Selfish!!! EDITED: Today's Thoughts Page 1 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Jessicafang

he and his mum are so sick.

Originally posted by: tia.o

Thank you. Here's my opinion.

I don't know about Ishwari's background. I have no doubt it was sad and rough. But it's in our own hand to stop cycle of abuse.

If my mother-in-law behaved like Ishwari, I'd still won't behave like that with my own daughter-in-law because I personally know how it feels. That's compassion.

My daughter-in-law would be someone's cherished child, someone's loving sister and most importantly, my own son's life partner. Treating her with disrespect will not only hurt her, but will also hurt my son. That's motherhood.

As a mother who loves her son, I can't be the cause of hurt or bitterness in my son's relationship. If I try to control my son's life and keep hurting his wife to boost my ego, then I am selfish. I am not a mother who wants her child to be happy.

Hence the title of my post.

Some of this is very straight forward... some isn't.

The swing incident has summed up this love triangle so well. He makes her a promise, she takes it on face value (pretty much), and he doesn't like it but bears it. She now isn't sure she did the right thing so seeks the approval of his mother. Who then tells her he may not like it and tells him he should bear it for her. He agrees but doesn't tell his mother he was anyways going to bear with it

If there is one person who learnt something from the break-up or better still from the post binge drinking verbal diarrhoea its Ishwari. Who also needs frequent reminders that while your son may be securely tied to the umbilical cord, there is a dor tying him to another lady. She knows this lady sets her son free of all ties

What Dev and Sona took from the break-up is that they both can't bear to stay away from each other. What they should have learnt from the break is that while they have a strong romantic bond (it's definitely there) and that initial attraction was also partly looks/tashan. Eventually, you guys became friends. Sona kept getting attracted towards Dev's looks and his concern for his family and friends. But what kept them wanting to talk to each other was their friendship.

Can I say something... Asha's bday cake was a turning point in Sona's mind about how she perceived Mr Dev Dixit... closely followed by how he came running to check on them when she sent his a text saying "h"... annnd... what do we have today... He will (accidentally?) call Asha aunty... Will this be the turning point in sona's mind about how she is disillusioned about the troubles in her marriage and that there are deep running undercurrents?

Originally posted by: gemini54

I concur with Tia's opinion. Geena you brought up a great point of cycle of abuse. In my opinion the cycle will continue unless someone takes a stand to break it. You cannot use the excuse of my MIL abused me so I am abusing my DIL.

My MIL and I had our differences when we began our marriage because she was very conservative and I was modern but with my husbands support and the love and respect we built for each other she became like a mother to me . She was pretty strict with her other DIL I was her youngest but after we started building a relationship she changed the way she was with them as well so the cycle has to break and people involved have to take the initiative to do so.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Some of this is very straight forward... some isn't.

The swing incident has summed up this love triangle so well. He makes her a promise, she takes it on face value (pretty much), and he doesn't like it but bears it. She now isn't sure she did the right thing so seeks the approval of his mother. Who then tells her he may not like it and tells him he should bear it for her. He agrees but doesn't tell his mother he was anyways going to bear with it

If there is one person who learnt something from the break-up or better still from the post binge drinking verbal diarrhoea its Ishwari. Who also needs frequent reminders that while your son may be securely tied to the umbilical cord, there is a dor tying him to another lady. She knows this lady sets her son free of all ties

What Dev and Sona took from the break-up is that they both can't bear to stay away from each other. What they should have learnt from the break is that while they have a strong romantic bond (it's definitely there) and that initial attraction was also partly looks/tashan. Eventually, you guys became friends. Sona kept getting attracted towards Dev's looks and his concern for his family and friends. But what kept them wanting to talk to each other was their friendship.

Can I say something... Asha's bday cake was a turning point in Sona's mind about how she perceived Mr Dev Dixit... closely followed by how he came running to check on them when she sent his a text saying "h"... annnd... what do we have today... He will (accidentally?) call Asha aunty... Will this be the turning point in sona's mind about how she is disillusioned about the troubles in her marriage and that there are deep running undercurrents?

Originally posted by: tia.o

Is the written update posted already? I haven't read the written update yet. I will respond to you once I read it.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Did we really think Mr.Nappy-pads is a Shravan Kumar ? 😲😳

R.I.P Shravan Kumar 💔