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Posted: 8 years ago
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I will post later I have a flight to catch.
But Tia let this not be your last daily post please !! You cannot do this to us 😆. I will do hartaal.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Brilliant write-up, once again! 👏 Couldn't agree more. I'm just going to requote my post from your yesterday's topic because basically, the feelings are the same. And with that, wish you a very happy and prosperous 2017, Tia! 🤗 Stay blessed. I hope somewhere down the line you make a comeback here, this show, this place, this forum is incomplete with you.

Originally posted by: .annihilation.

This show literally makes me want to shed bucket full of tears out of frustration, disbelief and shock. And then go bang my head against the wall 'cause WHAT ON EARTH?! 😳 Let alone the married and wise women like you out here, if the likes of unmarried women here can understand and acknowledge the horror that show has become especially ever since the infertility track, how do the makers/writers and team aren't capable of seeing where they're going SO wrong? I just listen to the audio of the episodes on tv while I'm busy doing some other work, it's come down to that now as I can't even stand to watch their faces now. Tia, if you go away, how are we even going to survive this show? :( Although, you aren't to be blamed. I completely understand this show has become quite capable of driving viewers nuts. 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks. Happy New Year to you too. 😊

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Tia will miss ur wonderful post.Happy New Year.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Happy New Year to you too, Rose. Thanks for your wish. Yes, I kind of reached the end of my patience too. And as you said, the kind of mentality they are showing on the show while exists in society, is not the kind of mentality you want to show as ideal.

There are people who marry to have legal children and there are people who marry for love. The first kind might break up due to infertility (however if they don't, that means they have started to care for each other), the later should never break up due to infertility unless the person they love matters less than the child they may or may not have.

When a woman stays with a man despite his infertility, people say she is doing the duty of a wife as she should. True enough. She is not doing any favour by staying with the man. Then how the same thing when a man does suddenly makes him a hero? Why do we expect so less for men that if he just says two romantic words, everything is forgiven?

In that sense, we can say that by letting Dev stay with his family who is insulting to Sonakshi, she is doing him a favour. But no one is saying that.

I am not only fed up with the show but also people's mindset. I just need to step back and be happy that I didn't marry a spineless, lier like Dev Dixit.




Originally posted by: rose4ever

Hey Tia🤗firstly.

Commenting after many days though I was reading all your posts.Just wasn't motivated enough to write about this show anymore because of the way it has been going.At this point,I really can't say whether this show is better than the other dramatic shows considering it's initial episodes and absence of certain cliched portrayals or way worse because it is giving all the wrong messages even if it is not intended on part of the writers.This kind of mindset may exist in reality ,be ingrained and accepted even today in many families but should in no way be glorified in the name of great love or selflessness or goodness of heart.Just how is this show any better when it all comes down to the" All forgiving,understanding and most loving DIL and wife to ever exist "is beyond me truly.
The first woman who is heartbroken about her inability to bear a child because she wanted to pop out a team for her mil?Twisted much?
And the standard set for good life partners is so low apparently,that if a guy rolling in money is willing to financially help his wife and her brother in business & marries her after knowing about her inability to conceive(treatments,options,adoption-what's that?🤔)it automatically makes him a great choice.
The mother son obsessions with each other,lying,deceiving etc etc are minor inconveniences which the girl must overlook after all she is getting a great oh so loving husband.

I Had only been following written updates for quite some time and now I am not inclined to do even that on a regular basis.I guess this show wasn't meant to cater audience like us. Truly disappointed with the show,only glad to have interacted with some amazing people on this forum.Will miss your daily posts Tia.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Happy New Year to you too, Sabita... 😊

Originally posted by: gemini54

Wish you all a very very Happy New Year!.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lol... I don't even want to read the written updates anymore. What would I write? When you are back in Toronto, meet me at downtown for a coffee. We can catch up. 😊

I am going to Cancun,Mexico March 3 - March 8 on vacation. I will be available after I come back. I will pm you my contact information.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

I will post later I have a flight to catch.

But Tia let this not be your last daily post please !! You cannot do this to us 😆. I will do hartaal.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

<font size="3">Lol... I don't even want to read the written updates anymore. What would I write? When you are back in Toronto, meet me at downtown for a coffee. We can catch up.😊</font>

<font size="3">I am going to Cancun,Mexico March 3 - March 8 on vacation. I will be available after I come back. I will pm you my contact information.</font>




Happy new year darling and ok be back soon.. 😳

Yes I am back in Toronto but down with severe backpain.. Doing wfh.. I will pm you my contact details, let's meet for coffee may be next weekend what say ?? 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awww... How sweet of you. Thanks hun. I will occasionally comment but I just don't want to even read the written updates anymore. But yes, I agree. It has become a saas-bahu horror show. The exact kind I hate. I absolutely can't tolerate scheming saas and doormat Bahu equation. And I hate spineless Mamma's boy who watches his wife's humiliation even more. All of that is present in this show.

But don't worry. I will read the posts of the people I like and try to comment. I am not vanishing altogether. 😉

Originally posted by: .annihilation.

Brilliant write-up, once again! 👏 Couldn't agree more. I'm just going to requote my post from your yesterday's topic because basically, the feelings are the same. And with that, wish you a very happy and prosperous 2017, Tia! 🤗 Stay blessed. I hope somewhere down the line you make a comeback here, this show, this place, this forum is incomplete with you.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Oh dear, sorry to hear that. Sounds good. I will pm you my cell no. 😊

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun



Happy new year darling and ok be back soon.. 😳

Yes I am back in Toronto but down with severe backpain.. Doing wfh.. I will pm you my contact details, let's meet for coffee may be next weekend what say ?? 😃

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Yep, hun. I am not leaving the forum. I am just leaving this show. I am still available through pm and may be occasionally write comment on posts. But no more daily posts. I am done. Of course victim will say sorry to lier. Victim is a TV land bahu. Doormat mentality to uske khoon mein hain.

forgot to reply this one.Tv shows always show abuse in the name of understanding. Suppose if male lead ne murder kar Diya apni lover le liye that means usne Jo Kiya sahi Kiya because INTENTION sahi tha😆 My main problem is how they are glorifying dev and his wrong doing by making him "MAHAaN" showing female lead "defective" that is the tone they are applying it's like now stop criticizing male lead ,he has accepted female lead with her imperfections .so whatever he did is justified. Only in indian television we will get to see this😆

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