Too Complicated For Simple Minds! - Page 3

Originally posted by: deepsel

<font size="2" color="#ff0000">On a lighter note, I guess the problem with the poor viewers is to keep up with the timelines and hence the uproar..earlier Sona was judged for being so meek and submissive on her early days of marriage when it was just 4 days in serial world while we were watching that for weeks. Now its 7 years in serial world but we are still stuck on that fatal night and its only weeks for us to accept the changes and hence judging every character for daring to move on.</font>

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<font size="2" color="#ff0000">This show is really challenging the sanity of audiences😆</font>

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Originally posted by: mayu1982

Dear @ TM :

Proudly disagree with you .

Dev Dixit and Sonakshi Bose - for me is realistic characters. Characters with faults. and l loved those characters.

I repeat I love both characters. I don't belong to any camp like you all guys- Team Sona or Team Dev.

I like Kuch rang pyar ke aise bhi because characters are like me. I am not prefect person. I am person with a lots of faults. May be you guys are so prefect almost like God or goddess. But I am human😕 and so i liked human characters 😳

Saying the above line I would also like to clarify that neither I am person who will look for my life inside characters as well. These serial and characters are made for enjoyments. I watch, enjoy and I forget is my principle.

Points you have mentioned is so shocking 😲 for me that I don't want to give any explanation considering you and me are standing at opposite ends.

Failure of marriage of Devakshi - Both Dev and sonakshi are responsible. ALso Ishwari and Bose papa are equally responsible for creating the mess in their life. Ishwari never accepted Sonakshi as her bahu and Bose never accepted Dev as son in law.

How their life changed after breakup? What happens after their divorce? How destiny plays its role ?Their journey is still incomplete.

One thing is very much clear after reading your post - You don't like this serial and as per your analysis nothing is left in the serial and it should end.

But for me

Famous SRK LINE - is baat ka bhi yakeen ho gaya, ki humari filmon ki tarah humari zindagi mein bhi end mein sab theek ho jaata hai.
Happys Endings. Aur agar, aur agar theek na ho to woh the end nahin hai dosto, picture abhi baaki hai.

So am positive person unlike feminist groups and wants to see positive end of this serial. For me picture abhi baaki hai.

Also like to mention- Only forumwaais is criticising this leap. I can give you 10000000000000000000000 shots of twitter where people are requesting everyone not to go to forum . Forum is full of negative people and their so called intelligent analysis of pov post.

Now am proudly agreeing with twitterwaais .Indeed forum is full of negative post( except- Sam analysis and Jyoti, Soni, Survi, Fero, Monal, Abi, Mishti, Krystle, few more.)

P.S No intention to disrepect anyone's feeling .😊 I am too stress out reading over negative post. Enough of it for my little tiny miny brain cells😳

Originally posted by: Zeddriz7

You have made very valid points Sir.

To be honest, some of the post leap episodes were well written and were loved by audience including me.. But even after this, I still somewhere feel that this show did not require leap at all.. Of course, we all have accepted the leap, but I feel the story would have been brilliant had they continued with the separation and not leap..

As for Dev, there's one improvement in him that we all like.. That he no longer falls for his mother's emotional blackmail.. He has become a different person.. That's a good point... But still, even after this improvement, I don't see a reason why Dev and Sona should reunite again..

As you said, there would be no difference between this and Neha's case.. I am still in doubt whether they will show any proper redemption and realization of Dev's love or just do it in a flash..😕

Originally posted by: randommusings

I think CVs have done a pretty good job in creating rival camps Team Dev n Team Sona. N they are doing everything possible to hate one character in order to defend the other. It has become very difficult to become neutral these days with so much negativity in the show and in social media

You feel show has become one sided in favour of Sona but let me show you how the other side feels -

1. Sona has become arrongant and rude post leap. Her anger n mean words towards Dev has also been termed bitchy

2. She never really loved Dev n never understood his POV whereas Dev's love was selfless n unconditional

3. She complained abt being outsider in Dev's house but never confided anything abt Bose fam to Dev

4. Dev was so worried in S1 Sona's accident scene but Sona didn't even shed one tear for Dev post goons attack.She is that cold and indifferent now

5. Sona was the sole reason of separation. She left Dev even when he chose Sona over his family

6. Returning that 5cr was not bcoz of family's self respect but bcoz of her ego. She was wrong in returning that money

7. Dev was right to tell her Get out bcoz she held his collar infront of his family

8. She accused him of everything going wrong in their marriage

9. She didn't trust Dev n believed only Vicky

10. She hid Soha from Dev for her selfish reasons, to punish Dev

11. Sona should have realised that all those harsh words Dev said was bcoz he was angry n hurt..how can she believe those words

12. Sona's parenting has been questioned...she can't even see how much Soha miss her Dad. Soha is so boring n unhappy bcoz of Sona's parenting

13. Sona badmouths Dev infront of Soha

14. She neglects Soha and is only worried about her business n insulting Dev

15. Sona never stops Bijoy from badmouthing Dev

16. She was so desperate to become a good bahu that she never tried to become good wife n hence the separation

17. She acts just like Bijoy...hot headed irrational

18. She is just like Ishwari...insecure

19. Sona mocks abt Dev's business n achievements

20. She calls Dev mumma's boy n spineless

21. She shud be blamed for trying to help out Ish in kitchen or managing Dev's wardrobe - this resulted in Ish's insecurities

22. She put that ghastly jhula in room n didn't remove it even after Dev got hurt

23. She moved on...earlier also she was ready to get married to Rithwik n now happy with Jatin

24. Sona became successful only bcoz of Dev's harsh words motivated her

N the list continues...

So maybe Dev n Sona are actually on a level playing field n they truly deserve each other.

Originally posted by: tia.o

I agree with both Mr. Das and Randomramblings. What CVs have done is that they created two completely opposite spectrum of characters who somewhat behave against their original nature around each other and expect us to believe that.

Dev was considerate and loving - Who behaves like an inconsiderate husband who can't even see his wife's suffering.

Sonakshi was confident, straight shooter - Who becomes a complete doormat who was willing to have a baby to gain approval of her mother-in-law who made it clear that she is nothing more than a means to an end.

How? Why?

But that's what is being showed.

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

I feel you, Mr. Das. I was amongst one of the many angry KRPKAB fans to dump the show when they announced this leap thing. But came back to the show for the love of Shaheer and Erica.

Post leap, both Dev and Sona have changed a lot - and at least for now, what I see is that CVs are probably highlighting their role reversal. I wrote this in another post and repeating it now.

I always held the view that sona was always right until yesterday. But no, she had hher flaws which need introspection. Everything in life is so overrated. Pride, self respect, ego, love everything takes a backseat with time. After 7 years of separation, both Dev and Sona are incomplete and their daughter is devoid of her father's love. Had they communicated, Sona would have pulled strings and not become a scapegoat in the hands of toxic Dixits, their married life would have turned into a bliss.

In the end, Dev lost everything because of his flaws and one person who could have lifted him from his misfortune left him and started off afresh. I fail to understand what kept Dev reaching out to Sona in all these years - itna kya gussa, he is a fuss pot, that's it. He learnt the hard way which has changed him fundamentally.

Sona should now share Soha with Dev - enough of staying separate. Reconcile and share love, away from Dixits and Boses! Wonder how that will happen.

But I also feel that Sona is over Dev and her love or romance is nonexistent. May be when a woman becomes a mother, wife or romance takes a backseat. And in Sona's case, her Dev died when soha was born.

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

Only one question Tia. Are there reasons being shown that Sona would want to get back with Dev, other than the biological fact that Soha is his daughter? is that enough? I want them to show the virtues of Dev now.. it has been more than 240 odd episodes and all we get is a bad, terrible, going worse Dev. Come on man, he is much better than that otherwise Sona would not have fallen in love with him in the first place.

Originally posted by: sproutbean8

I honestly feel that the makers and writers have failed to understand the audience of this show.

From what I have understood there are a few types of viewers of this show:

1. People who were attracted by the simplicity and freshness of this story

2. People who watch the show for the leads regardless of the actual story

3. People who watch to analyze the nuances of the dialogs and scenes hoping for a great story

4. People who watch just for all the tashan and romance and to some extent now in season 2 the "girl power" of Sona, regardless of how illogical it is or how ridiculously out of the realm of reality the situations are, or how it takes away from the actual story.

I really hope that the makers visit this forum to read the threads that show them that there are far more people in groups 1,2,3 than there are in group 4.

I feel however that they pay more attention to the people on twitter who seem to be praising the show and in my opinion appear to belong more to group 4 than the other 3 groups. I dont believe group 4 is a large part of their actual audience/viewership they are just more vocal on a more visible platform.

I have seen people who bring up valid complaints about the story on twitter being shutdown in the most brutal of ways.

The shows trp will never be above 0.7 regardless of what they do so I wish they would just get on with telling the story they intended to or gracefully end it. This show was never meant to be a trp star because I really do believe it was aired at the wrong time slot and was pitted against the wrong type of shows on the other channels.

Also it bothers me that people seem to think taunting, screaming in public and in front of their employees is seen as entertaining tashan ... Isn't this just saas-Bahutu drama of the new generation where the leads fight over really petty issues in very public ways? Season 1 also had tashan between the leads but it was far more subtle and added to the story, the season 2 tashan is just noise to me and doesn't move the story forward.

Also, and this is only my opinion I dont believe what Sona is doing represents girl power or feminism, she is being dramatic for drama. Girl power and feminism does not mean stooping to the other persons level it means rising above and proving your worth through your actions and accomplishments.

Edited: I felt that the writers had a plot twist but seem to be taking too long to introduce it

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Only thing that could make Sona fall for him again is if He shows how good a father he can be for Soha and also if he admits himself in Bose house for rehab.