Dear Devil - Page 8

Originally posted by: preethik

Hi suvika nice write up!

Won't comment on the segment till it airs.

Me neither Preethi. 😆

Sonakshi is one of the best female leads I have seen in a long time. Her character graph has remained the same with a few blips.

Sona had no need to inform dev about the baby considering the situation before, during & after the split. I don't blame her at all considering ishs tendencies towards vindictiveness & devs pandering to her demands!

On the other asking a 6yr old if she wants to meet her dad is unrealistic. Maybe her insecurities (natural for all mothers) are getting assuaged by the answers soha gives. The fact she is financially stable should give her confidence to disclose soha to dev.

Yes it is unrealistic and yes, the mother in her is assuaged by Soha's answers. Financial stability is enough when one is sure that the opponent will play a fair game. But our Dear Mr Dev Dixit is not into playing fair, is he?? And the one she knows loses all objectivity in the face of his mother's wishes / desires.

On the other the cvs have really hammered dev & ishs character graph. Ish has sunk so low how will they redeem her? Dev on the other has been butchered to such an extent that people have started feeling how sona will ever go back to him. They need to show some introspection on his part. I know it's killing us but by serial world timeline it's not been very long.

Exactly. And the redemption can't happen in an episode or two. That would look even more stupid, if you ask me.

Originally posted by: gmgi

The answer is coming now Suvi. He refused to meet them. No details yet. But she knows now that he is not aware. So 😲

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

For whatever reason, she has not gone and directly informed him. Maybe she doesn't see him changed in any way, except the obvious clothing. As for no danger of Dixits snatching her child... see...I think that is where she is not sure. She has seen Dev during the Ritwik phase and more importantly, she knows he loses his objectivity once his mother comes into the picture. The Dev she knows would break all laws just to please his mother. So yes, fear is still a factor.

But at the same time, she is not hiding away her daughter. She put her in school, drops her and picks her up. She has even met Dev in the school. If she had any intention of completely hiding Suhana away forever, she would have reconsidered her decision about the city and the school.

Originally posted by: gmgi

And he is bringing Soha to IN. Ishwari knows 😡

Originally posted by: ashlyn12

Beautiful write up! Very much agree with you. Sonakshi is a strong women. She has got the courage to stand up.and fight with the situation and come out victorious!

Originally posted by: Suvika.

I cant comment on Sonakshi visiting the Dixit home with baby Suhana till it is aired.

Now we can successfully conclude that Sonakshi did make an attempt to contact Dev after Suhana was born. She brought the baby along with her.

Anyway, that is not what I have been thinking ever since I watched that small scene. I am thinking of a woman - heart-broken, her love trampled on, her trust shattered, knowing that her love had resulted in her family being out on the streets, believing that she can never conceive and then finding herself pregnant. She doesn't come back to her husband while she was pregnant. Why?

1. Because he threw her out of his life?

2. Because he accused her of marrying him for money?

3. He and his mother insulted her and her family?

4. He said that she would make a bad mother?

My question here would be that - if all the above points were true and her interpretation of the same w/out understanding the situations or the circumstances was right, then why come back at all? During pregnancy or after it?

None of the above. She didn't come back during her pregnancy because she knew the risks associated with her pregnancy. Because she knew that she had NO VALUE of her own in that house if she couldn't give Dev a child. Couldn't give Ishwari a grandchild. Both Dev and Ishwari proved that, didn't they? They made it so clear that they might as well have tattooed it on her.

Really? And when did this happen? Post Simla, Dev made it very clear that he loves her irrespective. Didn't she trust him? If she didn't and walked out, then why try and come back to Delhi and into his life?

What if she went there pregnant and she wasn't able to carry the child full term? So she waited. She went through, what must have been, a painful and stressful pregnancy without making any attempt to contact Dev.

C'mon Dev and Ishwari have never had any murderous tendencies. If now the Creatives show that, we can conclude, else there is no need to presume that.

And once the baby was born, she brought that Tiny Miny Khargosh to the baby's father. Knowing that even if she did go there, she would have no value other than the baby's mother. Ghar ki tulsi, tulsi hi rahegi. Ghar ka hissa nahi. Yet she went. Why? Because she knew Dev. Knew how he felt about growing up without a father. Knew that he deserved to know that he is a father. That her baby should know her father.

Now, you are contradicting yourself, Suvika. In your previous para, you are stressing the fact that she was scared of Dev -Ishwari and probably because of them. she may not have been able to carry the child full term. Now, after pregnancy, she is supposedly being portrayed as a strong woman, who is financially well off, so finds the courage to again come face to face with Dev. 😃 My question is did Sonakshi start feeling guilty of separating the father -daughter duo? Did she regret her impatience and hastiness to run out of the Dixit house w/out giving Dev the benefit of doubt?

We talked about ego. How she was so egoistic that she didn't deem it fit to even inform Dev about his child. Now we know that her ego didn't feature in her decision.

No, there was no ego here, it was foolishness of not being able to gauge a situation correctly. That's my take - from the beginning. Completely foolish.

We don't know what made her change her mind. But it had to be something strong. Something that made her fear that if she went in, she either wouldn't be welcomed or worse, her baby would be welcomed but she herself wouldn't be.

Lets wait for the scene to air.

If this is not courage, if this is not strength, then I don't know what is!

Its neither courage not strength. She is trying to correct her mistake or probably giving Dev one more chance. She is definitely not smart, unless the Creatives change the script again. 😃

@suvi great post...indeed sonakshi is a strong woman... you need immense courage to withstand all temptations and stay single and live up to the huge expectations of your family... she has succeeded to a great extent also...till today one of my favorite scene is sona gifting her parents their old house..it's such a proud moment for the parents...blessed are those parents and kids who could have such happiness... what I liked more about her is she has acknowledged her faults and agree that she has done some mistakes...I agree with you on everything...except the below extracted from your post ...Ishwari is nonexistent for me but Dev no way..he doesn't had such intention even in his weirdest dream ..because what Dev said on the day of their separation was out of angst...it was more like if you could believe that I have signed the pre-nup then be my guest and he made all allegations just to make her realise how much he is hurt...I would say more than Sonakhi or Dev, sourabh has attributed to bringing the family on streets ( so it's not sonakshi, her love or Dev)...he was the one who suggested to sonakshi to keep their business venture a secret from Dixit clan, if he has done so, he should n't have either accepted the money or informed his sister about Dev's investment in the business...he failed in both and has inadvertently paved the way for the mishaps in the family...Sonakshi is very strong but she is also weak just like Dev when it comes to her family...the only difference is she prudently handles the situation which is due to her conditioning by Asha...Sonakshi's strength is her support system...not all are blessed with a supporting family ...look at Dev he has fought all odds to reach at this position but his family has doomed him...if Dev also had a sensible mother like Asha, he would also be strong and successful like Sonakshi

Originally posted by: gudima

I now really want that sona should move on with jatin because she deserves happiness which Dev can never give to her

As he don't love her enough

I don't want devakshi ya they can unite as father and mother but was they ever a lover

Let me share my story I am silent member MD only come to read post but I think this is first forum in which I have seen so much people agree with right thing like Tia my favourite

My view is simple because let me tell you all my secret I always wanted a husband who would love me not me as a mother of his child

I was having arrange marriage and I wanted to develop it into a strong not love but understanding and friendship marriage in which I should matter to him not his child mother

So after my marriage I developed nice relationship with him and I thought that for him I am enough and then I gone for relationship with him and as everyone expected child when I got to know I was pregnant I wanted to test that if I am really enough for my in laws if I not have a child and so suddenly I disclose that due to some misshappening I cant get pregnant and then immediately they stated to think of second marriage even my husband told !E that we would go for surrogacy if it's not get successful then it's waste to have in such relationship and then immediately I took my discion without telling him that I am pregnant to get divorce and as he not paid any attention to what he was signing on the name of divorce as he knew that I am not demanding any alimony and he signed all paper without even reading it carefully in which I have attached a child clause which he was unaware of that he should not have any relation with his child after separation and never demand for custody and I went my own way and never informed him about my child and given birth to twins and grew them very independent ly and never made them deprive of anything although I was all alone all the time but I have given my children everything even made them Frank and independent .

Now even recently on Facebook I got to know that my husband got married immediately after breakup and was having two child of 5 years and 3 years and my both children are of 6 years and trust me they are really happy it's not like they want to meet their father or something like that and they are very good in everything

Sorry it's my life story I know it's not easy for everyone as I was independent and my ex-husband was not a stalker he simply never ever bothered about me

If he would have wanted to know about me he could have known as I am a working woman and anyone can gather information or he can know it by my mother and father family village anything but he never bothered

And I don't wanted to have in a relationship with a person who only wanted me to be his child mother I wanted a life partner and I am really very happy in my life and he is happy in his own

I don't think he would anytime feel bad or tell me anything that he has missed his children childhood or my children would complain that I have made them deprived of their father love

In real life there is no school where they start to ask about your father or no friend whose father or parent so much attention

As my both children is in school and there also I give my time to them but their friend parent are busy so my son and daughter always say that mumma you know the was saying your mother is so nice she always come to pick you

I am business women not a big one but simple job of teacher in my children school but at senior level and have my own house which I get some rent and that's enough and this is my private story which I am sharing with you all

I know I would be wrong somewhere but I never let wrong happen with my children and everyone is happy if I would have stayed in that relationship then it would have worked as I became mother but I would never have been happy and if I would not have been happy how my children would be

And believe me I have experienced in real so I can surely say that in real life there is no soul connection or a children want a father like that if they have capable mother who can provide them anything

And I have three children two twins who were born out of me and one daughter I have adopted at the age of 6 when I left everything and the three are content and happy

I live in Bhopal and have my own house and I am simply a maths teacher of private school of 12th standard