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Posted: 8 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Did we really think Mr.Nappy-pads is a Shravan Kumar ? 😲😳

R.I.P Shravan Kumar 💔


Oh God what a name?🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev is really messing with my tolerance levels. I made a post few days ago - withthe example of the movie Baahubali. Dev is like the brother of baahubali - who only wants to reach the goal and doesnt really care how he gets there and how many innocent ppl he will kill on the way..but bahubali cares about saving innocents inaddition to reaching the goal.

After the last two days, i started questioning why dev married sona ? I can understand a husband behaving like this initially if it is an arranged marriage. But dev literally died to get sona back in him life or actually to stop sona from moving on.

We have seen dev as selfish person when his mom and family comes into picture right from episode 1. But I am disgusted by the only answer i could come up with when i question myself why did he need her so badly and why did he marry her??

As of now, all i have seen is him screaming at her when he doesnt like her opinion, disrespecting her family while teying to please his mom and ofcourse the very old not shutting up the taunts by gkb.

He cares for her and her family but is not consistent and even when he doesn't have to choose one over the other - he made a point to not consider their feelings as his and his moms rishtha is khaas ...and doesnt have to follow the norm

So for me Dev is the rootcause for all the problems - he reinforces ishwari's behaviour and insecurities by readily agreeing that he is the one who made a mistake and does exactly what ishwari wants...

This is very similar to giving in to the tantrums of a toddler. It is not going to help the kid (ishwari) and it is just going to make the life hell and stressful for the parent (dev)

I would really slap sona left and right if she stays quiet today .. To hell with that stupid jhoola , gets these other problems fixed first.
Edited by dlavanya - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#23
Oh ok. Yes, I agree. The reason we are feeling the pain more because Asha is the most compassionate and kind person on this show. She is the perfect mother along with Dida. She even extended that kindness to Ishwari who is a selfish woman. And because of that shitty lady, Dev is going to hurt Asha. That is why it's so painful to watch.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

No, I was referring to the aunty precap and trying get ahead of myself

Dont know why, Asha's involvement makes this whole topic more traumatic

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Posted: 8 years ago
#24
I know I may be bashed for saying this but wanna share a personal funny experience while watching this show.
I usually watch this show along with my neighbour's SIL once we both are back from our work.

Few days back when there was scene going on when Ishwari was restless as Dev was in Bose house to bring Sona back and Dev was also seen restless as he forgot to personally inform his Mommy dear..His phone ran out of battery.. Even though he informed Neha

My neighbour's SIL got so much frustrated with restlessness of both Dev and Ishwari that she commented

" Jaa Bete ghus ja waapas Maa k pet me, you rightfully belong there"
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Oh I agree. I never said Sona was not equally responsible for her situation for jumping into marriage. Sona is author of her own misfortune and she is paying for that. But the unfortunate thing is that Asha trusted Dev when she told her daughter to take a chance with him and he is going to hurt that one person who trusted Dev when no one was willing to even give him any chances. What kind of ungrateful person does that?

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

What we also need to remind ourselves is that while Dev needed a friend (and subconsciously wasyearning for one), Sona couldnt wait for her Mr right either (she chose the wrong guy or not is a different topic)... So they were both as bad as each other

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Shravan Kumar ki atma abhi zinda hota to yeh sunke suicide kar leta.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Did we really think Mr.Nappy-pads is a Shravan Kumar ? 😲😳

R.I.P Shravan Kumar 💔

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Posted: 8 years ago
#27
Great post and all the replies too.
You will make a great parent whenever that happens :)
Dev is the biggest culprit and proved to be a total rubbish guy. Sona should follow the path of indifference and get on with her life with the Boses and her career as her priorities and support.
And ishwari - only come in contact with a bargepole!

She should travel around the world, go to Paris either alone or with her amazing family. Screw you Dev!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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100% on point. You are absolutely right Lavanya. Dev is the rootcause of all problems.

As Sabita mentioned from her experience, she faced a similar situation. But what helped her was her husband's love and support to form the bridge between her and her mother-in-law.

And even I mentioned many times, if the husband joins his honour and respect with his wife, instead of standing out of the line of fire and watch his wife being humiliated, none of his family member would dare insult his wife for fear of alienating him.

But Dev is the one who is letting this disgusting emotional and mental abuse continue. He is the cause of all problems.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Dev is really messing with my tolerance levels. I made a post few days ago - withthe example of the movie Baahubali. Dev is like the brother of baahubali - who only wants to reach the goal and doesnt really care how he gets there and how many innocent ppl he will kill on the way..but bahubali cares about saving innocents inaddition to reaching the goal.

After the last two days, i started questioning why dev married sona ? I can understand a husband behaving like this initially if it is an arranged marriage. But dev literally died to get sona back in him life or actually to stop sona from moving on.

We have seen dev as selfish person when his mom and family comes into picture right from episode 1. But I am disgusted by the only answer i could come up with when i question myself why did he need her so badly and why did he marry her??

As of now, all i have seen is him screaming at her when he doesnt like her opinion, disrespecting her family while teying to please his mom and ofcourse the very old not shutting up the taunts by gkb.

He cares for her and her family but is not consistent and even when he doesn't have to choose one over the other - he made a point to not consider their feelings as his and his moms rishtha is khaas ...and doesnt have to follow the norm

So for me Dev is the rootcause for all the problems - he reinforces ishwari's behaviour and insecurities by readily agreeing that he is the one who made a mistake and does exactly what ishwari wants...

This is very similar to giving in to the tantrums of a toddler. It is not going to help the kid (ishwari) and it is just going to make the life hell and stressful for the parent (dev)

I would really slap sona left and right if she stays quiet today .. To hell with that stupid jhoola , gets these other problems fixed first.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shilky88

I know I may be bashed for saying this but wanna share a personal funny experience while watching this show.

I usually watch this show along with my neighbour's SIL once we both are back from our work.

Few days back when there was scene going on when Ishwari was restless as Dev was in Bose house to bring Sona back and Dev was also seen restless as he forgot to personally inform his Mommy dear..His phone ran out of battery.. Even though he informed Neha

My neighbour's SIL got so much frustrated with restlessness of both Dev and Ishwari that she commented

" Jaa Bete ghus ja waapas Maa k pet me, you rightfully belong there"



Can't stop laughing.. Hilarious!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ha ha... Your neighbour is funny... That was hilarious... 😆


Originally posted by: Shilky88

I know I may be bashed for saying this but wanna share a personal funny experience while watching this show.

I usually watch this show along with my neighbour's SIL once we both are back from our work.

Few days back when there was scene going on when Ishwari was restless as Dev was in Bose house to bring Sona back and Dev was also seen restless as he forgot to personally inform his Mommy dear..His phone ran out of battery.. Even though he informed Neha

My neighbour's SIL got so much frustrated with restlessness of both Dev and Ishwari that she commented

" Jaa Bete ghus ja waapas Maa k pet me, you rightfully belong there"

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