Soha - The Mini Dynamite!!! - Page 23

Originally posted by: tia.o

You know Shailu what hurts me most? This two lines.

Bros before hoes and women are women's worst enemy.

One rule men live by and one rule us women follow.

But who made these rules? Anytime we want, woman can support other women, build other women's confidence, defend their respect - in short show girllove instead of girl on girl hate.

But we don't. Us women are our problem, Shailu. We raise men and teach them to disrespect girls on the street, their girlfriend, their wives. We teach them that different rules apply for the women in their family and women from other family. We defend them even when we know they are wrong.

And we raise women and teach them to hate other women, see them as their competition instead of companion, and point fingers at them instead of supporting them.

We women are root cause of our own condition.

Originally posted by: Suvika.

Wanted to come online last night Tia. But I was too busy after watching the episode!!

Are there people like Dev Dixit and Ishwari Dixit in the real world?? You bet there are. Worse ones in fact. But for God's sake, this guy is supposed to be the male lead of the show. Just how long would the fans and viewers continue to justify / tolerate his attitude and behaviour?? In my OS / SS, I try to pull him out of the rut he has dug himself into and he comes out, digs another deeper hole and jumps into it with both feet in!! Forget low IQ...he is on the negative right now. He could have gone to Sonakshi and shouted at her first or go to Bose house, wanting to meet his daughter..there at least Bijoy or Sona herself would have drilled some sense before he could blurt out to a six year old so senselessly.

And I don't even want to talk about Ishwari!! I got this creepy feeling last night. The way she didn't even mention Sonakshi even once. Look...I totally agree and accept the fact that we tend to look for ourselves in our kids / grandkids...whatever. But the way she was going all hyper about the little girl, how much she would look like Dev or like her...you get the drift...don't you?? I don't want to even voice that thought. I will leave it by saying it was creepy for me.

And what did she and Dev think?? Suhana has been living on streets all these years that now he would just pick her up and bring her home??

Do the makers even have any plan to redeem his character, I wonder. Because he is on a speeding train, fast reaching the point of no return.

Originally posted by: bips

Hi tia... I love your posts. Every single time. Though i am pretty non active on the forum. So apologies thst the first time i am responding is to disagree.

But this is something which the whole men's movement have been recently peddling. When faced with assholes in their gender they now conveniently turn the blame on to the women themselves. That the moms raised their sons wrong. No one talks about how fathers contribute to wrong upbringing. So if a woman is being beaten up, its her fault that she tolerates it. Its her fault that her son sees this as ok and does the same. Not the Father's fault for doing the beating

No one talks about how women who are raised in patriarchy and are told their temporary worth is only their womb, how are they supposed to overcome decades of social and mental conditioning and raise enlightened sons? Are not the male members also equally responsible in raising sons

Its just that no matter what the situation it somehow comes back to us. That men turn out bad because we didn't raise them well. Its always our fault. Our shortcomings are our fault. The shortcomings of the men we know is also our fault.

Originally posted by: Push-pull

It's gotta be all about Suhana now.. But Dev-Ish again making it all about themselves... Just hope Sona brings them out of their illusion and make it all about Soha... She has to just ignore these two people's drama and stand by her daughter.. For her own and for her daughter sake...😊