Reality Check - Page 3

Originally posted by: Mishti_94

Perfect Survi Di!👏

You just penned down my exact thoughts!

thank you mishti..hi5

Originally posted by: Ferdous_69

Hayyy meri jaana... 😲 itna lamba post!!!
Bt DevAkshi k liye kitna bhi likho, kaam hai...

Muhaaa for this jaanaaa 🤗
100% agree with u...
Clap for this post dear 👏 👏

thank you jaana..kya karoon yrr i just can't stand that ppl are just blaming one person only AND ALL THE TIME.muuaah ..love yA

Originally posted by: Ashsat1

Hi di, I am Aishu! I also agree with your thoughts. From the beginning of the show, I loved Dev's character, because in all honesty I want to be like Sona but I am a Dev. Every action of his spoke volumes to me and my flaws. Through this show and my college major counselling I realized that people like me want to find solutions to problems not even present explicitly. We fail to see the underlying issue, if the superficial problem is solved kaam kahtam! Not only that people of my character tend to forget the appreciation of others work or emotions. (If I could I would attach the whole analysis of people of this character and what jobs they should take). But long story short we are: introverted, intuitive, thinking, judging, have competence and is independent and expects perfection. The problem with Dev and me is the fact we seem to have a hard shell but are really vulnerable in the inside, this point is what people use to manipulate us. The fact is even if he wanted to talk back to his mother, he could not have. Vikky told GKB to not trash talk Elina as even GKB doesn't do emotional attiyachar. In many aspects of my own life, my mother dictated, when I went back to think my decision all I remember is that dictation and I slowly adapt that as my passion. More than Sona, Dev lives in a fairy tale, he believed that through marriage and a kid they will be one happy family. But if he had stopped and thought about the emotional mixtures of this marriage, things would not have gotten this bad.

HI AISHU.i am really amazed by the way u explaned it.and now i can understand dev's charechter evn more bttr.as u said ur like dev..that means u r the one who can exactly feel what he felt.thank you so very much dear fr sharing ur personal experience here.i just hope u cam get out of this phase .so is dev.thnks again

Originally posted by: Agrata23

excellent post survika 100% agree with u

thank you so much dear

Ha ha thanks di, no I am think I am the same way. But this has shown what my actions can do to others. As a girl, many of the things Sona went through hurt me but looking at Dev he was also in a fix. I am not justifying his actions, but in some cases we need others to tell us our character and personality. That's why I felt Sona knew the pain he was going through, as she seemed to realize the mad house type setting. But it is understandable, both characters knew their love was strong but failed to put each other in their situation. But di, my character has given me to use the audacity to challenge and keep an unwavering determination and loyalty. If Dev's base stayed true in this leap, then we might see some growth in this aspect.

Originally posted by: Ashsat1

Ha ha thanks di, no I am think I am the same way. But this has shown what my actions can do to others. As a girl, many of the things Sona went through hurt me but looking at Dev he was also in a fix. I am not justifying his actions, but in some cases we need others to tell us our character and personality. That's why I felt Sona knew the pain he was going through, as she seemed to realize the mad house type setting. But it is understandable, both characters knew their love was strong but failed to put each other in their situation. But di, my character has given me to use the audacity to challenge and keep an unwavering determination and loyalty. If Dev's base stayed true in this leap, then we might see some growth in this aspect.

Honestly the main culprit of this separation is ishwari, gkb and Vicky as they are the mastermind behind it. And dev and sona are just fools who are insecure themselves, have communication gaps, delusional regarding the truths of their relatives and doesn't say what's in their mind. Therefore, no need to justify dev or sona becoz they are on the same team. For me both are at fault when it comes to this separation becoz they are the ones who gave so much power to ishu, gkb and Vicky

Originally posted by: survika1111

Firstly welcome to the Forum.And thank You fr choosing my post To comment as ur 1st post.

i agree with you.Same condition is Mine as well.Ishwari charachter is so dangerouus nd evil.

u said My Line aisi family ho Toh dushman ki kya zarurat.i just feel so bad for dev that all ppl around him is betraying him and even than he is being target by every one.his wife even dint understand.i m not saying dev was absoultey correct here but sona was equally at fault his time

i found really silly that everytime ppl just came and blme bash dev..this is not acceptable at all to me

Thanks for the warm welcome.
Bashing dev is also not wrong.. He turns a blind eye to ishwari's faults and slaps his FIL... hE could not even tolerate Sona talking to ishwari in a loud voice to save THEIR relationship... he came in and without knowing anything he stared screaming at her, but him slapping his father in law is okay and forgivable..
when he pushed sona and she fell onto ishwari, it became sona's fault..
what a prick..

ishwari as a character is probably the worst..even GKB is more tolerable than her.. at least GKB is bad on the front as well as on the inside... but ishwari is a pretentious one

on this episode i could understand why sona was not in the mood to sit calmly and talk but dev too did not think about talking once before giving up his relationship..

kitne acche se he was teling sona he loved her and then they caused a fire and he just went back on his words..for no good reason

dev is too hyper and easily manipulated.. he has not given sona the respect she deserves.. i am rather happy they have broken up now 😕 if you analyse then its pretty much a toxic relationship..

Also since i did not watch the earlier episodes i don't know...why no one is asking GKB and family to get out of dixit house? thy have enough money to buy them a separate house...

Good to read reasonable unbiased lines. Thanks Survikaji and Kashishbano. My heart broke on seeing Dev helplessly succumb to fate and let go his love who believed Vicky rather than her always concerned husband . Still Dev is blamed with this,that what not. Relieved to see some think and feel for Dev. I wish him mental peace and happiness atleast in season two.

Beautiful post...agree with u..