In Defence Of Dev Dixit

Sonakshi Again we stand opposite each other. Can't help it.

I never thought calling ma is such a big deal.
Nobody wholeheartedly can accept MIL as mother.
That is my viewpoint.
Your mother will be always ur mother. MIL can't be your mother.
One in a crore or more even I should say u will see a MIL who will accept a dil as their daughter.
That is the way it is.
Why fight these things?
As long as things are ok between u & your husband, nothing else matters.
U can call ur mil ma - don't have to mean it.
He need not call ur mother ma .
Respect should come from within.
Nothing Matters in name calling.

Sona can call iswari aunty. If the respect is there, no problem.
There is no need of unnecessary complications in life.

Ultimately the husband will realize the worth of wife's family & later the bond becomes really strong.
Even MIL can't break that.
That is the beauty of it.
It will take time.
We should not bother about acceptance. If are a confident woman, there issues should not affect you.
Keep your conscience clear & keep going; be happy

What is wrong in expecting moms of boys to teach them some civility in comparision to moms of girls!? So u dont have to let boys know anything or teach them anything .. Is this what you are trying to say?? Expectations should be nil from both ends if we are to talk about righteousness!
Ishwari has not taught her children anything at all and I will not take past as the reason for being unable to do so. Everybody has a past... It does not mean you get the right to be not civil.
Its not a matter of Dev or Sona as of now... im sorry to say your post is very weird in the sense that you are OK that girls are taught to be civil and its actually not required to say anything to boys. ... They will learn.. .. Really?? And if they dont learn then what...? They are allowed to be as they are.. Is it! Are u kidding me!
Now we know hmmm why the society is biased like it is . really sorry to have come to know your thought process...

Originally posted by: aaliah3108

What is wrong in expecting moms of boys to teach them some civility in comparision to moms of girls!? So u dont have to let boys know anything or teach them anything .. Is this what you are trying to say?? Expectations should be nil from both ends if we are to talk about righteousness!
Ishwari has not taught her children anything at all and I will not take past as the reason for being unable to do so. Everybody has a past... It does not mean you get the right to be not civil.
Its not a matter of Dev or Sona as of now... im sorry to say your post is very weird in the sense that you are OK that girls are taught to be civil and its actually not required to say anything to boys. ... They will learn.. .. Really?? Are u kidding me!
Now we know hmmm where hy the society is biased like it is.

exactly kaise saari tameez air tehzeeb aur adjustment ladkiyo ko hi seekhna and karna hota hai ladke to epitome of righteousness hote hai

No one I repeat no one is questioning how one should address the in-laws. That was never the point.

When we love someone there is no need to whitewash their flaws. If we need to do that it only means we love an image and not the real person. Respect is a two way street. Your may not love your MIL the same like your mother. But you have to treat them the same. If calling Asha as mother or Aunty doesn't matter and only the respect why did Ishwari make it an issue. Did she feel that her son will not respect her anymore if he calls his MIL as Maa. Then why didn't she insist Ranveer to do the same and didn't think about Nehaa MIL if she might feel bad or not. Ranveer did it because his mother taught him those values even if they were poor. If you are financially poor you can work hard and rectify but poor in values then no amount of money can give you respect.

Omg some things never changed in the forum whether you are off or active in the forum.

You are still making post based on your personal feeling for Erica frenandes.

Strange ERICA has not done anything wrong with you personally still you make post based on anti Erica / anti sonakshi .

Any sensible educated girl wi understand whatever sonakshi is doing is correct and whatever dev has done and is doing is wrong .(period for that) .. I don't think I shld give explaination to a person who make post based on personal liking and hatred and above justifying it in the most funniest way.


One more thing I have realised why Indian society is so backward? Because people don't understand the simple thing bad is bad and good is good.

Rest am highly disappointed with entire post - not only as female but as a human being as well .


P.s it humble request to you don't make post based on your liking and hatred. Your post are hurting feelings of many people like me. Most of time I feel depressed and agitated after reading your post .
Don't hate anyone . If you don't love anyone its fine but try not to hate anyone . More over Being a female yourself ,how can you do this? Already so much hatred in the world , people would lik to see some positive and sensible post in the forum , which helps them to believe in goodness and humanity.

No intention to hurt your feelings, but your post hurted me big time..😕

Something positive from this post too 😆
Mayu n @Aaliyah welcome back. 🤗

Originally posted by: gmgi

Something positive from this post too 😆
Mayu n @Aaliyah welcome back. 🤗

Thank you🤗

Originally posted by: mayu1982

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Omg some things never changed in the forum whether you are off or active in the forum.

You are still making post based on your personal feeling for Erica frenandes.

Strange ERICA has not done anything wrong with you personally still you make post based on anti Erica / anti sonakshi .

Any sensible educated girl wi understand whatever sonakshi is doing is correct and whatever dev has done and is doing is wrong .(period for that) .. I don't think I shld give explaination to a person who make post based on personal liking and hatred and above justifying it in the most funniest way.


One more thing I have realised why Indian society is so backward? Because people don't understand the simple thing bad is bad and good is good.

Rest am highly disappointed with entire post - not only as female but as a human being as well .


<font color="#FF0000">P.s it humble request to you don't make post based on your liking and hatred. Your post are hurting feelings of many people like me. Most of time I feel depressed and agitated after reading your post .
Don't hate anyone . If you don't love anyone its fine but try not to hate anyone . More over Being a female yourself ,how can you do this? Already so much hatred in the world , people would lik to see some positive and sensible post in the forum , which helps them to believe in goodness and humanity.

No intention to hurt your feelings, but your post hurted me big time..😕
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Wow... mayu di.. u r back
Welcome back mayu di 🤗 🤗
Beautiful reply mayu di...
right is always right, wrong is wrong... we shouldn't force to justify wrong is right...
many peeps never accept this fact...