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Posted: 8 years ago
#91
One more thing 😆

I am intrigued by the fact that the Dixits are on the moral backfoot where Suhana's existence is concnerned. Their concealment is totally understandable from a humanistic point of view, but Bijoy has always preached absolute morals. In a world of black and white, that the Boses constantly insist they inhabit, hiding his child's existence from Dev is just plain black. And let's be honest, this is as big a lie as Dev ever told, if not bigger.

My point is, it's not so easy to take the moral high ground, and stick to the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, when your family's survival is at stake. They deserve a fair hearing for why they decided to lie, and they deserved to be understood and empathised with, but they no longer have the right to absolute, moral superiority.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Among other things, this one I can't get my head around at all. Sona probably had no legal obligation because of the prenup and/or divorce (if it happened).

However, I wonder wouldn't Sona have though of Dev as soon as she found out? And another thing is, none of them are in hibernation. Dev isn't spending his days in a maykhana and sona doesn't live in a remote village in laddakh. If Sona is successful and he is an investor, news of Sona having a daughter can't be a secret anyways. How/why was this hidden from Dev? Did dada decide to part ways because of this?

If I had million and one questions on Friday, I now have 10 million more

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

One more thing 😆

I am intrigued by the fact that the Dixits are on the moral backfoot where Suhana's existence is concnerned. Their concealment is totally understandable from a humanistic point of view, but Bijoy has always preached absolute morals. In a world of black and white, that the Boses constantly insist they inhabit, hiding his child's existence from Dev is just plain black. And let's be honest, this is as big a lie as Dev ever told, if not bigger.

My point is, it's not so easy to take the moral high ground, and stick to the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, when your family's survival is at stake. They deserve a fair hearing for why they decided to lie, and they deserved to be understood and empathised with, but they no longer have the right to absolute, moral superiority.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#93
Wow wonderful thread Sam 👏👏👏 !!! And by your first post , a very much needed space for many of us in this forum , Thank you so much !!!!
I would love to be part of the amazing discussions going on here, when time allows ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#94
Bijoy needs to tone down a bit even after 7 years he still has this hatred for Dev maybe to a certain level one can understand but him screaming infront of Suhana now that is totally wrong he too is a father and he should understand if the little girl wants to meet her father not scream and frighten the child .
Bijoy and Asha had allowed Sonakshi to make her own decisions in life they always supported her but now its either fear of losing his daughter and grand daughter to Dev or he is playing blind .

Dev detaching himself from his mother was about the best move he did I know its ugly for any child to detach themselves from their mothers but in Dev's case it was needed as he realized his wife would never be accepted by his mother , he further realizes that his mother showed him she supported him in his marriage but in fact she never did .
Ishwari never took the time to guide him instead imposed her decisions on him and Dev having the utmost respect , devotion and love for his mother did everything to keep her happy , it was only when Sonakshi walked away did he realize his mother and other family members stood by watching and making excuses .
Dev then hit rock bottom this was bound to happen
now making a decision for the first time he tells his mother he is capable to take care of himself and he proves this
he is now carefree learning what it is to be socially involved just have fun without fearing what his family will say

now I'm starting to believe that both Dev and Sona want to prove to each other that the other don't matter

oh gosh I think I went totally off track
I'll post my view in the morning
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Posted: 8 years ago
#95

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

One more thing 😆

I am intrigued by the fact that the Dixits are on the moral backfoot where Suhana's existence is concnerned. Their concealment is totally understandable from a humanistic point of view, but Bijoy has always preached absolute morals. In a world of black and white, that the Boses constantly insist they inhabit, hiding his child's existence from Dev is just plain black. And let's be honest, this is as big a lie as Dev ever told, if not bigger.

My point is, it's not so easy to take the moral high ground, and stick to the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, when your family's survival is at stake. They deserve a fair hearing for why they decided to lie, and they deserved to be understood and empathised with, but they no longer have the right to absolute, moral superiority.


Its understandable Bijoy has some fear that the Dixits will take Suhana away from them
I've seen Dev with Golu he loves his nephew then why will he cause pain to his own daughter
Bijoy may hate him as a SIL but he cannot hate him as a father
its also true a child growing up in Dixit home would perhaps lack love and strength but now Dev knows his family he will not force his daughter into a house where there is no love , moral support
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Posted: 8 years ago
#96

Originally posted by: gemini54


Love may fade away but the essence of love remains. Here Dev has embraced all colors of his life fully now no grays ..and there Sona has given up some of her colors and becaome A LA Dev Dixit of the old.
Always the hopeless romantic what can I say😉


The hopeless romantic in me loves the hopeless romantic in you

This is such a beautiful thought. Again, I am reminded of song lyrics. Celine Dion this time, "Love can touch us one time and last for a lifetime." What they couldn't do for each other when they were together, they have done apart. Sona has reached professional heights that she probably wouldn't have without the fire that Dev put in her belly, and Dev has finally learned how to live for himself, his happiness no longer dependent on the happiness of his family.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#97

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

One more thing 😆

I am intrigued by the fact that the Dixits are on the moral backfoot where Suhana's existence is concnerned. Their concealment is totally understandable from a humanistic point of view, but Bijoy has always preached absolute morals. In a world of black and white, that the Boses constantly insist they inhabit, hiding his child's existence from Dev is just plain black. And let's be honest, this is as big a lie as Dev ever told, if not bigger.

My point is, it's not so easy to take the moral high ground, and stick to the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, when your family's survival is at stake. They deserve a fair hearing for why they decided to lie, and they deserved to be understood and empathised with, but they no longer have the right to absolute, moral superiority.


Thank you for the awesome posts in this wonderful thread. 👏 👏. They are mind blowing.

I agree with most of the posts, but am not sure of your last post. I beg to differ. Neither Dev nor Ishwari claim that it was wrong of Sonakshi to hide the pregnancy or the daughter's existence. Ishwari knowingly/unknowingly took that decision for the entire Dixit clan. In the pre-nup, it clearly states that if there are children and Dev Sonakshi divorce, the children will solely belong to Sonakshi. It is granted that Ishwari cannot read and she did not really know about the clause. But Dev knows. He might have defied Ishwari and broken the chains binding him to her, but he knows that Sonakshi need not tell him anything as per the law.

Thinking about this in moral sense is a different story altogether. Here too Sonakshi remembered her last conversation with Dev, where he told her she can never be a good mother. He might have told her that for whatever reasons, but until it is cleared, Sonakshi did nothing wrong with not letting Dev know about Suhana.

I do have a couple of doubts. Firstly how valid is that prenup. I mean Sonakshi signs that document many months after the wedding. My understanding is the prenup is only valid if both of them sign it before wedding.

Secondly I am not sure that Dev and Sonakshi are divorced. They are separated for sure. Dev might call her his Ex because Sonakshi threw her mangalsutra in the fire. I feel like they are still married and will come to know when Dev knows about Soha and confront Sonakshi.

I think this is the main reason for the 7 years in leap. Usually when a couple is seprated for 7 yrs only then they are considered divorced, unless the parents file for divorce. Even then the court would first ask them to go for counselling, try living with each other for 6 months before granting the divorce(I think this is true, not 100% sure though). It looks like Dev and Sonakshi have a couple of months to go before that 7 year period.

I think Dev would ask for custody or something will happen that will come up saying that Dev and Sonakshi are still a couple...😆

I am really liking this story and the overall series. KRPKAB is really unique. I am very sure that we will get to see each and every(at least most of them) dialogues/conversations re-enacted. We will see similar scenes likes before, but with changed dynamics.

When Sonakshi first met Vickky at Ishwari Nivas, she taunts him saying he does not have an identity of his own and is just a pale imitation of Dev. Today Dev reminded Vickky of the same. I am sure Sonakshi will remind him again why Vickky is a nobody.

Once Vickky told Sonakshi that he will not pick up the papers that she dropped as she was his employee. But since Dev's half property belongs to Sonakshi and Dev is still the owner, Vickky is now the employee of Sonakshi. I think Sonakshi will now remind him of that.

We might also see scenes similar to couple watches, breaking of phone, Asha birthday cake scene and many more of them re-enacted, but with the changed results.

I also think several of the dialogues from the initial episodes will be shown to be fulfilled. Like in the initial episode, Sonakshi tells Dev -- aap ek paisewale gareeb hai, jo is doctor ko afford nahi karpaaoge. Now Sonakshi has really made this statement come true.

The other dialogue that I see making its comeback is Bijoy's comment -- parivaar parivaar hota hai, humara tumhara kya hai. I think this will come from Ishwari(maybe not in words, but actions, dont know, just guessing) finally where she accepts Sonakshi as her own.

I for one am really enjoying the show now more than season 1. The show has entered a very intriguing phase where we can see the real colors of emotions.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#98

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Among other things, this one I can't get my head around at all. Sona probably had no legal obligation because of the prenup and/or divorce (if it happened).

However, I wonder wouldn't Sona have though of Dev as soon as she found out? And another thing is, none of them are in hibernation. Dev isn't spending his days in a maykhana and sona doesn't live in a remote village in laddakh. If Sona is successful and he is an investor, news of Sona having a daughter can't be a secret anyways. How/why was this hidden from Dev? Did dada decide to part ways because of this?

If I had million and one questions on Friday, I now have 10 million more


I for one believe that Sona thought of Dev the minute she found out (if she didn't think of Ishwari first). I don't know yet what reasoning thwarted her from telling him, but the love and the pain was too raw for him not to be on her mind when she discovered that she was carrying their child, the child created in their last act of love.

Maybe Sona is aware that Dev has access to all this business news so she doesn't discuss her daughter in public? Maybe when Dev read daughter, he assumed Sona remarried? For now I am going to cop out and say, *sigh* serial logic.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#99
I love that song. But you know Sam the best kind of marriage or any relationships are not be the best you can be when you are apart but the best you can be when you are together..


anyhoo thanks for replying

Originally posted by: Samanalyse


The hopeless romantic in me loves the hopeless romantic in you

This is such a beautiful thought. Again, I am reminded of song lyrics. Celine Dion this time, "Love can touch us one time and last for a lifetime." What they couldn't do for each other when they were together, they have done apart. Sona has reached professional heights that she probably wouldn't have without the fire that Dev put in her belly, and Dev has finally learned how to live for himself, his happiness no longer dependent on the happiness of his family.

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Posted: 8 years ago
@Shaavi: Again, I totally agree that they have ground to stand on from a legal perspective, and from a human perspective (of fear and protective instinct). But that is not the standard that the Boses, especially Bijoy, have exercised on the world at large, and the Dixits in particular. I am looking at this, not from a legal perspective, but as a plain and simple, undeniable lie. Sona lied (by omission) to the father of her child for seven years and that goes against the gospel of absolute truth the Boses preach.

I am not saying I decry their actions, not at all, just trying to point out that this shifts the moral playing field of the KRPKAB universe considerably.

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