Just Too much Sonakshi contd.Edited. - Page 4

Originally posted by: gmgi

Beautiful post Ashwathi 👏

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Great going Sonakshi. You should have married Ritwick who will have the whole life time to follow your instructions to the T. Why did you marry a business Tycoon whose daily schedule demands so much both physically and mentally? The meetings,conferences,deal fixings ... What not he will have that calls for his presence and I am sure Dev belongs to that category .

I am enjoying this Jhansi Ki Rani avatar of yours 👏👏.I completely understand your disapointment . Go girl and vent all your frustrations . There is nothing wrong .For every small things Ritwick is brought and made to feel like he is the perfect partner for her .

I understand your point here. I agree being a CEO doesn't mean he is superior to anyone but he is someone who has other responsibilities and priorities in life .He has constant work pressure .Haven't we seen people hire maid to help them out.Its not like every person does every job at home .

In real life a CEO will be on business travels most of the times , will have business parties to attend and would prefer to spend time with his family whenever he gets time .Being a normal employee i find it difficult to manage clothes at home .

The real issue is something else 😉 being independent is just an excuse .

How could you even think to ask him do such things like have you lost your sensibility?

You want him to iron his clothes and burn his hand?

Many people thought that Sonakshi just asked him to arrange the ironed clothes.It is not true.

The way Dev still felt bad for his lie shows how noble he is and how much he love her.

Dev Dikshit who can opt for another shirt went to his mother and got his work done. How scared he is of Sonakshi that shows us.I pity you Dev, Kaha phas Gaya tu.

Exactly ...one cannot deny that he did not want to upset her and was concerned about her feelings .If he really did not care for her then he would not have bothered explaining things to her .Trust me in the whole conversation i was unable to understand what she wanted to say .She kept changing her stance ...she never communicated the real issue .

He kept apologizing for letting her down and he did share how he was unable to manage everything on his own and he came out clean but she was unable to understand him .I doubt she would have understood even if Dev had told everything himself.

She was offended that he did not reach out to her but he had a valid reason for that .She never offered to help him when she saw he was sleeping in his office clothes and he quickly dismissed his idea about buying a new wadrobe

She found him to be selfish when he wanted her to pay attention to her wounds .I was like really girl , did you forget how he panicks even if you are slightly hurt . Before confession even if you sneezed he used to run to check on you and recently during diwali incident he was beside you all the time and took care of you .Is it called selfishness if he expects same from you ?

Now him asking her not to shout is like a crime .How dare he asks his wife to calm down.😆

Like i always said if your spouse fears of sharing his opinion freely with you then either you are not approchable or you are being too sensitive 😳

The way Sona argued certainly shows how adamant she is to make Dev do her wish.

She says Dev should have told her in the begining itself rather than going to his mother.

Dev should have made it clear even I feel but I am not sure Sonakshi will leave it there.

I don't appreciate this stubborn Sonakshi .She always wants to resolve every issue on her own and as early as possible be it Neha issue or bringing some change in their life.We blame Dev for trying to find quick fix but Sona is no different from him.

We have seen how implusive she was when she wanted to move on during breakup and many innocent people were hurt because of that

On one hand she says he should be independent. On the other hand she says he should not call his mother but if he asked she would have helped. I feel she is not sure what she wants from him.

If she wants him to do such things she should have understood he can not do

If her problem is with Iswari then she herself should have done his work.

she was always a poor communicator .She was unable to express her feelings to Dev before his confession and even today she cannot communicate her real problem.The main issue is she is insecure of her position in his life and just like Ishwari she competes with his mom at some level.

I have always said this she and Ishwari have some similarity .They both want to control Dev and are insecure about him .Should i say poor Dev or lucky Dev 😆😆😆

Her dialogue confirmed this - " I happily share you with all" .It felt more like you are just mine but yet i have allowed you to spend time with others .

DO you think people would be ok if Dev has asked her to cook or manage home after coming back from work or said something like "I share you with your family members".I agree she has left her family but she does spend time with them and she is helping them .

Sorry Dev your mornings are getting spoiled by your too intelligent wife and you have to leave for work with a disturbed mind.

During mornings i m so busy that I cannot afford to even spend extra 5 mins .I wonder how he was all ok for the shirt to be washed , ironed .Changing shirt would be a pratical idea .The only reason is he cares for her .

I never appreciate if my spouse nags me in the morning for something that can wait .It just spoils your mood and whole day at work goes waste

There are many posts saying Dev doesn't deserve Sona but I say Sonakshi doesn't deserve ,the noble,good at heart and lovable Dev Dikshit.

😆😆..Don't you know its totally acceptable to critise him for anything and everything .If he even sneezes without his wife's permission then he is tagged as insensitive husband and Ritwick is remembered .

Just seeing a incomplete scene in the precap he was about to be hanged for not showing interest in his wife but the scene turned out to be totally different .

Have you seen the way he is made fun of in the forum for not managing his clothes .Will they say the same about Sonakshi for not knowing how to cook .

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

My dear, marriage is not abt who is right or wrong ...there is no concept of perfect husband or wife or marriage...its more like a train...an engine and bogie...one person cant be the engine always ...sometimes the husband takes the role of an engine and wife follows...and sometimes wife takes the role of an engine and husband follows...it all depends on the strength and weakness of couple.

@ Nice example and good thought.

Regarding disagreements ...it should be there ...after all marriage is also about living with your loved ones flaws too...we should be able to speak to our spouse openly with out any inhibitions..we should be able to express all our emotions with out fear of him or her walking out of the relationship...

@ Yes I hope they reach the stage.

I really liked yesterdays episode because for the first time as a husband and wife they fought genuinely...😆👏 with out that fear ...which was good ...needed in a relationship...atleast now they know what to expect...there will be many more...infact bigger ones ...there can be separations too...but what matters is they dont hate each other !! and that is marriage !!

Yes. Every marriage sustains if the love and trust stays despite fights,arguments...

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

You know we all can discuss in length if Sona deserve Dev or Dev deserves Sona...but in reality we are no one to judge if they deserve eachother ...if someone had to judge its they who need to...

All I can say is just take them away from each other ..separate them or cause harm to any one of them ...then you will know how much they love each other...when we are in love and confident in our relationship we speak our heart out with out inhibitions to our partner...ppl outside the relationship might judge us wrong but the one whom we are connected will never hate us for that ...and that is what happened yesterday...they might be angry and one might feel cheated but never hated each other...

We have seen how their break up track ended rt...both didnt care of anything or anyone...

Dev knew he couldnt give her the happiness she deserves as he cannot accept anyone in his life with out his mom's acceptance...he let go the one he thought was a part of him ...his Sona..and there on her engagement he couldnt withstand seeing her being someones wife...because she belonged to him...imagine a business tycoon getting conked out at his ex's engagement party...did he think of his image , no...logic failed ...love survived and won with all its might..

inspite of him saying no to her...she never hated him...even on the day of her engagement she not even once thought of her or her families image in front of the society when she ran towards her Dev to take him home safe...and while she did that she knew that he is never going to accept her...but still she did it...logic didnt work there as well...isnt it...its love...again love won with all its might

Ppl express feelings in different ways...and probably that is why some like Sona more than Dev or vise versa...what we need to accept is both are human, they are just married...living in a joint family...and Sona is living with a bunch of ppl who pretend that they have accepted her...and this reality is not seen by Dev...so they are bound to be insecure...but they are not bad ppl ...they are just two normal human beings in love trying to get used to their marriage!!

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Great going Sonakshi. You should have married Ritwick who will have the whole life time to follow your instructions to the T. Why did you marry a business Tycoon whose daily schedule demands so much both physically and mentally? The meetings,conferences,deal fixings ... What not he will have that calls for his presence and I am sure Dev belongs to that category .
So basically you mean that a man who follows the wife is jobless . Ritwik is a doctor too , as per my understanding his job responsibility is more or equally important as the business tycoons Job responsibility . Leave Ritwik ,even Sonakshi is a working women , she takes care of her personal responsibility without the help of her mother .

How could you even think to ask him do such things like have you lost your sensibility?

You want him to iron his clothes and burn his hand?
For god sake sonakshi didn't ask a toddler to iron the clothes . Dev is an adult , what is wrong in asking a 25+ year man to remove the stains from his shirt and iron it .

Many people thought that Sonakshi just asked him to arrange the ironed clothes.It is not true.

The way Dev still felt bad for his lie shows how noble he is and how much he love her.

Dev Dikshit who can opt for another shirt went to his mother and got his work done. How scared he is of Sonakshi that shows us.I pity you Dev, Kaha phas Gaya tu.
Arre yaar , this is his main problem . Dev and his puppy face . Grow up man . If you don't want to do the work suggested by Sonakshi just tell it openly rather than complaining and seeking help from your mother .
He can't take care of the simple chores like removing stains from his shirt , arranging his shelf , ironing clothes , ok , fine . I can understand , he is not used to do all this .
But if he don't want to do this , just share it openly like an adult rather than lying .

The way Sona argued certainly shows how adamant she is to make Dev do her wish.

She says Dev should have told her in the begining itself rather than going to his mother.

Dev should have made it clear even I feel but I am not sure Sonakshi will leave it there.
I am sure if he had made it clear that he can't and he don't want to do it , she will not argue with him on this matter.

On one hand she says he should be independent. On the other hand she says he should not call his mother but if he asked she would have helped. I feel she is not sure what she wants from him.

If she wants him to do such things she should have understood he can not do

If her problem is with Iswari then she herself should have done his work.
Exactly , I agree . Can we blame her for her confusion ? Cause Sonakshi dreamed to have a normal family life . But she got stuck in a family where the mother is obsessed with a dependent son , mami is obsessed with taunting and double meaning sentence , SIL is preoccupied with her not so pleasant past and husband is engrossed with meri maa ,meri maa.

Sorry Dev your mornings are getting spoiled by your too intelligent wife and you have to leave for work with a disturbed mind.

There are many posts saying Dev doesn't deserve Sona but I say Sonakshi doesn't deserve ,the noble,good at heart and lovable Dev Dikshit.
Now I am confused , is it a sarcastic post 😕

Originally posted by: yyy

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

My dear, marriage is not abt who is right or wrong ...there is no concept of perfect husband or wife or marriage...its more like a train...an engine and bogie...one person cant be the engine always ...sometimes the husband takes the role of an engine and wife follows...and sometimes wife takes the role of an engine and husband follows...it all depends on the strength and weakness of couple.

Regarding disagreements ...it should be there ...after all marriage is also about living with your loved ones flaws too...we should be able to speak to our spouse openly with out any inhibitions..we should be able to express all our emotions with out fear of him or her walking out of the relationship...

I really liked yesterdays episode because for the first time as a husband and wife they fought genuinely...😆👏 with out that fear ...which was good ...needed in a relationship...atleast now they know what to expect...there will be many more...infact bigger ones ...there can be separations too...but what matters is they dont hate each other !! and that is marriage !!

Originally posted by: Silambu

Loved your reply! There is no such thing as perfect marriage, hubby or wife! I loved yesterday's episode esp the argument scene...was really hubby wifey fight...and I was actually watching it with a grin...each said their point of view...that's communication...at least now each know what the other thinks about and all they have to do work on the issue how best to handle it...cant wait for more to come...

Separation big no for me...once was enough...this becomes an easy route...they need to face each other..to tackle the issues on hand.

Originally posted by: dhank

OMG u too..r just so awesome...I mean anything dev does there s huge rage...n sonakshi does d same IF going ga ga over it...anyway I m happy both of u did this post.👏..generally she is right but not always this managing stuff..yestdy I just loved dev he was his original self ...ye sab kaam karke saaf safai...oh good going I loved this dev...

@red..indirectly she says she is doing a favour???😲..

sorry..its not Q of boy / girl..some like some dont...being a girl TBH I dont like cooking n all...(sona was learning it baba was mad @ her..😡)however..I do know everything n do when needed..but come on there r likes n dislikes right???dev doesnt like still he gives a try poor thing burned hand..so in short instead of ma mama dev should ve done sona sona😆...conclusion ish sona both r control freak