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Posted: 8 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: gaushiv13
gudima
I loved loved loved you
Everyone need to take inspiration from you
I also am not able to understand these type of rules like why men always need own child if their wife can't get pregnant why can't they adopted child as no child carry a DNA report with them always so what's the difference between adopted and own child as it would make difference to us only as we carry a child not the men
Then why when men can't become father we women agree easily to get adopted and have family and never questions that I want to experience motherhood by carrying a child
So it is us only who has diminished ourselves
It is we only who don't consider ourselves worth enough if we can't become mother
ANYWAY I WANT TO ASK ONE QUESTION AS YOU HAVE WRITTEN You HAVE TWO TWINS ONE SON AND ONE DAUGHTER AS WHAT I CAN GET TGROUGH IT THEN WHY YOU ADOPTED A DAUGHTER

I adopted because I always use to hear own child and born child so I adopted as I have enough finance to provide them a good and healthy life

And I got the answer there is no difference between own child and adopted one as my both daughter are same I don't know about younger one as she is too young but elder daughter is so much caring and loving like now after even getting everything like she got mother and family but she never forgotten her orphanage where she grew up 7 years

I always used to take her thee every Saturday or Sunday to make her meet her friend and old warden over there who took care of her

She is also just like me not like to forget her root whatever she become in her life she never forget her loved one's

Simple answer she got a mother and I got a daughter and I have enough finance to take care of her and I am not those kind of person who would like to save money and property for children as what I done in my life it was my own when I got independent like building a house to live or doing job or anything

So I believe my children should also become independent when they grow not depend on my money ya I will help them but will not make them dependent on my property

In future also I would like to adopt more child to give them better environment but not right now

First I all three should get independent

And I am not even those type who would like to be dependent on my children and expect anything from then in return

Anyway we can't predict future but always should have some plans or thought on it so that life never disappointyou

As till now I am not disappointed and happy and content in my life

Edited by gudima - 8 years ago

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gudima

@gudima

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Posted: 8 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: deepsel
God what a post Suvi 👏 It got me teary eyed!

I am Sona in real life who believes in second chances before giving up with the only difference being I was successful in taming the Obhodro's of my life and similarly getting tamed where it needed for a successful marriage! The mere image of Sona standing out of Ishwari Nivas proved she has indeed kept my belief true about her - Strong, daring, caring and doing right when it needed !!
I can easily guess she had to go from there by some understanding but this mere 20 sec seg is enough to wipe out all the questions raised on her stone heart for keeping their lovechild away!! Thank God for that.

Also am sure we will be getting some similar FBs on why Dev couldn't keep track about Boses in 7 years because I still strongly believe he is not so ruthless to leave a family on streets like that ..that too which belongs to one whom he dearly loved ! Till then am sure of Dev's autopsy😆

@Gudima : More power to you my lady 👏 I admire your strength to not just choose your life but your strength to accept your faults too which is where most woman/ man falter!! I wish you all the luck for your future achievements too 😊

Thanks

But you know what this DESCISION was not taken by me randomly

But I got this front view the day my one of favourite closest and most lovable cousin commited sucide because she can't become mother and her in laws taunted her and her husband done second marriage not only that her family also not supported her and after her death her parent never tried to put for case or go to court for her justice because they simply said what's the use to case as she has no children or no-one

And I really cried alot for her as I was very close to her

So I know that somewhere my past affected my children but I wanted to make sure my children should not go through what my sister has gone through

Even now when I am writing this I am crying and my fingers are trembling

So you can guess yaar how hard it was for me to know about my sister and her death

And this is real not story for all of you it's story but for me it's resl

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Posted: 8 years ago

#33

Very nice post, left me teary eyed. Ishwari and Dev are very good at playing victim game. Ishwari suffocated Dev in the name of love and Dev in turn along with Ishwari did the same to Sonakshi. To me Dev and Ishwari are solely responsible for what ever happened. They both tested her patience and goodness to the limits and they deserve what they are going through right now. I know its fiction so Dev and Sonakshi will get back together but in real life mom and son duo does not deserve Sonakshi and estranged parents still make very good parents.

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Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

#34

Thank you Gudima. I am glad you liked my post. As I keep mentioning, is a father great to have? Yes. Is he a must have? No. Same with mother. Is she great to have? Yes. Is she must have? No. There are lots of single mothers and single fathers raising happy and perfectly well-balanced children. There are also adoptive parents raising happy and healthy adults. More than parents, a child needs a loving, nurturing and positive environment. Even with two parents, if a child constantly sees his/her mother insulted or ridiculed either by the father or the family, what lesson do they learn.

Gudima, you took a bold step to walk out of an unhealthy relationship and raising two children. It's not an easy task. I know. My mother did the same. I am also a child of a single mother. Kudos to you and all strong women out there. Whatever choice they make in life, may every woman get a choice without moral policing or judgement. 👏

Originally posted by: gudima
Thanks I have not much time to read all this and post something and as today was Sunday a nd I was going through these post and I really felt sorry for those member who think that I child or especially a girl child need a father love who wanted or loved her mother or support her mother because she produced baby I also have two girl child one adopted and one mine and being a woman I would always my daughter's should also have view like me
And it's really time for us type educated and independent woman to show the worth that we can do anything without their help so they can start giving us respect and value
I have never faced any difficulty like I was papa princess and was treated by my husband and in laws as a queen means I always got love from everybody but after watching the life of my mother or my sister or many other woman on that day only I have decided if I will get a partner who will love me truly as me then only I will be with him
u t this is the first forum where I have seen members with so much strong view and my favourite as m I mentioned Tia
Anyway I am not saying everyone should do this but being in sonakshi place type of person should do this
I know I have done somewhere wrong because I have no problem like sona in real life
And I will never bad-mouth my in laws as they really treated me nicely or my husband even given me space but my principle was different like they wanted a single boy child at any cost which I hated being a woman

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago

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Zeddriz7

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Posted: 8 years ago

#35

This post made my day. I have seen more posts of Dev's conditions and his pain and few of Sonakshi's side.. I am glad that I got to read this one.. It was never easy for her right from the time she got separated.. Remember, she didn't have a roof over her head and she had to look for her family.. Then, she had to take care of her child and at the same time, she had to become financially strong as she had to pay those loans and most importantly make her parents proud and give a good future to her daughter..

For the first time in show, we'll probably get to see Sonakshi side before the leap as per segments..

I may not have much experience in life since I'm a 20 year old boy.. But reading the different experiences in this post definitely is a huge inspiration for anyone.

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_Payalj_

@_Payalj_

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Posted: 8 years ago

#36

Sona's decision of not informing Dev about the child had never anything to do with ego. It was fear of losing her child to the Dixits madness and to a father who could not take a stand against it. Even retrospectively it is and will always remain a right decision.

The fear is operating even today but now it has become more of what if my decision turned out to be wrong.

What I feel is that in the current scenario when Sonakshi is financially capable and settled she should inform Dev about Suhana. There is absolutely no danger of Dixits being able to snatch her child and the only thing she is doing is giving Dev the sympathy vote if the case goes in court.

Also Suhana can be no one to decide whether Dev wants to meet his daughter or not.

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Suvika.

@Suvika.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Devakshilover
awesome write-up

next week is going to be damn interesting

thank you.

Yes 😃

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Suvika.

@Suvika.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: dlavanya
Beautiful post suvika.. inam proud of sonakshi bose.she can never commit a mistake knowingly. If she does err .. she is not afraid to take the responsibility for it... thats our girl . 👏

And I am super glad that even after 250 episodes, they have kept her character consistent, Lavanya. ⭐️

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Suvika.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish
waiting for tomorrow to air.. lets see.. whats her past. What makers want us to show. May be makers heard/saw audience accusing sona for keeping child away from father. 😆
But I would have loved if she had stayed back. Why she should try and give them chance after pre-nup??

In reality, it makes more sense for her to stay away from the Dixits. All of them. But this is a show and we want a happy ending for DevAkshi. So they have to meet and greet again.😆 Just hope that at least after this, Dev will learn to stand up for what is right.

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Suvika.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: tia.o
Suvika, I have immense respect for strong women. And Sonakshi is a strong woman. So strong that in spite of receiving the most devastating news of her life when her husband didn't stand beside her because he was busy catering to his mother's tantrums, she didn't break.

How many people we know who could stand up after being broken so many times? What courage it takes to have that kind of strength?

She turned her and her family's life around. Soha was not the reason for her strength, she always had the core strength.

She survived two heartbreaks by the same man for the same reason. Yet she is content with her life, happy in her own way because she found her own happiness. She is not wasting her time blaming people. She is living her life. If that isn't a triumph of her, I don't know what is.

I won't have blamed her if she never contacted Dev or his family. After all they washed off their hands when they were sure that she can't be a mother.

But the fact that, as you said, she gathered her courage once again and made another attempt, makes her a so much better as a person than that family or Dev could ever deserve.

I wouldn't have blamed her either Tia. If it were a real life I would advice her to stay away from that toxic family and more importantly, keep her child away from them all. But it's a DevAkshi love story so we keep trying to find reasons for both of them to get back together again. But I swear Tia, if they don't show proper redemption of Dev Dixit, I am going to write another OS where Sonakshi is going to take her daughter and walk away from him once and for all, my cravings for happy endings be damned! That WOULD be a happy ending for me!!

Sonakshi is not letting her past rule her. But she is not forgetting what it has taught her. It takes something to be that way.

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