I now really want that sona should move on with jatin because she deserves happiness which Dev can never give to her
As he don't love her enough
I don't want devakshi ya they can unite as father and mother but was they ever a lover
Let me share my story I am silent member MD only come to read post but I think this is first forum in which I have seen so much people agree with right thing like Tia my favourite
My view is simple because let me tell you all my secret I always wanted a husband who would love me not me as a mother of his child
I was having arrange marriage and I wanted to develop it into a strong not love but understanding and friendship marriage in which I should matter to him not his child mother
So after my marriage I developed nice relationship with him and I thought that for him I am enough and then I gone for relationship with him and as everyone expected child when I got to know I was pregnant I wanted to test that if I am really enough for my in laws if I not have a child and so suddenly I disclose that due to some misshappening I cant get pregnant and then immediately they stated to think of second marriage even my husband told !E that we would go for surrogacy if it's not get successful then it's waste to have in such relationship and then immediately I took my discion without telling him that I am pregnant to get divorce and as he not paid any attention to what he was signing on the name of divorce as he knew that I am not demanding any alimony and he signed all paper without even reading it carefully in which I have attached a child clause which he was unaware of that he should not have any relation with his child after separation and never demand for custody and I went my own way and never informed him about my child and given birth to twins and grew them very independent ly and never made them deprive of anything although I was all alone all the time but I have given my children everything even made them Frank and independent .
Now even recently on Facebook I got to know that my husband got married immediately after breakup and was having two child of 5 years and 3 years and my both children are of 6 years and trust me they are really happy it's not like they want to meet their father or something like that and they are very good in everything
Sorry it's my life story I know it's not easy for everyone as I was independent and my ex-husband was not a stalker he simply never ever bothered about me
If he would have wanted to know about me he could have known as I am a working woman and anyone can gather information or he can know it by my mother and father family village anything but he never bothered
And I don't wanted to have in a relationship with a person who only wanted me to be his child mother I wanted a life partner and I am really very happy in my life and he is happy in his own
I don't think he would anytime feel bad or tell me anything that he has missed his children childhood or my children would complain that I have made them deprived of their father love
In real life there is no school where they start to ask about your father or no friend whose father or parent so much attention
As my both children is in school and there also I give my time to them but their friend parent are busy so my son and daughter always say that mumma you know the was saying your mother is so nice she always come to pick you
I am business women not a big one but simple job of teacher in my children school but at senior level and have my own house which I get some rent and that's enough and this is my private story which I am sharing with you all
I know I would be wrong somewhere but I never let wrong happen with my children and everyone is happy if I would have stayed in that relationship then it would have worked as I became mother but I would never have been happy and if I would not have been happy how my children would be
And believe me I have experienced in real so I can surely say that in real life there is no soul connection or a children want a father like that if they have capable mother who can provide them anything
And I have three children two twins who were born out of me and one daughter I have adopted at the age of 6 when I left everything and the three are content and happy
I live in Bhopal and have my own house and I am simply a maths teacher of private school of 12th standard