! And his mother has ruined his whole life!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

FYI Soha is 6 year old and she's bound to get insecure she's her daughter and Dixits want only child without mother!
Where as Dev is in his 30's! And his mother has ruined his whole life!!


Insecure to see her daughter bond with her father or meeting her grandmother? And whether the dixits want only the daughter or not is not the point. Legally Dev and Sona are divorced but Dixits have every right on Soha unless Sona gets her custody legally.

It is like saying If a couple divorces then the husband's family loses rights on the kid because they don;t want the mother. Why would they want her after the divorce?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Soha asked dev perfect question were the hell was dev when sona was raising her daughter alone .
Bijoy was hyper but always a great father who always protective towards sona and now soha .
Tm ur might find faults in sona because u r team dev and ishwari.
Were was this concern when dev and ishwari threw sona just like that were was this concern when dev taunted straight on sona face that she can't be a mother .
How so convenient to be biased on dev and ishwari.

Did sona stop soha to meet dev answer is no
Then why u are irrated by sona because she refused to send soha with the stranger dev just because ishwari wanted to meet soha he came as a thief and wanted to take soha without even asking .
U ppl amaze me dev does so much u can't count that but sona takes a stand u guys ready to blast her .

Don't forget dev left sona not her and now why she will send her daughter with her ex why??
After hearing dhamki from great psycho mataji ishwari that she will snatch soha from her which mother will send her daughter without assurance .

Oh come if sona was insecured like ishwari she would have eloped the day dev yelled at her hiding soha from him since 6 yrs .
Sona is strong lady unlike timvid dev who is spineless who doesn't warn his mom not to interfere and forgives her just like that .
We disagree to u tm

Sona is doing just like any mother would do ur fav dev and ishwari are kids who wants a toy and soha is not a toy and sona is mother and soha is delicate to handle this sticky situation so sona is on action



Dev in fact is irritating us he is un real after knowing that ishwari was the one who ruined those 7 yrs yet he is unaffected so normal as if nothing went wrong come on no one can ever dumb like that
Edited by rockstar.sj - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Soha asked dev perfect question were the hell was dev when sona was raising her daughter alone .
Bijoy was hyper but always a great father who always protective towards sona and now soha .
Tm ur might find faults in sona because u r team dev and ishwari.
Were was this concern when dev and ishwari threw sona just like that were was this concern when dev taunted straight on sona face that she can't be a mother .
How so convenient to be biased on dev and ishwari.

Did sona stop soha to meet dev answer is no
Then why u are irrated by sona because she refused to send soha with the stranger dev just because ishwari wanted to meet soha he came as a thief and wanted to take soha without even asking .
U ppl amaze me dev does so much u can't count that but sona takes a stand u guys ready to blast her .

Don't forget dev left sona not her and now why she will send her daughter with her ex why??
After hearing dhamki from great psycho mataji ishwari that she will snatch soha from her which mother will send her daughter without assurance .

Oh come if sona was insecured like ishwari she would have eloped the day dev yelled at her hiding soha from him since 6 yrs .
Sona is strong lady unlike timvid dev who is spineless who doesn't warn his mom not to interfere and forgives her just like that .
We disagree to u tm


Goes on to show your bias. Dev wasn't there because she never even cared to inform him that he has become a father. Was it so difficult to call him or even drop a text? And She wasn't thrown out- she left because she trusted Vicky's words more than her own husband. And no she couldn't have eloped after Dev got to know that Soha is his daughter because he has legal rights on her and can file a case in court barring Sona of going anywhere with Soha without informing him. Stop seeing the show from 1 point and see it from all angles.

As for this -"refused to send soha with the stranger dev just because ishwari wanted to meet soha" they are her father and grandmother and have every right on her. He could have taken her forcefully without even informing and Sona couldn't have done anything legally. Moreover Soha too wants to go to meet Ishwari and just wanted to inform her mother before going. On one hand Sona says she will do whatever Soha wants and on the other hand She does what she and Bijoy want. I wonder if the doctor in hospital told Sona that she can't take Soha home because she was a stranger to the kid. Ridiculous

Funny how anyone questioning 1 character is suddenly labelled as from the other team. I watch the show because I like it and not to form a team or support 1 character. And like I mentioned in my 1st post- No character in this show is Dudh ka Dhula and that is what I love. It is more realistic than the shows having an ideal son and an ideal daughter in law.
Edited by crazyaboutmanan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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people again forget soha is just a kid and Dev is a grown ass man. If Sona was insecured she would not have come back to let soha meet her dad. She even told her Dev was a good man. And u dont see why Sona is being insecure or whatever now. She is getting threats from both mother and son that they want to keep Soha with them. Dev is speaking like he doesnt want to coexist and wanting to prove that he is the better parent. From how Dev and Ishwari speak do u think they are happy sharing custody. Nope they want her to live with them and their plans dont hold any place for Sona and by this i dont mean they should get remarried or anything like that.. What can Sona do when Dev speaks so disrespectfully to her and dont want to discuss anything properly

Stop comparing ishwari and Sona and also Dev and Soha are not alike either.
Edited by Paytonlee - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Paytonlee

people again forget soha is just a kid and Dev is a grown ass man. If Sona was insecured she would not have come back to let soha meet her dad. She even told her Dev was a good man. And u dont see why Sona is being insecure or whatever now. She is getting threats from both mother and son that they want to keep Soha with them. Dev is speaking like he doesnt want to coexist and wanting to prove that he is the better parent. From how Dev and Ishwari speak do u think they are happy sharing custody. Nope they want her to live with them and their plans dont hold any place for Sona and by this i dont mean they should get remarried or anything like that.. What can Sona do when Dev speaks so disrespectfully to her and dont want to discuss anything properly


Stop comparing ishwari and Sona and also Dev and Soha are not alike either.


Thfreats? Not once have Ishwari or Dev told her that they want to keep Soha with them. They have only asked to meet her so far. I would love to see a custody case happen to solve this matter once and for all.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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So u mean it's only sona's duty to inform him & dev- ish only have huq? For u all responsibility goes to sona & all rights to dev? R v in 21 century? Soha a 6 years old ask right questions why you didn't call once? Answer is I am so busy in different hotels rooms and that's why I don't have time to call ur mom but it's her duty to inform me, and if she informed me then me & my mother definitely snack you because it's our rights 😳 seriously? Really? You amused me.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I actually think Sona is doing a wonderful job as a mother. She raised her daughter to think for herself, but is always there to support her. She doesn't dictate to her daughter, but helps her make her own decisions.
Also, just because Ishwari and Dev found out about Soha doesn't automatically mean they should be able to see her. Yes, legally they can (if we don't count the prenup...who knows what happened to that), but for a child's mental and emotional health, you can't just force this new relationship.

Sona has not kept Soha from talking or seeing Dev/Ishwari. In fact, she gave Soha Dev's phone number. Soha is the one that is calling the shots on how she wants to proceed with this relationship.

And Dev and Ishwari ARE threatening...not just threatening to take her way, but constantly bullying Sona.

As a mother who has raised her daughter for 6 years by herself, of course she would be worried about what all this means...especially when past experience with the Dixits shows what lengths they will go to get what they want...and through all of that, she has to keep Soha from all this negativeness.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: crazyaboutmanan

I have always read people blasting Ishwari and Dev but no one blasting the Bose family. Yes Ishwari and Dev were wrong but no character is "dudh ka dhula" in this show. Bijoy was as irritating as Ishwari pre leap and more so post leap and sorry to burst the bubbles but Sona is also getting onto my nerves now. She is doing exactly what she blames Ishwari for. Controlling the life of her daughter, getting insecure and trung to keep her away from everyone. Even legally she can't keep Ishwari or Dev away from Suhana whether she is sleeping or doing whatever. Hope the track changes soon before I start hating her.

Prepared for some backlash😆😆



Interesting POV. Did Sona blame Ishwari for getting insecure, controlling Dev and for trying to keep him from every one else? 😉

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