Just Too much Sonakshi contd.Edited. - Page 2

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Great going Sonakshi. You should have married Ritwick who will have the whole life time to follow your instructions to the T. Why did you marry a business Tycoon whose daily schedule demands so much both physically and mentally? The meetings,conferences,deal fixings ... What not he will have that calls for his presence and I am sure Dev belongs to that category .

How could you even think to ask him do such things like have you lost your sensibility?

You want him to iron his clothes and burn his hand?

Many people thought that Sonakshi just asked him to arrange the ironed clothes.It is not true.

The way Dev still felt bad for his lie shows how noble he is and how much he love her.

Dev Dikshit who can opt for another shirt went to his mother and got his work done. How scared he is of Sonakshi that shows us.I pity you Dev, Kaha phas Gaya tu.

The way Sona argued certainly shows how adamant she is to make Dev do her wish.

She says Dev should have told her in the begining itself rather than going to his mother.

Dev should have made it clear even I feel but I am not sure Sonakshi will leave it there.

On one hand she says he should be independent. On the other hand she says he should not call his mother but if he asked she would have helped. I feel she is not sure what she wants from him.

If she wants him to do such things she should have understood he can not do

If her problem is with Iswari then she herself should have done his work.

Sorry Dev your mornings are getting spoiled by your too intelligent wife and you have to leave for work with a disturbed mind.

There are many posts saying Dev doesn't deserve Sona but I say Sonakshi doesn't deserve ,the noble,good at heart and lovable Dev Dikshit.

I totally agree with u! Sona going nuts .. she can't be right always
The problem is sona don't have major issues in life except taunting GKB
She don't have money problem... hubby is very caring ... yes agreed he's mama's boy but that's not a major issue so she has all time in the world to dictate Dev to follow her wAy ..,
The thing is Ishwari or Dev not expecting any thing out of sona to change .. that's the only issue sona having

really hope this is a sarcastic post. If so..👏

hi,

whether the post was meant in a sarcastic way or for a dig at sona , to me both are at fault.
It dont see this as a mere task and dev lying to her when he could not accomplish it. It is more deeper.

1. sona wants to create something that is unique to both of them, where only they have a privy to . he was dependent on his mom, and for the sake of his wife, learned to become independent. Sona gave him the objective/target but not the means and also she did not reveal the "real intentions" what propelled her to set this objective for him.

2. Dev he neither knows the "REAL OBJECTIVE" nor the means. as we all know dev only goes by what is told to him. he can never read in between the lines in any relationship. he is a total mess at handling them. he only knows he need to reach the objective, so yeah as always he does what ever it takes to reach it . that's been his motto in life right,?

these situations are the direct outcomes of the "missing conversations " . simple things like arranging a cupboard can teach how trivial things can also have a great impact on a relation if there is no proper communication.

Had sona told dev that she wants to create "memories" and dev becoming independent is the first step, i am pretty sure that Dev would have taken it more seriously and learnt it by now. :-)

same goes with Dev, had he approached sona when he first tumbled and had come clean with it, she would have been more than willing to teach him, infact she would have prided herself for this opportunity.

Lakshmi, I have always tried to understand your perspective but have never been successful. Now I have accepted that may be I never will. 😳

@randomramblings
Well written dear. Can't agree more. Open communication was the highlight of Dev n Sona. Both have started hiding things and stopped communicating. They are allowing third party interference in their relationship which is big no. Looks like they need reminder on what they mean to each other.

Originally posted by: randomramblings

hi,

whether the post was meant in a sarcastic way or for a dig at sona , to me both are at fault.
It dont see this as a mere task and dev lying to her when he could not accomplish it. It is more deeper.

1. sona wants to create something that is unique to both of them, where only they have a privy to . he was dependent on his mom, and for the sake of his wife, learned to become independent. Sona gave him the objective/target but not the means and also she did not reveal the "real intentions" what propelled her to set this objective for him.

2. Dev he neither knows the "REAL OBJECTIVE" nor the means. as we all know dev only goes by what is told to him. he can never read in between the lines in any relationship. he is a total mess at handling them. he only knows he need to reach the objective, so yeah as always he does what ever it takes to reach it . that's been his motto in life right,?

these situations are the direct outcomes of the "missing conversations " . simple things like arranging a cupboard can teach how trivial things can also have a great impact on a relation if there is no proper communication.

Had sona told dev that she wants to create "memories" and dev becoming independent is the first step, i am pretty sure that Dev would have taken it more seriously and learnt it by now. :-)

same goes with Dev, had he approached sona when he first tumbled and had come clean with it, she would have been more than willing to teach him, infact she would have prided herself for this opportunity.

@shaavi
Beautiful perspective 👏

I respect people's view and usually think there are 2 sides to a coin and every story has 2 side, etc.. The point is I respect your view on how you might think Sonakshi is forcing her views and ideas on Dev and how that is unreasonable.

What I am writing here is to help you clear your misconception that just because he is a business tycoon ironing his clothes or organising his clothes would demean him. Perhaps the world you are in and the exposure you have had is much smaller than mine.
I come from a family where all children were made to do our clothes and tidy our stuff from when we were 6. I grew up in India but we never had a maid. Not that we couldn't afford - my dad was a high flying accountant. Dad swept the house every morning before work, it was his job to bathe us and get us ready for school until we went to year 6. Mum took care of the kitchen and she was a housewife.

I married a 'mamma's boy'. He comes from a family where boys don't lift their fingers for anything. We started life together in a foreign land and while he was scared to touch the microwave and worried how to find a cleaner; he was surprised that I could clean the bathroom, toilet, cook and get myself to work (we were colleagues!) and keep our home organised. We had a child at 23 and nothing phases me! He is quite a successful entrepreneur now (and I still have a decent job) but 4 mornings a week, he walks the dogs, gets the children ready for school, makes breakfast and packs lunch for all of us. I look after the children's education, dinner and all bills. While I make sure clothes are washed and ironed, its his job to put them away. We find the time. There is nothing demeaning about doing your own job. If anything organising yourself, knowing how to clean your mess is the one lesson we all need to know before we run a business or rule the world.

I do see your point that, maybe Sonakshi is coming across too strong because of her insecurities but please don't rule out the fact that cleaning up after oneself is an important skill which Dev lacks and he has to learn pronto! In my POV, thats the skill Ishwari should have taught him.

Originally posted by: ifuser

I totally agree with u! Sona going nuts .. she can't be right always
The problem is sona don't have major issues in life except taunting GKB
She don't have money problem... hubby is very caring ... yes agreed he's mama's boy but that's not a major issue so she has all time in the world to dictate Dev to follow her wAy ..,
The thing is Ishwari or Dev not expecting any thing out of sona to change .. that's the only issue sona having

Well said.She has all the time in the world to dictate Dev that too when he has to hurry up to attend his work.

@ PKB Das