Dear Devil - Page 6

Originally posted by: JShukla

Suvika- She is indeed woman goal. the kind I would look upto.

Originally posted by: gudima

I now really want that sona should move on with jatin because she deserves happiness which Dev can never give to her

As he don't love her enough

I don't want devakshi ya they can unite as father and mother but was they ever a lover

Let me share my story I am silent member MD only come to read post but I think this is first forum in which I have seen so much people agree with right thing like Tia my favourite

My view is simple because let me tell you all my secret I always wanted a husband who would love me not me as a mother of his child

I was having arrange marriage and I wanted to develop it into a strong not love but understanding and friendship marriage in which I should matter to him not his child mother

So after my marriage I developed nice relationship with him and I thought that for him I am enough and then I gone for relationship with him and as everyone expected child when I got to know I was pregnant I wanted to test that if I am really enough for my in laws if I not have a child and so suddenly I disclose that due to some misshappening I cant get pregnant and then immediately they stated to think of second marriage even my husband told !E that we would go for surrogacy if it's not get successful then it's waste to have in such relationship and then immediately I took my discion without telling him that I am pregnant to get divorce and as he not paid any attention to what he was signing on the name of divorce as he knew that I am not demanding any alimony and he signed all paper without even reading it carefully in which I have attached a child clause which he was unaware of that he should not have any relation with his child after separation and never demand for custody and I went my own way and never informed him about my child and given birth to twins and grew them very independent ly and never made them deprive of anything although I was all alone all the time but I have given my children everything even made them Frank and independent .

Now even recently on Facebook I got to know that my husband got married immediately after breakup and was having two child of 5 years and 3 years and my both children are of 6 years and trust me they are really happy it's not like they want to meet their father or something like that and they are very good in everything

Sorry it's my life story I know it's not easy for everyone as I was independent and my ex-husband was not a stalker he simply never ever bothered about me

If he would have wanted to know about me he could have known as I am a working woman and anyone can gather information or he can know it by my mother and father family village anything but he never bothered

And I don't wanted to have in a relationship with a person who only wanted me to be his child mother I wanted a life partner and I am really very happy in my life and he is happy in his own

I don't think he would anytime feel bad or tell me anything that he has missed his children childhood or my children would complain that I have made them deprived of their father love

In real life there is no school where they start to ask about your father or no friend whose father or parent so much attention

As my both children is in school and there also I give my time to them but their friend parent are busy so my son and daughter always say that mumma you know the was saying your mother is so nice she always come to pick you

I am business women not a big one but simple job of teacher in my children school but at senior level and have my own house which I get some rent and that's enough and this is my private story which I am sharing with you all

I know I would be wrong somewhere but I never let wrong happen with my children and everyone is happy if I would have stayed in that relationship then it would have worked as I became mother but I would never have been happy and if I would not have been happy how my children would be

And believe me I have experienced in real so I can surely say that in real life there is no soul connection or a children want a father like that if they have capable mother who can provide them anything

And I have three children two twins who were born out of me and one daughter I have adopted at the age of 6 when I left everything and the three are content and happy

I live in Bhopal and have my own house and I am simply a maths teacher of private school of 12th standard

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

So inspiring...loved it ... 👏

Thank you for writing such a lovely post. I know its about Sonakshi...but we women also have loads to learn from this post. 👏

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Your whole post again reminded me what kind of treatment she went through in that mad DIXIT house.😭This is what I was asking from Cv's give us sona's POV.Sona has lots of reason for not sharing this news.just one pic of holding her baby standing in front of Dixits house prove what kind of strength sonakashi has.Really proud of you sona.also i want to know whether there will be any kind of introspection of dev and ishwari about how they treated her ,what kind of failure they were as Husband and mother in law.Right now all I am seeing is Both ma and Beta blaming Sona again and again😕😕 ya misunderstanding and saying sorry se kam chalana padega 😕😕also Soha jab badi hogi when she came to know how her father had treated her mother,toh Kya "superhero" ka tag tab bhi rahega.😕

Originally posted by: dreamy.tiara

Amazing post... I like the flow of your ideas . And I wish we get to watch something like this...👍🏼👏

Though I would not like to jump into conclusions only with spoilers😆

We predicted so many things about Dev carrying Sona... nikla Earthquake 😲😆😆 (woh bhi real mein😉)

Originally posted by: deepsel

God what a post Suvi 👏 It got me teary eyed!

I am Sona in real life who believes in second chances before giving up with the only difference being I was successful in taming the Obhodro's of my life and similarly getting tamed where it needed for a successful marriage! The mere image of Sona standing out of Ishwari Nivas proved she has indeed kept my belief true about her - Strong, daring, caring and doing right when it needed !!

I can easily guess she had to go from there by some misunderstanding but this mere 20 sec seg is enough to wipe out all the questions raised on her stone heart for keeping their lovechild away!! Thank God for that.

Yes Deepa. Frankly, I wouldn't have blamed her even if she had not made that attempt. But she did. That takes guts. To know what is right for the person who hurt her that badly and stand by that - even if it meant that it might not be the right thing for HER.

Also am sure we will be getting some similar FBs on why Dev couldn't keep track about Boses in 7 years because I still strongly believe he is not so ruthless to leave a family on streets like that ..that too which belongs to one whom he dearly loved ! Till then am sure of Dev's autopsy😆

I am going to be one of the doctors who conducts that autopsy. 😆

@Gudima : More power to you my lady 👏 I admire your strength to not just choose your life but your strength to accept your faults too which is where most woman/ man falter!! I wish you all the luck for your future achievements too 😊

Originally posted by: gudima

Exactly

I am also telling it's not necessary that everyone should do what I have done but at least those person who are not given respect should leave such relationship because whole life hit will be gone by thinking only that now everything will be ok but the men who are not able to respect and love women as what they are then they can never love you

And there is very fast world open for you if you will open your eyes

My case was different as I was not having any such problem if I have told him that time I am pregnant then everything would have got normally but I opted difficult path and was having my choice

But I have written my story to only tell that women are very worthy and can do anything with ease

Originally posted by: gudima

I adopted because I always use to hear own child and born child so I adopted as I have enough finance to provide them a good and healthy life

And I got the answer there is no difference between own child and adopted one as my both daughter are same I don't know about younger one as she is too young but elder daughter is so much caring and loving like now after even getting everything like she got mother and family but she never forgotten her orphanage where she grew up 7 years

I always used to take her thee every Saturday or Sunday to make her meet her friend and old warden over there who took care of her

She is also just like me not like to forget her root whatever she become in her life she never forget her loved one's

Simple answer she got a mother and I got a daughter and I have enough finance to take care of her and I am not those kind of person who would like to save money and property for children as what I done in my life it was my own when I got independent like building a house to live or doing job or anything

So I believe my children should also become independent when they grow not depend on my money ya I will help them but will not make them dependent on my property

In future also I would like to adopt more child to give them better environment but not right now

First I all three should get independent

And I am not even those type who would like to be dependent on my children and expect anything from then in return

Anyway we can't predict future but always should have some plans or thought on it so that life never disappointyou

As till now I am not disappointed and happy and content in my life

Originally posted by: gudima

Thanks

But you know what this DESCISION was not taken by me randomly

But I got this front view the day my one of favourite closest and most lovable cousin commited sucide because she can't become mother and her in laws taunted her and her husband done second marriage not only that her family also not supported her and after her death her parent never tried to put for case or go to court for her justice because they simply said what's the use to case as she has no children or no-one

And I really cried alot for her as I was very close to her

So I know that somewhere my past affected my children but I wanted to make sure my children should not go through what my sister has gone through

Even now when I am writing this I am crying and my fingers are trembling

So you can guess yaar how hard it was for me to know about my sister and her death

And this is real not story for all of you it's story but for me it's resl