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Thank you for appreciating my efforts
But I would request that I have not written all this so that you all should do what I have done
I have only written this to give you a picture of a single girl can do anything if she want anything and everything there is no need of men in our life
And similar is the case with single father's like Tia said
And many are telling I read some other post where many are telling the definition of strong women according to their experience
I respect everyone and everyone are strong in their own life particularly women in their own way
Like my mother compromised according to situation and we both are children are happy and content as she has no other choice or you can say it was her choice she even left her graduate study because at that time I was going to born
But I have seen my mother today my both parent are happy but really my mother is content from her life like she has no dreams of her own let me answer whenever she see some working woman or her classmate she get sad that she was not able to study and they are here and there and even in whole life she has to obey my father everyone when she make mistake she got silent and when my father even when anything go wrong with him he take out all his frustration on my mother in anger
So my mother is strong ya she is strong but if she was really happy or if I will ask her in the second birth you will want this life like no study she will say I would like to study she is happy but not content
Sometime we have to fight for our right to achieve something like I got higher education but it was I who wanted it because the family in which I was wrong no girl was educated because they left their dream for their brother but I never gave up and my father was not like my sister father he himself educated me but let me tell my not a single sister is educated and my all brothers are educated and are in higher position
But was it right that time if I would have not have fought for my right and given my dreams like my sister for my family happiness.was this a sign of being strong I don't feel so it's foolish act in my point of view
When I was married and with my in laws my dream was always to teach but I opted to become PO of SBI and what my life schedule that time let me tell you waking up early morning preparing breakfast and then go for job after coming from job my mother in law used to cook food and then in prepare dinner and chit chat with family member and go to sleep on holidays I used to visit temple as I like visiting there and same routine goes on on and on
But now I am totally happy in my life as now I am able to do what I prefer to do like I wake up early morning prepare breakfast lunch both and then freshen up and make my children also ready and I drive to school and then return with them only and warm the food cooked in morning and we eat together and then I do some of my school work and my children their homework and by evening they go to play and I chit chat with my renter or neighbours and in night I simply like to cook new food item so I cook what I like and have dinner with them they go to sleep and I study something related to maths as I love reading and knowing more about it I am even now planning to do PhD as I love maths and in holidays I go with my children outside in orphanage temple or some nice place and we enjoy
My parent are also very sorted they spend 10 days with me 10 days with my brother and rest they enjoy for themselves and they are also independent as my father is getting retirement
So my life I think till now is very sorted and what I want I always get it by whatever means
I am sorry I can't compromise with my principle ideal and my aim but from that I will ensure that the other person also not get affected like my ex husband is happy my children I and everyone is happy I planned everything so that my children never gave anything due to my separation as I have told I have added clause in my divorce paper itself that no-one would snatch or so right on them till they are 18 I don't think I done wrong it was his duty to read that clause ya he would have read but not paid attention that was not my fault and I am not even hiding my children everyone know about them but he never bothered to know about me
I WOULD HAVE NEVER TOOK THIS DESCISION IF MY HUSBAND HAS SUPPORTED ME OR AT LEAST HE WOULD HAVE TOLD THAT WE WILL GO THROUGH HEALTHY WAY TO GET BABY LIKE SURROGACY OR ANYTHING BUT IF IT WOUKD NOT GET SUCCESSFUL THEN I WILL ADOPT BABY BUT HE DIRECTLY TOLD THERE IS NO USE OF RELATIONSHIP WITH NO BABY
Anyway I want only to say thatI AM NOT A STRONG WOMAN BUT A SELFISH WOMAN WHO WOULD GO TO ANY EXTENT FOR HER HAPPINESS AND CONTENTMENT BUT WILL ENSURE NOBODY GET HARMED IN THIS PROCESS AND THEY WOULD GET MAXIMUM BENEFIT
Sorry for long post but I was surprised that some person think that getting out of relationship is a sign of weak personality and compromising your happiness for other is a work of woman seriously this is only the reason that men always want women to compromise
I like helping others and mainly I love children in my class even everyone love me and come to take suggestions what to do as I give very biased version of their career choice and they love to talk to me in school I get two leisure period but I like to go in classes where teacher are not present and advice them what they should study even principal of my school tell me to advice student to participate in extra curricular activities and they really understand
Anyway I respect everyone and I think everyone is strong in this world untill and unless he or she is happy with teh choice they make and their choice should be for their happiness not for whole world
I think we get to live only one time then why waste my life to fulfill withers dream and sacrifice mine I believe in living to the fullest and enjoying it to the extent which you want
Indias Got Talent 11
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