A Rough patch - 18th Oct [NOTE on pg10 for 19th OCT ep) - Page 4

Originally posted by: deepsel

Yes many clarified here..its over and the morning after pooja they are muncking Poori and Aloo😆

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

The poor girl will think he was planning their honeymoon in the courtyard and Dev will find a chance to redeem himself. Don't do this to yourself sona. Give Dev a chance to properly grow up.

Originally posted by: yyy

Oh okay ..u mean this silence of Dev mught be used against him ??

Just watched the episode...couldn't stay away 😆

Great post Deepa. 👏

Let me once again thank you and all the amazing writers in this thread and many more like Soumya who bring in so much positivity around here.

Off late there has been too many negative posts and its really sad. This show is very unique, very subtle when you compare with other hindi serials... nothing over the top

The very fact that the makers were able to sustain the momentum of the show for these many episodes is a tremendous achievement. Coz if you think about, unlike the shows here in US which are on season basis, the story for this has to be churned out on a day-to-day basis. And that in itself a humungous effort.

For this alone the CVs, actors, and all those involved in this show has to be greatly appreciated.

When you run a series by season, the team has the luxury to perfect the story, get the perfect shot... take for example NCIS. Its in season 14 now. Now If you look at KRPKAB, they don't have that luxury to sometimes look into the details and errors, omissions are bound to happen... Also something I really like about this show is that all most all episodes can be watched again and again and trust me every time I find something new... The view count in youtube channel speaks for it.

So what the team has done here is really unique and fantastic. Big kudos for that !!!

Originally posted by: sjain

Oh nice post :)

Hmm I understand everything you said ...well for Dev's behavior ..I would only call in "Stubbornness" thats it ..nothing more I have in his defense or to explain his action..what ever he did in his anger I could still be ok with it coz I relate to it yes I too get unreasonable and silly kiddish and do stupidity in anger and hurt my loved ones unintentionally..coz you loose your sane thinking when you head in burning with gussa..right wrong kahan samjh aata hai..so his reaction I can understood in that situation ..but one thing which I found objectionable was him not informing Sona that he is back home..if he wanted to stay angry toh rehta ..but alteast ek message karke bata deta that he is home..but gussa jo karwaye woh kam hai ..No I am not justifying his actions..he was harsh true..but just trying to understand it..and I personally relate to things & then I feel those emotions :)..he knew he was doing wrong and he wanted to correct it ..but ZID is ZID..


yeah seeing first thing in the morning a very cute husband sleeping...I thought she will sit in front of him to adore but woh sofa par baith gayi LOL..anyways she was giving love vibes sofa se bhi LOL

Sona's taunt to mami lade me laugh and with mamaji high 5ing nikki on that was cherry on top LOL..anyways Ishwari was herself ..she is annoying irritating and impossible..so ignoring her is the only thing I do :)

yeah that whole drawer opening scenes wasn't too dramatic but added right kind of suspense

well he worked in garden so must have fallen asleep the first place he saw

Sona looked oh so pretty in long anarkali suit <3 itni beautiful biwi se bina patchup kiye kyun gaya ..silly boy..aaj toh new wali dress bhi pehni thi LOL

yes aloo poori can be eaten ..just instead of wheat flour different kind of flour is used :)

I personally enjoyed episode alot ..for devakshi and only devakshi :)
I might be exception but It was nice to see them being idiots and silly yet yearning and pinnig for each other <3 I would rather stay away from forum ..because I am odd one out today LOL



oh yes few lines which made me think and I liked it so much :)
well put :)

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Did he think mummy came and put the shawl on him overnight?

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

The makers seem to have forgotten that this unhealthy food was banned by Dr Bose. I don't understand what's the point of these inconsistencies. And neha, riya and nikki don't move a finger? Seriously. Is that what Ishwari is teaching her daughters? Because her son can make a mean sandwich.

These random errors are all over the place.

Originally posted by: deepsel

Aww thanks honey 😊... but I dont think today's post will be perceived positive by many though I tried to maintain balance in it😆

Your post is much better than the pathetic attempts at Sarcasm by many.
If there can be a valid reason to bash a character, it is absolutely fine. We can bear it.
But when I know the correct bashings are coming from the wrong grounds(Again, that pseudo sense of being the biggest feminists on Earth), it totally loses sense.
I understand, Dev could have shown more sensitivity towards his newly wedded wife (I felt more because just before the episode aired, I had been watching the previous scenes after the patch up, before marriage. The way Dev and Ishwari were taking everything thrown their way, only for the fact that they can't wait for Sonakshi to marry Dev. They looked very promising in those scenes.) yet, I still am able to forgive Dev for being so rude, for one plain simple fact - They truly love each other. And until that love is there, it gives you a lot of courage and strength to keep going no matter what.
When I teach Accountancy to my commerce school going students, when the particular chapter of Depreciation comes, I realize giving them cheesy examples make them more attentive and actually came across this analogy that I explained them as well that :
Love and close relationships are like an Asset,
They benefit you in a long run, and you take care of them in return.
But with lapse of time, negligence, wear and tear because life is running at a mile per second, us not able to take proper care for them; the asset's value starts diminishing. They perform lesser, they benefit you lesser, your life starts getting slower because of that, you begin enduring losses. And if things keep on going this way, one day the asset's value will be completely diminished, they will have no scrap value and they will need to be replaced.

What derivation I came from this analogy was:

You don't always get opportunities to replace the "asset" after they are completely diminished. Sometimes they are just once in a lifetime investment, after which, you yourself aren't in any position to replace them. You either keep on dragging with that asset until you die or you just shut down your business coz you can't afford to get a new one.

These assets of love can be your lover and you, your mother and you, your sibling and you, your friends and you. And unfortunately, real life love assets don't many a times come with a "replacement policy".

All you can do is realize it's worth, try not losing its value at a very high rate, service it ---pamper it to be smoothly moving with the tonics of your own love, let it not look diminished to an assessor's eyes.
Try giving love in return to your love, thank them for keep on moving so smoothly along with our life, and being there for them.
We will realize that, that lifetime investment of love stays put by you all throughout your life, even when you forget to pamper them, and even when you neglect to be thankful for their omnipresent stay put nature, because they know if not today, tomorrow you will come and lubricate the engine of the asset by your love and care.

And the business of producing and spreading love around continues.

Here ends my gyaan and let's talk about Devakshi in this context now..

Though I don't think I need to explain much after this analogy in Devakshi's context, except for the fact that explains why Sonakshi still seems to be a "doormat" to her extremely obhodro husband.
Because love has the unique property of shapeshifting: It can be your punching bag when you are the most frustrated, it can even endure being your doormat with you walking on when you are your insensitive best, it can sit on your head as a a crown when you respect them, it can be your eyes when you can't see the fact, they can be your senses when you have lost yours, they can be the anger that will lash out at you when you refuse to acknowledge, and it can be your soulmate who will eventually, quietly and rightfully come in your embrace, as your equal, your partner, your love. ONLY BECAUSE, you time and again keep on adding love to the working of your love.
What ever Dev has been doing for the past three days doesn't vanish the fact that he madly loves her. And no matter how sensitive he turns to be, he loves her more than himself, otherwise he did not even need to hide that report from her, nor would he have needed to rush home like a mad, leaving all his ego aside, in a ditch attempt to save her from seeing that report.

So thank you di, your post again was a respite to me, and it brought all the angst out of me, to the people out there, for being so judgemental about those two characters for whom they watch this ruddy show and still never appreciate...

PS: Sorry for the rant. I am angry on some people out on the forum for making the environment filthy with the forced negativity, imbibing more negativity than the show intends to show, and they in return filling this lovely place with negativity at a triple rate. I have already ceased to visit the forum as less as possible for the same reason. It's for you and a few positive people out here whom I come to read and feel a little better.
Thank you for holding on to that positivity no matter what... 🤗