Reality Check

Originally posted by: .kashishbano.

Take a big hug from me Survi for this post. I second to you on each and every word of yours.

People blaming only him..

Exactly today he chose his love over his family and Maa.

But Sona in her anger and ego doesn't care about it.

She choose to believe that liar vicky instead of Dev.

Really feeling bad for Dev.

My all sympathy goes to him.

What he got today, nothing ...

His mother's regression.

His wife allegation

And

His brother cheats.

From everyside he was just broken.

Nobody was there to console him.

Sona just married him but does not trusted him, she is so mich influenced by others, that she is unable to understand her husband dev only.

Now i badly want Dev to live his life as he wants.

What he got being good to all.

Being selfless.

Devoting his life for his mother and wife happiness.

Nothing...

So whats the need to be good, that's why i will heartily welcome dev character after leap..

And those harsh words he used today may be because he know she will not come back to him

So make her move fully.

If dev brought cracks in relationship unknowingly by his mistakes sona broke the relationship knowingly by her ego anger and being impulsive.

Originally posted by: .kashishbano.

Take a big hug from me Survi for this post. I second to you on each and every word of yours.

People blaming only him..

Exactly today he chose his love over his family and Maa.

But Sona in her anger and ego doesn't care about it.

She choose to believe that liar vicky instead of Dev.

Really feeling bad for Dev.

My all sympathy goes to him.

What he got today, nothing ...

His mother's regression.

His wife allegation

And

His brother cheats.

From everyside he was just broken.

Nobody was there to console him.

Sona just married him but does not trusted him, she is so mich influenced by others, that she is unable to understand her husband dev only.

Now i badly want Dev to live his life as he wants.

What he got being good to all.

Being selfless.

Devoting his life for his mother and wife happiness.

Nothing...

So whats the need to be good, that's why i will heartily welcome dev character after leap..

And those harsh words he used today may be because he know she will not come back to him

So make her move fully.

If hr brought cracks in relationship unknowingly by his mistakes sona broke the relationship knowingly by her ego anger and being impulsive.

Originally posted by: survika1111

People call him. Mommy's boy.. He always choose mommy over everything.. Yes he did.. But this is the not only thing he did.. Hr did thousands of things after marriage for his wife which can undoubtedly remove this label from his name. He can undoubtedly be called not the perfect but a good in fact a very good husband indeed..

Yes he is... He is dev.. Dev dixit.. He married sonakshi bose.. He tried to give her all happiness.. Sometimes he succeeded sometimes he failed.. But he always tried..

Those who always do chick chik about dev always choose mata over biwi.. They forget all. Those incidents where dev has choosen sona.. Let me remind you all let's take a reality check

Starting from bfr marriage.. Where he came to know about infertility of sona.. Only a real. Man and a true lover can take such a huge decision to het married with that girl. Woh bhi hiding everything from his mother who is his god. Yes he chooses sona over mom.. Sona. Over everything

After marriage Munh dikhai.. Jaha log bkwas kar rahe they apni birdri me shadi kar leta n all. Bolke tab qoh dev hi tha jisne kaha tha ki agar apni biradri me shadi karta toh sonakshi miss ho jati.. Sona ka sath diya aur sabka muh band karwaya

Fasting me. Jab dev ko pata chala sona ka vrat hai toh sidha ma se ladne chala gaya ki usse vrat kiyu rakhwaya.. Yes yet agin he chooses sona over his mom

Diwali - when sona got hurt by Crackers he was leaving with his mom for mandir.. But he dint go. He stayed with sona. He took care of her.. And then went to ask about mata. Yet agin sona came before his mom

When neha started nonsense with his wife even he shut his sister's mouth. Yet agian he had chosen sona over his family

When vilena got married he told ish that he would hit vikky if sona didn't mk him understand not there. Here he again uphold his wife's head

When vikky was misbehaving with sona whn ele waa missing hw said meri wife hai. Ye yaad rakh.. He chooses his wife over his family again.

GKB Never get the courage to call sona bngaln in front of him

When Ranveer came and started insulting sona he said she is my wife. He didn't let anyone to insult his wife in front of him

When it was matter of ayan.. He dupprtef his wife without telling his mom anything.. Here again he wife got more importance thelan mother..

Hr gave away 5 cr to his BIL.. Without asking his mom.. Even without letting his wife know. Here again he proved he has to be called a good husband

In hm everytime he was saying if u don't like all this i wil change it all.. Again Sona's wish got more importance

Tonight even in the drunk state he saif main tumhare sath rehna chatha hoon. Ma ne mujhe options diye mujhe tuhare sath rehna hai. He was expressing his love even whn he was not sense.

And many ppl just picked up as always the neg line.. His male ego. His hursh words. Those all came ouy when sona crossed her limit. Hecwas broken. And sona was breaking him more n more. He said he he told vikky to throw away pre nup. But she didn't blv. Its not his mistake. It's her misunderstanding. All is just misunderstanding. Dev is victimized over here. But NO!! Still ppl are blaming him. Why dear?! Didn't sona make mistakes? Yessl she did.. If dev is not a perfect husband thm sona is as well not a perfect wife. She knew how vikky is. And how dev is. Still he trusted vikky's words more thn dev's. She saw dev in such drastic condition bit still she was showing her ego. Yea she should be angry. Anyone could be. But at least she should trust her husband. But no!! She again made mistake by signing pre nup in her ego. Bijoy has insulted dev many many times but sona didn't stop him. Bijoy even throw him out from his home. Still dev respect them. Yes he by mistake slap Bijoy. All know it was pure accident and how much guilty he was for that. He always said to sona it doesn't matter to him if she became mother or not.. But what sona did.. She took it other way in anger and presnt it like he is taunting him.. Which is totally wrong. And every body knows it. Ppl say dev break promises. Then sona also didn't keep her one. She promised him she won't let him even if he leaves her. But whre did that promises gone. All. Are broken unfer the heavy weight of ego and anger..

Mistake has been done by both.. Both are equal responsible. It's never ever fair to blame dev only for what happened.. U need two hands to make a clap.. Ek hath sectaali nhi bajti..

And just because dev doesn't say or act so much cheesy like vikky with his wife. He became a bad husband.. Just because he doesn't treat his mother like how vikky treat gkb he became a mommy 's boy.. LOL!!!

Silly thought!! Poor thinking!!!

Dev is dev.. Vikky is nothing in front of him.. Dev is a faulty man with the flawless heart. He can do mistakes but he is not a sinner. And the mistake had done by both devakshi.. It' s really very much stupid to blame one guy fr everything who is actually trapped by his own family

P. S. I said everything what i feel. My thoughts. If anyone wanna agree Welcome. Anyone disagree more than welcome. As u don't understand my pov. I don't feel i would understand ur one. Thank you all..

Originally posted by: M.soni

👏 very well said dear.. have nothing to say only AGREE WITH U..DIL KI BAAT BOLI HAI MERI AJ TUNE 😳😳😳.

just wana add k even in drunk state he said he will pay all loan knewing about maa ki nautanki and all phir bhi..want to be with her..maa behen jaein bhard me😛😛..😊

even when sona came to give cheque to ishwari he took her in room and again and again he was jao wapis kar ke ao loan ..stupidity nahi karo etc..was thinking about her family...😊

but no people cant see it as he doesnt shout or disrespect his mother .and he is not selfish na.😭😭

for the 1st time he took decision for himself for his happiness for his love...but in what he got misunderstanding from his love.

maa biwi ki inscurties ne mil kar ladke ko barbad kardiya.😭😭😭 ishwari ko dar tha dev us se door chala jaega sona ki wajah se..sona ko dar tha k ishwari ki wajah se dev usko chor dega.is chakkar me dono hamesha usko push karti rahti thein...ab jhelo..na wo sona ka raha na ishwari ka...ab wo sirf apne liye jeega😳😳😳

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Originally posted by: survika1111

Hugggiesss back adi.. Hope ur fine. I will copy ur last lines.. Exactly what i think. If he brought cracks thn sona broke it unconsciously in her anger and ego. No matter what now ool dy about him i was am nd will be with him..

Originally posted by: Khushi...

No offence but the things you mentioned are small things.

When it mattered Dev dumped Sona. He left her.

When it came to big things like celebrating his birthday, which he knew Sona had planned, he left her waiting in the middle of the night all alone. Why couldn't he just tell his mum that he needs to go and pick her up at least? Who just leaves out their wife?

And it's not about who does Dev do more for, it's about how caring and considerate is he to each. With Ishwari he always thinks of the consequences of his actions, he always thinks she'll get hurt if I do this or do that, she'll be happy if I do this. With Sona he very very rarely thinks about his words or actions, he is not considerate of her feelings.

When it comes to his mother no one is allowed to say anything, but when it comes to Sona's family he thinks he's allowed to be rude?

When Sona raised her voice just once he got so angry, yet when he was constantly fighting with Bejoy, he didn't care about her. Then he accidentally slapped Bejoy, and even then wasn't so remorseful. When he pushed Sona onto Ishwari, making Ishwari fall, he told Sona to get out. That's love? That's being a good husband? It was his fault, yet he told her to go.

Problem with Dev isn't that he doesn't do enough for Sona. It isn't that he does more for Ishwari. It's that he always makes it seem like if he had to pick, he would give up Sona easily, that he always finds faults in Sona, but seems blind to his mothers. Like today, he didn't even get shocked when he found out his mum tricked him into signing a prenuptial agreement, if that was Bejoy, Dev would've gone berserk.

And as for Ishwari giving Dev a choice, what is he, a child? He's a grown man, his mother shouldn't be giving him ultimatums about whether to ditch his wife or not. But he says it to Sona so proudly that mum gave him a choice. This is the problem with Dev, he doesn't realise Ishwari is wrong, he turns a blind eye to it, and always seems to follow her orders, which is why he's termed as a mummy's boy.

Originally posted by: babli1

Beautiful post survika👏