A day to forget or remember ? - Page 6

Originally posted by: Sargesh

Don't know about others but I deleted the recorded episode from live tv.😡

Originally posted by: supercool3

The forum is on fire today, and so are you! But rightfully so! 😆

I really disliked Dev's dialogue today. But I would've been expecting a miracle had I dared hope for something different from him. I mean, this is Dev Dixit right? Complicated and Impulsive! Plus, when has rational thinking ever been his forte when it came to emotional decisions 😆 Of course, all this still isn't an excuse for his behaviour.

At the same time, I do still see this as progress. I know it seems a bit out of the blue, especially when we look at the way Dev had evolved after getting married. But sometimes in order to truly test the progress, one needs to be brought back to square one again. And that's exactly what happened with Dev today.

There definitely is a similarity between the current episodes and the ones prior to break-up. Especially with the way Dev gets "carried away" with everything related to Sonakshi, and then comes running back to his mother to do damage control. But, it's the experiences leading up to these events that will make the difference.

Previously, Sonakshi was his girlfriend, someone who resided outside of his house, and with whose family he had minimal interaction. Now she is his wife, who lives with him in his house and his room. Plus, he's getting an opportunity to see the Bose family from a closer perspective. On top of that, his own mother told him that he has responsibilities towards Sonakshi as well as she is his wife now during the Diwali episode (which btw makes total sense now; smart move by the CVs!). He's going to learn it the hard way that his unilateral decisions will have a direct impact on Sonakshi, whether he likes it or not. He may be able to shield her away from the turbulence caused by his family members, but he won't be able to shield her from himself. In Sona's words, it's only Dev that can hurt her the most. The more Ish keeps pushing him to abide by her rules, the more unhappier that Sonakshi's going to get, and the more frustration that will continue to build inside Dev when he starts seeing himself as the cause for Sona's misery.

I am in no way defending Dev Dixit though 😆 But after initially being disappointed with the episode, I think I tried to make sense of what the makers are up to especially with the turn of events this week compared to last.The only sad part is, Sonakshi's at the crux of this issue along with Dev and this will have some severe impact on her, which I honestly hate to see 🤔 What to do though, she signed up for this when she said she's ready for this relationship with Dev after he told her he's complicated.

But Sonakshi is Sonakshi. She may seem meek now, but she'll know when to show the mirror to Dev, and how to hold her head up high when required. I have that much faith in her. 😎

Originally posted by: AnanyaGhosh

Deepa di... I wll say wait fr tdays epi.. I m sure we wll get more of it... D scene was nt ovr thr.. Thr wll be a continuation.. Cvs r nt mad dey wll show such scene.. Dey kno very well dat if dey show dis dey wll loose audience and evry1 wll blame dem... Lets see wht turns out... And den comment sirf kuch ghanto ka intezaar hai... Phir jitna gussa ya maafi dalni hai daal dena.. My pov strictly

Originally posted by: Agrata23

hi deepa happy to see ur post today..forum is on fire..hopefully we will reach our old position in IF..very much disappointed with dev..but it is the hard reality of our society even today this problem exist in joint families in our country..its sad but true

Originally posted by: GeekSquad

Ishwariji stop trying to play Maya's role from Beyhadh. One Maya is enough for us.

Originally posted by: DevakshiCrazy

Dev is just his mom's puppet
Vicky was rght he only knows to say haa maa n na maa

Originally posted by: Krpkab_superfan

This forum is on fire just like all our emotions are today! I sort of liked the episode today until the last 10 seconds.. now we know how much impact a short scene can have..

What surprises me though is the extreme reaction.. like some of the others said on the forum, south indian boys usually do not call their inlaws as mom or dad (in whatever form).. if they do, then there are some radha rani type characters who usually disturb the sanity of a happily married couples life.. and I have seen this across family and friends.. maybe things are changing now.. but its not the norm.. that does not mean there is no respect for the inlaws...its just a guy's way of managing the insecurity and buying peace in a household..

I know what Dev did was bad... start calling someone ma and then stop it.. I am so curious to see what he is going to call Asha ma now.. just for our sadistic pleasure, I wish he calls her something better than Maa.. something that signifies friendship because lets all face it.. now I do not want him to use the same word to address Asha (who is such a positive fun influence on his life) the same word to address Ishwari (who signifies everything toxic and controlling in his life). Let him call her something better, have a better relationship with her and one day just move in as ghar jamai..then Ishwari will learn that its not how someone is addressed that matters, its the space, love, trust and understanding in a relationship that is important.. none of which she gives Dev anyway...Lets wait and see what the CVs have in store today...

and would love to hear from the ladies in whose families boys generally do not call their inlaws ma/papa..

Wow.. enough of ranting.. now we also have an answer to why Shaheer decided to make the Indo trip.. he must have been genuinely scared of what will happen once this scene airs.. if any of our IF ladies manage to catch him on the road 😆.. The irony of the situation is that Supriyaji is not his/Erica's real mother and both of them call her Ma 😉