Just Too much Sonakshi contd.Edited. - Page 6

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

@ BOLD ...true,,that one I forgot ...

I guess, in the precap they showed a car came and stopped near Sonakshi. A driver came out... May be it seems Dev did send the car to pick Sonakshi...

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

@ BOLD ...true,,that one I forgot ...

Originally posted by: Meera_Ka_Mohan

I guess, in the precap they showed a car came and stopped near Sonakshi. A driver came out... May be it seems Dev did send the car to pick Sonakshi...

I hope he goes. I liked this show because they never left any open tracks except for khatri. Everything was dealt writhing a few episodes. Now they are dragging the show by showing illogical things. Nobody seems to care for the new bahu! Also what was the purpose of the chooha?

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

<font color="#ff00ff">The precaps are just that. Precaps. We'll see tomorrow. If you ask me, he will go this time. </font>

No precaps usually just burst our happy bubbles and never sad ones... He will say he will go and get sonakshi but ishwari will say what is the need for u to go... Driver can go get her... Dev being not even born yet will not say a word against his mom's faisala sunao session

Wasn't she ready to move on with Rithvik when very busy businesss tycoon used to leave all his important meeting and conferences just to stalk her?

Originally posted by: Gita_N

Totally agree with you. It is absolutely fine for a husband and wife to share the household chores but with some consideration. If they both go to work, work timing is by and largepredictable and have no other support system at home, yes, the work has to be appropriately shared. There is no second thought about it. But when her husband is such a busy person who has to run a company, who cannot obviously stick to a routine, I am sorry; I don't understand why Sona is not considerate about him.

Till now i don't understand what is wrong in taking help from a mother in law who is ready to help in taking care of house hold routines. In fact, elderly people feel very comfortable and important by taking responsibility of such small works. What do we really mean by dependence and independence? In our family, all of us share the work according to what comes easily and naturally for each person. Thus, some of the tasks are taken care by my MIL. When she is not at home, we are still able to deal with those works also. It is not dependency; rather it is a team work. Even if it has to be termed as dependency, what is wrong in being dependent on your own people? Not everyone is all that lucky; just thank God and enjoy your good fortune. There is absolutely no need to feel guilty about it. In my personal opinion, it is more important to be together as one family where everyone feels inclusive irrespective of age and gender than being independent. This is the beauty of joint family system. This suggestion also applies to those who are reluctant to include the Bahu even in important discussions.

In the wardrobe maintenance case, may be Ishwari felt that as her son goes to work to earn for the bread and butter of the family, she would take care of household works to share the load. This is absolutely fine, right? For that matter even Sona did not even know to make a sandwich for a guest who happened to come home in the absence of her mother. So what? Just like she didn't have the inclination to learn to make even minimal food, Dev didn't have any inclination to learn to fold his clothes or arrange his cupboard. Big deal!! When situation demands, people learn the necessary things naturally!!!

I have my own soft corner for Sona and on certain occasions felt irritated with Ishwari but in this particular scenario, I felt Sona was just trying to take control over Dev and looked like a mellowed down version of Ishwari. Sometimes, before we blame a liar, we should also think if the fellow lied just like that or by any chance we had induced any fear in his/her mind that forced the person to lie and escape the situation.

I see u r an ardent dev fan.. but i feel in tofays world there is nothing wrong in doing ur own things..

And for me dev treats sona like a trophy .. a possession.. not as a human with whom he has to share his life..