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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: Shilky88
🤗😃👏Nice post Deepa and welcome back 🤗 😃👏
Since you are not regular nowadays so I take pleasure in welcoming you again and again!😛

Today is the episode that I would definitely ,100 % sure never wanna look back.
For once I felt if there has been an editing mistake or a blooper as they say😭
But Nah...Dev did this in the name of unquestionable, unreasonable and groundless service to his GOD!
I take pride in saying that..I hate you for this Dev! Period

Coming to Mama's example wrt Hindu mythology -
To be frank I don't really abide by what was right and what was wrong in all the yugs gone-by.
With each by-gone yugs and ages the severity of misconduct ,wrong doings and crime increases ----and thus the extent of patience and punishment.
This in turn will call for a new set of rules and principles.

how can we still blindly follow what was fair at that point ?

with due to respect to our hindu mythology and the various learning it has left for us.
I feel it is totally fair to appreciate and respect what all was written and said about our Gods,diety and heroes and how their acts, thinking, judgement have become equitable in their respective yugs.
But at times it becomes unfair to apply same set of principles and fundamentals in today's modern world wherein we have a different levels of sins all together.

But just for the sake of justifying myself according to Hindu Mythology only--
we have 330 millions Gods with different names and each one is rightfully and concurrently called as Devi or Devta.
If GOD doesn't take offense in their simultaneous existence and being referred by same word then whats wrong with Dev's very own GOD- Ishwari?

Hahahha I need this warm and sweet welcome today😆 Thank you my dear 🤗 Guess not just good episodes but extreme disappointment too can't keep me away from forum😆

How I wish the last 10 seconds is all a dream that too Ishwari's and I can go back to my happy place of trusting Devakshi's love conquering all😳 because the episode was pretty decent till the last few seconds ruining all

Can't agree more with your views on mythology though its a very sensitive topic to discuss. I am a traditional person too but not blind to follow.

Ishwari can be God to Dev but she doesn't fit my belief of universal power where I can attain salvation.. She can get my sympathy and concern and help but not devotion 😳!!

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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: sjain
Hey good to see you here today :) forum is on fire..

I am disturbed by various responses here ..and dont know how to react..some really extreme ones ..even you are quite angry..and I understand it completely ..no hope for any positivity tonight LOL sighh

But it hurts more then what Dev said.. the kind of hate I see is more heartbreaking..specially loosing faith from Dev Sona..or not enjoying Devakshi anymore..

Not gonna have peaceful sleep tonight sighh

BTW I like your post as always <3 ..you write so well :)

Can't blame the forum dear😆

Don't worry swthrt, one sane episode all will be fine though it might take some time to see Dev in same light as before after today because this statement made a huge crack in his foundation of love for Sona and it will take some time to bind again😳 The main reason I made the post is to let out, so I can move forward rather than holding the grudge..

Hope you are sleeping nicely and may you have a fresh morning 🤗 Thank you as always😃

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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: Maya_Dutt
Thank you Deepa for making this post today. I watched the episode just now and wished if you would have made a post to throw some postivity in here :) and tada..i come to the forum and see your post
For me today Dev's action was worse than the breakup...it is that ugly and you are right it really touched me also in a personal way. I hope this opens up eyes of lots of mothers who do the same thing to their sons. As soon as son stays in wifes house for a few days on holiday or a function the mothers insecurity starts and they leave no opportunity to show displeasure like Ishwari..I have seen so many instances such as this and I kind of loose respect for such people.

Maa is the purest form of calling any lady with love and repsect.. I even call some of my closest friends moms as maa.. Its just the best way to address when you love them immensely. Dev didnt think even for a second that Sona started calling his mom ma even before marriage.
I do not think Sona will come to know of this soon as else we would have seen her bengal tigress form in tomorrow precap. I hope she doesnt witness this talk between son and maa as something in her might die beyond repair. Imagine any girl listening to this !!
A big hug to you tooo...

So sorry you couldn't get any positivity today in the post Maya 😛

The hurt is mainly because Dev's statement is not because of Ishwari's manipulation but because of his own investigation and intelligence. How I wish he showed this same smartness in other things too As you said, even I have been in that place of MILs filling husband's ears against parents and it is not pleasant at all to relive that🥱 I definitely don't want Sona to go through that excruciating pain especially after she have beared so much for Dev's sake.

I wouldn't have any issue Dev calling Asha even Aunty from start but how will he justify that now after calling her Maa umpteen times and feeding her and giving the hope that he is indeed another son who will stand by their daughter thick and skin. He have a tough task cut out now, better buckle up😆

Lets hug it out with the belief that tomorrow is going to be a good day 🤗

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Sunny

@desigirl987

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Posted: 8 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: deepsel

I couldn't control Sunny 🤗 This is little personal for me because it remained me of a day when I took a stand with my in-laws for my parents for the first time and the scars are still fresh. Sona just doesn't want to believe she is unwanted in the family after being begged to be part of this same family, so I won't blame her for trying hard , infact glad she asked some right questions and atleast she is showing the right growth starting from her room though her constant nagging is annoying. I am more pissed because the guy whom I had immense trust after the recent episodes, who showed immense patience and maturity in handling both sides suddenly changed into that 8 yr old boy again in front of his mother blinding everyone else. I would have been happy and understood and even defended him if he stopped with " I am sorry I hurt you Maa and here after will make sure you are not disappointed at all" but instead when he said explicitly " I won't call Asha as Maa either" he just insulted the love and care given by Boses. It might take sometime for me to look at Dev the same way because I just saw the old glimpse of my husband years back and it sure took years to get my thoughts together😆

P.S Ayan really looked cute and am looking forward to some positivities from his side because Ria deserves the best😊

I know dear , even Mamaji would not have expected Dev to do this, I think even Ishwari needed only a reassurance of her place in his life , even if new relations and bonds are formed in his life . But this guy goes to extreme and give another promise , seriously he has to stop giving promises to his loved ones !!! And about Sona , she could have easily questioned Ishwari after that emotional talk about her struggle and work , as the financial and work situations are not the same . Also being Sona , without hurting Ishwari she could have asked whether she wanted her to be just like Ishwari who could not give time for her family and still regret it !!! Anyway I'm happy with the precap , Sona may need to take some drastic steps for Dev to come out of his trance, some people choose to learn the hard way !!! I'm glad you tuk the stand for your family dear , respect 👏 !!! I also have something personal with this "maa" thing but nothing like yours, its about me learning some lessons !!! Our first fight after marriage was also related with this , after marriage . like Dev-Sona we had decided to call each other parent's as mom dad prefixing our place to avoid confusion when we talk . And we were having an argument about something ,n being a little possessive and proud daughter ,I was explaining how differently the issue would be handled in my house and was being a little critical about the way the issue was handled in his house , and in between I used "your mom n dad" . Even though we came upon a solution and ended the argument , my use of "your" hurt him badly and me being dumb as Dev tuk some time to figure it out but he admitted it later . I was really embarrassed and apologized and never did the mistake again till now . My point is even if we say something in the spur of a moment , it would hurt our partners badly when it comes to family especially if they are considering yours and his as their own . And here if Sona learns about this incident , I cannot imagine the hurt it would cause her . I still remember how proud Dev was, listening to Sona's "I dont think now we have to differentiate between yours and my mom" during their courtship period .

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Silambu

@Silambu

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Posted: 8 years ago

#35

Unbelievable! CVS have made Dev the lowest of the low. I truly didnt expect this! I was stunned and still am...totally unnecessary and uncalled for !

I cannot find any rationale on him assuring ISHU that he will NOT call Asha as his MA

What the bloody hell, will Ranveer and this new son in law will call her.? " Hey u"?

This is not about any insecurities anymore...a real sickness - a mental illness where Ish needs severe electric treatment and to be put in a straight jacket with no escape and ...maybe hate to say this..but Dev too needs some shock wave therapy.

Actually I want him to fall flat on his face tripping over the swing and break his teeth! I am sooo angry!

This Mamaji also needs a good tight slap. I recall him saying something to Dev during the break upthat Ish does not like him with Sona and now with again. Maybe his intentions were good but he needs to spell it our clearly word by word to Dev, as Dev doesnt act but reacts first!

Mamaji vocabulary needs to improve for his wife rather than " Chup Kar Radha Rani"...he needs to use his palms to shut her up!

I dont know what to say...deeply disappointed with the CVs for doing this!

Oh by the way, I liked your GIF!😆

Edited by Silambu - 8 years ago

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Sargesh mehta

@Sargesh

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Posted: 8 years ago

#36

Don't know about others but I deleted the recorded episode from live tv.😡

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supercool3

@supercool3

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Posted: 8 years ago

#37

The forum is on fire today, and so are you! But rightfully so! 😆

I really disliked Dev's dialogue today. But I would've been expecting a miracle had I dared hope for something different from him. I mean, this is Dev Dixit right? Complicated and Impulsive! Plus, when has rational thinking ever been his forte when it came to emotional decisions 😆 Of course, all this still isn't an excuse for his behaviour.

At the same time, I do still see this as progress. I know it seems a bit out of the blue, especially when we look at the way Dev had evolved after getting married. But sometimes in order to truly test the progress, one needs to be brought back to square one again. And that's exactly what happened with Dev today.

There definitely is a similarity between the current episodes and the ones prior to break-up. Especially with the way Dev gets "carried away" with everything related to Sonakshi, and then comes running back to his mother to do damage control. But, it's the experiences leading up to these events that will make the difference.

Previously, Sonakshi was his girlfriend, someone who resided outside of his house, and with whose family he had minimal interaction. Now she is his wife, who lives with him in his house and his room. Plus, he's getting an opportunity to see the Bose family from a closer perspective. On top of that, his own mother told him that he has responsibilities towards Sonakshi as well as she is his wife now during the Diwali episode (which btw makes total sense now; smart move by the CVs!). He's going to learn it the hard way that his unilateral decisions will have a direct impact on Sonakshi, whether he likes it or not. He may be able to shield her away from the turbulence caused by his family members, but he won't be able to shield her from himself. In Sona's words, it's only Dev that can hurt her the most. The more Ish keeps pushing him to abide by her rules, the more unhappier that Sonakshi's going to get, and the more frustration that will continue to build inside Dev when he starts seeing himself as the cause for Sona's misery.

I am in no way defending Dev Dixit though 😆 But after initially being disappointed with the episode, I think I tried to make sense of what the makers are up to especially with the turn of events this week compared to last.The only sad part is, Sonakshi's at the crux of this issue along with Dev and this will have some severe impact on her, which I honestly hate to see 🤔 What to do though, she signed up for this when she said she's ready for this relationship with Dev after he told her he's complicated.

But Sonakshi is Sonakshi. She may seem meek now, but she'll know when to show the mirror to Dev, and how to hold her head up high when required. I have that much faith in her. 😎

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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish
It was indeed sad day for krpkab. cv's made Dev character so week.
You have pointed out interesting thing that Dev notices his mother not happy within a day..but how come he is not realising sona's feeling even after she was vocal about her feelings. I think Dev deliberately ignoring her feelings.

I was adoring devakshi as couple. After today's scene, I don't think I will be able to connect them.

If its not a dream I will happily cut and chop that last scene from my KRPKAB love dairy😆. I really hope Dev is oblivious of other things instead of deliberately ignoring Sona's feelings because that will totally ruin Dev for me.

Thats my major concern too. Now everytime Dev tries to cheer Sona up or do sweet talk this dialog will obviously pop up for me. I still have hope for them but it surely will take time to regain that old faith.

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AnanyaGhosh

@AnanyaGhosh

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Posted: 8 years ago

#39

Deepa di... I wll say wait fr tdays epi.. I m sure we wll get more of it... D scene was nt ovr thr.. Thr wll be a continuation.. Cvs r nt mad dey wll show such scene.. Dey kno very well dat if dey show dis dey wll loose audience and evry1 wll blame dem... Lets see wht turns out... And den comment sirf kuch ghanto ka intezaar hai... Phir jitna gussa ya maafi dalni hai daal dena.. My pov strictly

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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen
Deepa , the daughter in me doesn't take offence when my husband refers to my parents as mummy ji and papaji. I do the same. The offensive thing is, changing to something else just to keep your mother happy. How many promises will he break? Was this all a trap to fasaofy sona?

Exactly DQ, I tried to convey the same. But the daughter in me took so much offense when my husband stopped calling my parents even Aunty and Uncle (in South India men rarely call them Maa and papa) suddenly after hearing a earful from in-laws and thats the result of today's outburst because I definitely didn't expect this from Dev. I can see only one thing, both mother and son spiraling down fast for Sona to raise up and show her tigress face, and now am all up for it.

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