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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona, you have a heart of gold and like most women, no one has to teach you how to forget your own happiness for other's whim.

But I am older than you. So let me give you an advice. Price of generosity is never appreciation from ungrateful people.

Dev took the decision on his own because he knew you will be hurt, but like always you will sacrifice your happiness and be understanding. Then he can say, "You are the best. Thanks for letting me take advantage of your generosity and sacrifice your happiness once again on my mother's whim." Then you will hug each other, fangirls will cheer on romantic moments and...

And you will still be HEARTBROKEN!!!

That's my darling, is the price of generosity.

Then you get a bonus. Tomorrow, Neha can accuse you of accusing her for Dev not going to honeymoon because Ishwari fell sick. Extremely confusing logic I must say.

So you not only pay your generosity the price of happiness, you also get to be accused for accusing Neha which you didn't do while everyone gets to watch you again in accused stand. That's should be actually your permanent spot where rest of the Dixit family gets to flog your dignity every time they feel like it.

What a great family, I must say. Now this is called a LOVE MARRIAGE.

And Dev, you should forget your Goddess with her selfish nature and worship your wife. Sorry, you are not even in equal status with her anymore. She has far exceeded you in every way.

And please, stop feeling guilty for the same mistakes over and over again. It defeats the purpose of guilt. Someone who feels true guilt, never repeats that mistake again. You have repeated the mistakes too many times to be a one time thing and be a coincidence. Now it's deliberately taking your wife's generous nature for granted.

And if you dare to be silent tomorrow and not shut your sister's mouth for daring to point finger at your wife in HER home, I am sorry, you nor your family deserves her.

Ishwari, that was masterclass in acting. All you have to do is fast and fall sick and your puppet starts dancing to your tune.

It's not enough that every single person is there to take care of your low BP which proper diet will fix tomorrow, but Dev needs the convenient scapegoat Sona to take care of you and then take care of him and then take care of everyone else.

Mamaji, no matter what you say, Ishwari got Dev trained like a whipped puppy and he will do the exact tricks in exact command as he has been taught.

I just wish you didn't include an innocent woman to play the fool in your circus...

P.S. I don't blame Sona for the steps she took. She did what she could in the circumstances she found herself in. But you know the saying that throwing pearl to a monkey is useless? Doing a good deed in Dixit family is the same futile experience.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bang on Tia!!!
Sonakshi dear-run for your life. Run back to work ASAP!!!! If you miss the Dixits-take Ria and Mamaji, they are the only semi decent ones. The rest are all 😒

Actually, my dream for Sonakshi is that she goes back to work and finds out that she needs to travel to Paris for her work---and then flies away from the Dixit madhouse for a long while and get the chance to go around Paris...that would be perfect to me. Dev can miss her and generally become a donkey to his now completely healthy and hearty mother and suffer a complete nervous breakdown. Neha can mope around the house and be rude to everyone and never accept her flaws.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Tia my girl I completely get what you are saying here but being a little older..not saying wiser..lol😆 I can relate to what Sona did today.( based on WU). I am not saying it may not come to bite her based on the track record of Dev and this show. But I for one want to view this as a glass half full.


Tomorrow maybe I will be one of the people who has to eat my words😉 depending on Dev Dixits reaction but today I am going to say that in reality stuff like this happen where disappointments may come but in view of the bigger picture we may have to give in a little and I think that is what Sona did
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Tia , what do you think Dev's reaction will be tomorrow when Neha accuses Sona?? Will Sona get shouting from Dev because she told her Parents that she doesnt want to go because there is some problem betwn Neha and Ranveer??
My heart says , there are chances...80% chances that she is going to get it from him or from some one else and he is going to be on mute mode...

Ur thoughts??
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Posted: 8 years ago
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May your wish come true. But knowing Sona's crappy luck, I doubt it. She got into life imprisonment. She will never get out of it.

Originally posted by: kalviswes

Bang on Tia!!!

Sonakshi dear-run for your life. Run back to work ASAP!!!! If you miss the Dixits-take Ria and Mamaji, they are the only semi decent ones. The rest are all 😒

Actually, my dream for Sonakshi is that she goes back to work and finds out that she needs to travel to Paris for her work---and then flies away from the Dixit madhouse for a long while and get the chance to go around Paris...that would be perfect to me. Dev can miss her and generally become a donkey to his now completely healthy and hearty mother and suffer a complete nervous breakdown. Neha can mope around the house and be rude to everyone and never accept her flaws.

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Originally posted by: gemini54

Tia my girl I completely get what you are saying here but being a little older..not saying wiser..lol😆 I can relate to what Sona did today.( based on WU). I am not saying it may not come to bite her based on the track record of Dev and this show. But I for one want to view this as a glass half full.


Tomorrow maybe I will be one of the people who has to eat my words😉 depending on Dev Dixits reaction but today I am going to say that in reality stuff like this happen where disappointments may come but in view of the bigger picture we may have to give in a little and I think that is what Sona did


I thought Sona was super smart today...I think she has slowly started to understand the short comings of this family ...I dont see her silence as sacrifice...she was being practical too...

Will copy paste what I wrote in another post
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Did she have a choice?? was she given a choice ? NO !! So she smartly handled it...she felt bad , it was evident from her expression...no point in shouting or making a scene..if she had at that point created a fuss then there is no diff betwn Sona and Neha...

If any one thinks that Sona is trying to be nice girl...no way ...she is a smart girl who knows to be happy and be self satisfied in what is being offered to her...any day conjugal bliss is much needed among a couple than HM...heard her argument to her parents " even if we had gone , then we wouldnt be happy because we will be thinking of this issue...she knows her husband very well and his reaction" so she just silently accepted .
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This what Neha is not able to be...but the real test for Sona is going to be tomorrow ..her tolerance level...we should also keep in mind she is new to these games and tantrums ..
It all depends on Dev's reaction to her sisters accusation...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree wid u to sone extent ...n i agree tomorrow if dev stays silent i ll b hurt ...
But today i can relate to sona ...coz i myself had my honeymoon cancelled due to family issues in d nick of tym n i can completely relate to dev sona
In my 4 years of marriage i ve learnt at tyms some decisions are taken wich hurt us ...come to bite us back n still dey r taken
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Don't get me wrong, Sabita. I am not saying what Sona did was wrong. In fact, there's no wrong choice for her because she was not given any option to make a decision.

Whether she decided to support Dev or insist on her happiness, there's nothing wrong in either of those choices.

But my point is that you can never make everyone happy even if you give up all your happiness. So there's nothing wrong in choosing your own happiness.

My point was that Sona's generosity was not appreciated by Dixit family and it never will be because in their mind she is a daughter-in-law and she should happily give up her hopes and dreams for others.

What good is that sacrifice for Sona?

As long as Ishwari is alive, she will never go anywhere. Dev didn't cancel his honeymoon for Neha. He cancelled because Ishwari had low BP.

And that will be repeated every single time she plans any trip with her husband. So does it mean she will never go anywhere because Dev will continue to take decisions on her behalf and keep falling for one excuse or another, one issue or another?

That should not be anyone's fate.

Originally posted by: gemini54

Tia my girl I completely get what you are saying here but being a little older..not saying wiser..lol😆 I can relate to what Sona did today.( based on WU). I am not saying it may not come to bite her based on the track record of Dev and this show. But I for one want to view this as a glass half full.


Tomorrow maybe I will be one of the people who has to eat my words😉 depending on Dev Dixits reaction but today I am going to say that in reality stuff like this happen where disappointments may come but in view of the bigger picture we may have to give in a little and I think that is what Sona did

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev's downfall is his guilt. His throat gets choked when it comes to play. I doubt he can say anything to Neha beyond stammering. Besides he was not present there when this conversation happened, so that is a handy excuse to be silent.

I will be pleasantly surprised if he stands up for Sona, but I won't hold my breath.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Tia , what do you think Dev's reaction will be tomorrow when Neha accuses Sona?? Will Sona get shouting from Dev because she told her Parents that she doesnt want to go because there is some problem betwn Neha and Ranveer??

My heart says , there are chances...80% chances that she is going to get it from him or from some one else and he is going to be on mute mode...

Ur thoughts??

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes, exactly. That's exactly what I wrote in my response to Sabita's post. Sona did nothing wrong. She did what she could in the situation she was thrown in.

But this good deed will not go unpunished in Dixit family, you mark my words.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld


I thought Sona was super smart today...I think she has slowly started to understand the short comings of this family ...I dont see her silence as sacrifice...she was being practical too...

Will copy paste what I wrote in another post
===================================================
Did she have a choice?? was she given a choice ? NO !! So she smartly handled it...she felt bad , it was evident from her expression...no point in shouting or making a scene..if she had at that point created a fuss then there is no diff betwn Sona and Neha...

If any one thinks that Sona is trying to be nice girl...no way ...she is a smart girl who knows to be happy and be self satisfied in what is being offered to her...any day conjugal bliss is much needed among a couple than HM...heard her argument to her parents " even if we had gone , then we wouldnt be happy because we will be thinking of this issue...she knows her husband very well and his reaction" so she just silently accepted .
============================================
This what Neha is not able to be...but the real test for Sona is going to be tomorrow ..her tolerance level...we should also keep in mind she is new to these games and tantrums ..
It all depends on Dev's reaction to her sisters accusation...

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